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very weird that he refuses to not take your money and wants to get the money from another client. If It was me I would have rather you give me the money as your someone I am comfortable with and we care for one another. But this is a just a recipe for disaster these client/escort relationship almost never work out, your going to get jealous, he's going to keep escorting, unless you both sit down and compromise one of y'all wills always be hurt

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very weird that he refuses to not take your money and wants to get the money from another client. If It was me I would have rather you give me the money as your someone I am comfortable with and we care for one another. But this is a just a recipe for disaster these client/escort relationship almost never work out, your going to get jealous, he's going to keep escorting, unless you both sit down and compromise one of y'all wills always be hurt

 

Well, then he would be a "kept" man and perhaps that's NOT the type of personal relational he is seeking. I respect that he doesnt want to take the OP's money, and chooses to make his own way, but you MUST be an open relationship type of person to make this work. (and never throw his profession back in his face)....

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very weird that he refuses to not take your money and wants to get the money from another client. If It was me I would have rather you give me the money as your someone I am comfortable with and we care for one another. But this is a just a recipe for disaster these client/escort relationship almost never work out, your going to get jealous, he's going to keep escorting, unless you both sit down and compromise one of y'all wills always be hurt

 

Sounds like he wants to be independent financially. He wants to be an equal partner and not dependent.

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This question has been in my mind since I started reading posts on this thread:

 

Does monogamy work? It has always been debated in heterosexual relationships. How does it play in homosexual relationships?

Avalon Grand Master

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This question has been in my mind since I started reading posts on this thread:

 

Does monogamy work? It has always been debated in heterosexual relationships. How does it play in homosexual relationships?

 

It can. Monogamy shouldn't be dismissed as a straight thing. However a couple has to discuss what they want in their relationship and the boundaries to be set.

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I recently was involved in a dating situation with an escort I only saw once. He stop charging me for dates and said just want to hang out with me because he enjoys it. We began to see each other more and feel the connection is getting deeper. Then, now when he goes out to see other clients, I started to become more jealous and even offer him the equivalent amount for him to not to see that client. Of course he rejected my money. What should I do? I am so confused if I should suggest him stop taking clients or not.

 

Have you talked to him about it? I understand needing some insight, wisdom and feedback, but you need to tell him how you feel.

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I hear you. But when he leave the door to see clients, it felt like stabbing in my heart. Not to make this dramatic, but I think I can't share someone that I have attached feeling.

 

Although, this is his way to make a living. Such a dilemma for me.

Is there anything specific about him that made you fall in love with him?

Was it something physical about him...or something in his attitude...

or the way he had sex with you? Sorry to ask such personal questions,

but everyone (most) is anonymous here...

 

NG

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There definitely needs to be a conversation between you and him so you're on the same page about what you want and expect from this relationship. Keep it causal and non-confrontation. Jealousy is the worst emotion you could possibly feel and it breeds from not showing your cards.

 

I have a similar situation with my regular masseur. It started out as legit massages but turned sexual after our third or fourth session. Over time, I started developing stronger feelings for him because he's so funny and we have a lot in common. I usually tip him a lot for a session, but he told me it wasn't necessary since I was a loyal regular client. There were times when I wanted more from him, but since he's married, I knew he wouldn't be free to date. So this is what we came up with: I would continue to get treatments from him, but they would be strictly therapeutic and conversational - I still tip him, but mainly for the massage now. And I would invite him over to my place a few nights a month to play. I've realized I don't really want a boyfriend to do groceries, laundry, and couples brunches with. For me, it's more about the occasional companionship with someone I have emotional and physical chemistry with. This may not be a direct parallel to your situation, but it may help break down what it is you actually want from your guy.

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