Way to find sensual massage under current circumstances

[510guy]

As someone who just goes the sensual/erotic massage route it has gotten tougher to find out who does what.

 

Aside from asking here and even that is harder since the links and names are so generic now in MF do I:

 

A) ask the masseur if he does sensual or therapeutic only? Some masseur are put off by this question or will have a very vague answer. And ads can no longer give any suggestions of types of massage. Understably both parties will not be explicit

 

b) go escort route and see if they charge a lower route which not all do since it is for time spent only or they know some are being cheap. But I am just am not willing to pay $250-$300 for a massage.

 

What to do?

[IntuitiveTactile]

links and names are so generic now i

You may not be able to search by name in masseurfinder however searching by name via Google... For example, "Masseur Hollywood Clark" still provides an immediate link to the masseurfinder.com profile

[LivingnLA]

The language is ambiguous and tricky because ALL massage is sensual in the sense that it engages with the senses in an intimate way. So, in the strictest sense, every massage provider is sensual. What you really are asking: is there an erotic component?

 

Finding out if erotic activity is involved is hard because you're essentially searching for prostitution (money exchanged for genital contact is viewed as prostitution in many countries). No smart provider will admit to a crime in any form of communication that's potential evidence.

 

Ask about draping, ask about massage techniques or philosophy, or you can do what I do and just read the ads, find one I like, and take a chance. Sometimes it works out and is far beyond a massage and sometimes it's "just" a massage. For me, it's far more important that I find guys who actually provide a good skilled massage. Everything else is a pleasant surprise.

 

Another option would be to use the reviews on Daddy's and the threads in this forum to filter your choices. You could also create a thread saying where you are and roughly what you're looking for and ask for recommendations.

[510guy]

I agree. I would never ask for any one to ahead of time agree to do anything as I know each experience is different. I guess the only thing if I am paying $120-$170 I would want to know is if he will be nude and HE. Other than that I don't ask and realize each person has his boundaries which I need to respect.

[Daniel84]

To be honest as a Massage Therpist if clients ask to many question I say “ All I can Legally say is it’s a full Body Massage”

 

I never know who’s on the other side of the conversation. It’s best for me to be cautious. Some clients do not get the hints so most of the time they do not book me.

 

 

As someone who just goes the sensual/erotic massage route it has gotten tougher to find out who does what.

 

Aside from asking here and even that is harder since the links and names are so generic now in MF do I:

 

A) ask the masseur if he does sensual or therapeutic only? Some masseur are put off by this question or will have a very vague answer. And ads can no longer give any suggestions of types of massage. Understably both parties will not be explicit

 

b) go escort route and see if they charge a lower route which not all do since it is for time spent only or they know some are being cheap. But I am just am not willing to pay $250-$300 for a massage.

 

What to do?

[+ LAdude424]

@Chris1976 WTF???

[510guy]

To be honest as a Massage Therpist if clients ask to many question I say “ All I can Legally say is it’s a full Body Massage”

 

I never know who’s on the other side of the conversation. It’s best for me to be cautious. Some clients do not get the hints so most of the time they do not book me.

 

That is a good way of putting it "full body massage", most masseur would know what customer is implying.

[510guy]

it's always a roll of the dice sometimes. Last week guy calls saying he wants a 90 minutes deep tissue massage. Asks no other questions. The appointment was set for 7:30 pm, He calls at 6pm asks my partner if he can come at 6:30 partner says no that I'm currently in a session until 7 and I take a 30-minute break between clients. 7;30 comes and I find out this guy has been in the parking lot since 6 pm he admits this. Then gets on the table, removes the draping which in the original conversation he asks for. starts asking for more. not just nude or He by the way. he starts whining asking for oral anal, tries to grab my head and force me down on him. I didn't say no once but 4 times during this. Then he asks if he can come over and have sex with me when my partners not home. I excuse myself leave the room to shaken to deal with him. My partner goes in and tells him to get dressed to pay and to get out. Still, this guy called and left messages until I finally blocked him 2 days ago.

 

I have never see your ad but for some reason you seem to be getting the creepy ones.

[+ 7829V]

in close to 20 years and around 10.000 clients I've had only 2 that extreme. I've had maybe 30 id never take back including 1 female at a high-end resort. In the last 3 years, I've had less than 10 no-shows. 3 of those paid. I take 70 clients a month. I removed my ad from massagem4m over a year ago due to that paying for photos racket they had going on. And removed mine from masseur finder today. I figured id have enough regulars to last me until June when I retire. I like a challenge and building new things and the excitement of creating something new led to my choice

How do you "fire" a client in your industry? Someone that you already met but refuse to see again. Just be blunt and say it as it is?