No $$ exchanged friendship/"relationship" with an Escort?

[Guest ncm2169]

I happen to find myself in a true "no strings" relationship with an escort which includes sharing living space, intimacy, and much more. }( Any financial matters between us have nothing to do with sex. He pays his own way - I have loaned him money occasionally and paid for some emergencies when he was short of cash, but in each instance he's always paid me back in full, no questions asked. He's an amazing guy and I feel like I'm living a dream. :9

 

I also have a close online client buddy who has something of a similar relationship with an escort which began as a hiring "arrangement" and evolved into something of a no-cash-exchanged no-strings partnership.

 

So, I'm naturally curious. Has anyone else here had a similar relationship with an escort?

[Guest ncm2169]

I happen to find myself in a true "no strings" relationship with an escort which includes sharing living space, intimacy, and much more. }( Any financial matters between us have nothing to do with sex. He pays his own way - I have loaned him money occasionally and paid for some emergencies when he was short of cash, but in each instance he's always paid me back in full, no questions asked. He's an amazing guy and I feel like I'm living a dream. :9

 

I also have a close online client buddy who has something of a similar relationship with an escort which began as a hiring "arrangement" and evolved into something of a no-cash-exchanged no-strings partnership.

 

So, I'm naturally curious. Has anyone else here had a similar relationship with an escort?

[FourAces]

YES YES YES.

 

I was very lucky to have a 3 year relationship with a guy who escorted only a few months. I have no clue the attraction to me ... it wasn't money as I gave him none. He even paid part of my rent for 2 of the 3 years.

 

I used to ask why me what does he want but then I decidede to relax and enjoy it ... and I did enjoy it.

 

Now I miss him dearly.

[FourAces]

YES YES YES.

 

I was very lucky to have a 3 year relationship with a guy who escorted only a few months. I have no clue the attraction to me ... it wasn't money as I gave him none. He even paid part of my rent for 2 of the 3 years.

 

I used to ask why me what does he want but then I decidede to relax and enjoy it ... and I did enjoy it.

 

Now I miss him dearly.

[Greathands]

RE: No $$ exchanged friendship/"relationship" with an Escort?

 

My experience was a bit different than yours ... and I laugh when I think back on it.

 

A 19 year old who was working for a local escort agency rented a room from me for a period of time. We were quite friendly, but never were intimate. He was pretty hot, was quite popular at the agency, and therefore made some pretty damn good money.

 

He had a few "regulars" who were extremely generous with him. It wasn't unusual for him to make more in a week than I would in a month. However, being 19 and out on his own for the first time, he wasn't very good with money.

 

No matter how many appointments he would have, he would usually need to borrow a few bucks to grab something to eat, etc ... but he was pretty good at paying back.

 

The interesting part of the experience came one evening when wanted to borrow $40 to go out and eat with some friends. $40 isn't that much ... but what shocked me was knowing he needed to borrow $40 when he had made $2500 only three nights earlier on an overnight. (first of all, it amazes me how easily some guys hand over cash to these guys ... but that's another story.)

 

Luckily, I'm a pretty quick thinker. I told him that from then on I'd be glad to loan him money ... BUT ... seeing as he made a hell of a lot more money than I did, there would now be a 50% loan fee. Borrow $40, pay back $60. He agreed ... lol.

 

Let's just say that I made some good money during the next couple of months he lived with me!

[Greathands]

RE: No $$ exchanged friendship/"relationship" with an Escort?

 

My experience was a bit different than yours ... and I laugh when I think back on it.

 

A 19 year old who was working for a local escort agency rented a room from me for a period of time. We were quite friendly, but never were intimate. He was pretty hot, was quite popular at the agency, and therefore made some pretty damn good money.

 

He had a few "regulars" who were extremely generous with him. It wasn't unusual for him to make more in a week than I would in a month. However, being 19 and out on his own for the first time, he wasn't very good with money.

 

No matter how many appointments he would have, he would usually need to borrow a few bucks to grab something to eat, etc ... but he was pretty good at paying back.

 

The interesting part of the experience came one evening when wanted to borrow $40 to go out and eat with some friends. $40 isn't that much ... but what shocked me was knowing he needed to borrow $40 when he had made $2500 only three nights earlier on an overnight. (first of all, it amazes me how easily some guys hand over cash to these guys ... but that's another story.)

 

Luckily, I'm a pretty quick thinker. I told him that from then on I'd be glad to loan him money ... BUT ... seeing as he made a hell of a lot more money than I did, there would now be a 50% loan fee. Borrow $40, pay back $60. He agreed ... lol.

 

Let's just say that I made some good money during the next couple of months he lived with me!

[Guest]

RE: No $$ exchanged friendship/"relationship" with an Escort?

 

Ah, gee... maybe he had a drug habit...

[Guest]

RE: No $$ exchanged friendship/"relationship" with an Escort?

 

Ah, gee... maybe he had a drug habit...

[+ deej]

Yes, several times.

 

I kinda miss the last one. He crashed at my place "just for a couple of days" and stayed here for over a year. There was nothing intimate but he was fun eye candy to have walking around the place and he was a FABULOUS housekeeper. My place never looked better!

 

He brought in a live-in bf for a couple of weeks, which didn't thrill me at all until the boytoy started spending almost as much time in bed with me as with him (which was my first clue the relationship was headed south).

 

They've always been fair situations to both sides, although I'm sure it was my financial position that enabled them. No qualms or quibbles there. If I was broke they wouldn't have been leaning on me. But it was mutually satisfying none the less.

[+ deej]

Yes, several times.

 

I kinda miss the last one. He crashed at my place "just for a couple of days" and stayed here for over a year. There was nothing intimate but he was fun eye candy to have walking around the place and he was a FABULOUS housekeeper. My place never looked better!

 

He brought in a live-in bf for a couple of weeks, which didn't thrill me at all until the boytoy started spending almost as much time in bed with me as with him (which was my first clue the relationship was headed south).

 

They've always been fair situations to both sides, although I'm sure it was my financial position that enabled them. No qualms or quibbles there. If I was broke they wouldn't have been leaning on me. But it was mutually satisfying none the less.

[Greathands]

RE: No $$ exchanged friendship/"relationship" with an Escort?

 

Actually ... NOT! I pretty much knew where all his cash went. He poured big bucks into his pride and joy car ... why anyone needs to watch DVD's while driving is beyond me. Plus he was extremely generous with those around him, paying for their drinks, food, etc. He was a nice kid, but had his issues (don't we all). He enjoyed being the center of his friend's attention, even if it meant spending his $ to ensure their favor. I'm pretty positive he wasn't taking any drugs (at that time), but I wouldn't be surprised if he paid for some of his friend's drugs.

[Greathands]

RE: No $$ exchanged friendship/"relationship" with an Escort?

 

Actually ... NOT! I pretty much knew where all his cash went. He poured big bucks into his pride and joy car ... why anyone needs to watch DVD's while driving is beyond me. Plus he was extremely generous with those around him, paying for their drinks, food, etc. He was a nice kid, but had his issues (don't we all). He enjoyed being the center of his friend's attention, even if it meant spending his $ to ensure their favor. I'm pretty positive he wasn't taking any drugs (at that time), but I wouldn't be surprised if he paid for some of his friend's drugs.