Sending signals?

[lucki7]

Whats the best way to let a masseur at a spa — especially one you’ve never been to before — know you’re open to more than a legit massage? I usually intentionally poorly drape myself (if at all) before he comes in, but some masseurs are understandbly gun shy (no pun intended) with new customers.

[Jameslamassage]

While you're lying face down you can always wave one of your arms around showing the thumbs-up and hope he notices LOL

[IntuitiveTactile]

Whats the best way to let a masseur at a spa — especially one you’ve never been to before — know you’re open to more than a legit massage? I usually intentionally poorly drape myself (if at all) before he comes in, but some masseurs are understandbly gun shy (no pun intended) with new customers.

Brush your hand against his thigh . If draping isn't mummy like. Spread your legs open a little so he sees your throbbing cock Hike your ass in the air as he massages your hamstrings

[+ glutes]

Spread your legs open a little so he sees your throbbing cock Hike your ass in the air as he massages your hamstrings

 

I make a nice groan when this is done.

[IntuitiveTactile]

I make a nice groan when this is done.

That made my cock jump a little

Nice touch

[hrlmguy]

Whats the best way to let a masseur at a spa — especially one you’ve never been to before — know you’re open to more than a legit massage? I usually intentionally poorly drape myself (if at all) before he comes in, but some masseurs are understandbly gun shy (no pun intended) with new customers.

 

Wait. Are you supposed to drape yourself? I never do - not necessarily as a signal but it’s just difficult to do while laying face down. Perhaps I need a massage etiquette class. Lol.

[Guest InthePines]

I just tell the masseur I had my crack waxed for this occasion and if he wants a rat's ass chance of getting a tip, he'll put it to good use, or something equally subtle. Works for me.

[img2ciya]

I usually brush my hands against his thighs, express how good it feels while he's massaging my ass (like a little moan) and spread my legs more when he reaches my ass. It worked well just the other day! haha I got exactly what I wanted.

[Cruiser7]

I’m usually a lot more subtle than you guys. When lying face down, I just make sure my hands are as close to the edge of the table as they can be without falling off. If he’s even slightly interested, he knows where my hands are, he can put his bulge there. If he does, i subtlety move my fingers once, like I’m clenching my fist and “oops, happen to touch ‘it,’” but then it’s all up to him.

 

If he continues with it there (or on the other hand as well), then it’s game on for later. If he moves away, or when he goes to the other side he doesn’t come close, that’s all the hint I need that we won’t have any fun.

 

I’ve read many providers say if he’s “right there,” he knows it and it’s not a mistake. I’ve also had legitimate massages in legitimate spas where the masseur never even comes close to where you could feel him, so IMHO if you’re close enough that I can feel you, you’re doing it on purpose.

[img2ciya]

I’m usually a lot more subtle than you guys. When lying face down, I just make sure my hands are as close to the edge of the table as they can be without falling off. If he’s even slightly interested, he knows where my hands are, he can put his bulge there. If he does, i subtlety move my fingers once, like I’m clenching my fist and “oops, happen to touch ‘it,’” but then it’s all up to him.

 

If he continues with it there (or on the other hand as well), then it’s game on for later. If he moves away, or when he goes to the other side he doesn’t come close, that’s all the hint I need that we won’t have any fun.

 

I’ve read many providers say if he’s “right there,” he knows it and it’s not a mistake. I’ve also had legitimate massages in legitimate spas where the masseur never even comes close to where you could feel him, so IMHO if you’re close enough that I can feel you, you’re doing it on purpose.

It depends on the situation for me too, of course. I'm more bold with guys I meet on sites like MM4M, MF, rentmasseur or at spas that are more famous for being "friendlier." In fact, for the independent masseurs, I almost always start my request asking for them to be nude too. I hate wasting my time and dealing with "oh, that's more money" if they find out what I want later. With a new masseur in a spa, I'll make my desires known slowly, like you mentioned with a hand brushing his thigh. Once that seems to work, I make more obvious moves to move things along at a quicker pace, as I mentioned above, in order to get to the good part.

[TopVolt]

This is easy guys, enjoy your massage while you are facing down, if you start thinking about what will or will not happen at the end, then you will miss half of the fun. The real action happens when you are asked to face up, at that point, the slightest brush on my junk is a sign for me, this is a simple rule, if you touch I touch, and the fun starts. It always works for me.

[img2ciya]

This is easy guys, enjoy your massage while you are facing down, if you start thinking about what will or will not happen at the end, then you will miss half of the fun. The real action happens when you are asked to face up, at that point, the slightest brush on my junk is a sign for me, this is a simple rule, if you touch I touch, and the fun starts. It always works for me.

True it's important to enjoy the actual massage part but I prefer some fun while I'm still face down too.

[TopVolt]

True it's important to enjoy the actual massage part but I prefer some fun while I'm still face down too.

 

But always remember, if he touch you touch ;-)

[MassageDrew]

I don’t even go under the covers period. If he wants to cover me go ahead but I’m staying uncovered to give him full access LOL

 

Also, I usually let out a sigh or slight moan as he massages me. It lets him know I’m enjoying his touch. And I’ve clenched my cheeks as he ran his hands in between to make him think I’m excited. Never fails.

 

I was a little worried at my last massage cuz it was with a masseur I’ve seen before. This time he put a small towel over my ass. I was like “WTF??&&@&” But as it progressed the towel came off. I panicked for no reason LOL