Incalls

[+ Avalon]

There was discussion about clients not giving the escort their address and thus flaking out.

 

But for incalls when does the escort give their address? Do you fear once your address is known a client might come by unexpectedly or even stalk you? Or come by when you're not home and rob you?

[+ VictorPowers]

Avalon with your questions! Such an inquiring mind!

I only do local Out calls. 99% of my local clients are in Utah on business so it is not an issue. I don't provide my home to host clients as I like to keep business and personal life separate. The majority of my business involves traveling, so I simply provide my hotel name and address.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

But for incalls when does the escort give their address?

 

My escorts and masseurs give me their home address 1 or 2 hours before the meeting. Before that, I just know which subway stop they are near.

 

For the other questions, only escorts can answer.

[+ Avalon]

Avalon with your questions! Such an inquiring mind!

I only do local Out calls. 99% of my local clients are in Utah on business so it is not an issue. I don't provide my home to host clients as I like to keep business and personal life separate. The majority of my business involves traveling, so I simply provide my hotel name and address.

 

Maybe you should change the info here because it says you do incalls.

 

https://rent.men/VictorPowers

[+ VictorPowers]

Yes. I'm away from my home more often than not so it wouldn't make sense to remove it. I'll typically even book a room locally for a client if it comes down to it. This hasn't been an issue, so I'm advertising both.

[FTM Zachary Prince]

Nowadays I screen my clients, and I don't host from my home either. I will usually give the name and address of the hotel where I will be hosting our meeting as soon as I have the information confirmed. Should be by 24-48 hours in advance. Before then I will give the exact neighbourhood. For example, the Houston Galleria, NYC's Midtown East, Chicago's Magnificent Mile, SF's Union Square, etc. The only thing I do not give until the client confirms that he's physically arrived at my location is my room number.

 

Before I used to screen my clients however... well that was a different story. Maybe this is a phenomenon mostly limited to straight men & female escorts, but I had good reason to fear giving out my exact location in advance. We would typically employ a three call system back in those days. First call to make the (same day, last minute) booking, when I would give a set of cross-streets located nearby. Second call when the client reached those cross-streets, so I could give the exact name of my hotel. Third call when the client reached the parking lot of my hotel so I could give my room number. Kind of an odd procedure, but it did help to sort the serious clients from the jokers. If the client claims to be at said nearby intersection but I can hear his buddies drinking and the TV blaring in the background of the phone call, obviously he's lying for some reason. That guy would never get my address. God I'm glad these times are in the past for me...

 

I do not host Incalls at home for the reasons mentioned in the OP. Yes I DO fear someone will stalk me. In today's times, a rental apartment can still be lost easily if one is discovered to be an escort. This gives my clients way too much opportunity to exploit me unfortunately. I don't even let clients see the license plates on my car unless it's a rental. Most of my clients would never do such a thing but it really only takes one bad egg and you never know who the bad egg is until it's cracked open and you're in the middle of a mess. Best to just take safety precautions IMO.

 

Screening my clients and hosting exclusively from hotels and rentals has pretty much eliminated my address-related concerns now tho. I'm forthcoming about my hosting address as long as my exact hotel plans are confirmed.

[KennF]

Maybe you should change the info here because it says you do incalls.

 

https://rent.men/VictorPowers

 

I read an "InCall" as being able to Host.

If he is staying at a local hotel (or guest house or B+B), then I interpret the InCall as willing to have me cum to his hotel.

[+ Avalon]

Yes. I'm away from my home more often than not so it wouldn't make sense to remove it. I'll typically even book a room locally for a client if it comes down to it. This hasn't been an issue, so I'm advertising both.

 

I understand. Thanks!

[marylander1940]

There was discussion about clients not giving the escort their address and thus flaking out.

 

But for incalls when does the escort give their address? Do you fear once your address is known a client might come by unexpectedly or even stalk you? Or come by when you're not home and rob you?

 

At the moment of booking or when I head over I need to know: address, apt. number/room number and if needed code for me to get in.

 

I'm aware that 5% to 10% of hotels require a key to come up. I might tailgate and I'll need to know the room number.

 

I remember a Belgian escort who was so secretive about his room number... it was a glimpse into his paranoid mind.

 

Meet at the corner? This ain't e-harmony...

[+ ButchAtl]

As a client for an incall I need to know the area of a city so as to at least know how to plan the trip.

Especially for an out of town escort doing incalls at his hotel, the hotel name at least is needed.