Massage by Garic in San Francisco?

[ketut]

had a great massage with Garic. Hot as his pics. He can be quiet but that's ok with me.

[Massageislife]

What are you trying to say? That all men who seek out sensual or erotic experiences with other men are effeminate?

No, I'm not saying that. In a sexist culture--which all cultures are to varying degrees, unfortunately-- men and women are kept in their place (which is with men in a generally dominant position) by rigidly defining what men and women can be. Sexual interest in men has always been defined as a feminine thing, which is a way of stigmatizing women who desire other women and of stigmatizing men who desire men.

 

We've all got age, race, size, and gender performance preferences when it comes to sexual attraction, but it's painful to see the most damaging ones ("no fats, no femmes," "I'm not into [name the race] guys") show up on a site like this, which, at it's best, can be a place of real pleasure, humor, and support for each other.