411 on Matthew in San Diego (purely thereapeutic?)

[+ 7829V]

It seems to be legit, purely therapeutic. I wonder if he'd go beyond therapeutic with time.

He's a handsome guy.

 

https://www.sweetlifemassagetherapy.com/

$60 hr $90 1 1/2 hr $120 2hr

 

This caught my eye:

 

It's entirely up to you how much clothing you wish to remain on you during your entire massage. Based upon your comfort level you may leave whatever clothing item you feel is comfortable. If you decide to go fully nude, no private body parts will be exposed. Matt uses professional draping taught at massage school to ensure you are comfortable throughout the session. No one will be exposed and sheets will be used throughout the entire session. You will be uncovered when that specific region or body part such as the back, legs, arms, neck, glutes, feet, and hands are being worked on with consent.

 

[+ glutes]

"I wonder if he'd go beyond therapeutic with time."

 

Methinks not.

[+ Just Sayin]

@7829V, you might want to give it a whirl and see if he has the potential to provide you with a more sensual experience!

[+ 7829V]

@Oaktown I think you are right.

[uSER=8020]@Just Sayin'[/uSER] I'll do that.

 

I think I'll see him a few times and see how it evolves.

Even with MF guys, I never ask for sensual/erotic, I just let it happen. So I'll do the same here.

I wonder how he'll react if I get an erection... Most professionals just ignore them. Would he massage glutes? Inner tights? I wonder.

Edited September 29, 2017 by 7829V

[+ Just Sayin]

@7829V you just don't know until you get into the massage; chemistry will be a factor, and if you see him multiple times, you will develop a trust level that may make him more amenable to something more sensual

[lets go]

Of the more than a dozen licensed , therapeutic therapists I have been to all but 2 have provided a HE at some point. Some took longer than others . All advertised as legit therapeutic places. One worked at a chiropractor office and a couple others worked out of legit massage places. Maybe I have just been luckily. I sometimes take it as a challenge....lol

[+ 7829V]

Of the more than a dozen licensed , therapeutic therapists I have been to all but 2 have provided a HE at some point. Some took longer than others . All advertised as legit therapeutic places. One worked at a chiropractor office and a couple others worked out of legit massage places. Maybe I have just been luckily. I sometimes take it as a challenge....lol

Wow. Great! Thanks for sharing.

When you said some took longer than others... how many sessions are we talking about? 2-5? more than 10?

Did they upsell or it happened naturally?

[marylander1940]

"I wonder if he'd go beyond therapeutic with time."

 

Methinks not.

 

@7829V, you might want to give it a whirl and see if he has the potential to provide you with a more sensual experience!

 

Or yinz can pay a few extra bucks and hire an escort who will give you a massage before the "real action" starts or at the end of the hour together.

[+ 7829V]

Or yinz can pay a few extra bucks and hire an escort who will give you a massage before the "real action" starts or at the end of the hour together.

True... but the anticipation of the unexpected with a regular "masseur" makes it more fun.

[lets go]

I would say the average is around 2 to 5 sessions. After the first couple of sessions I think you can get a good idea how it will progress. The draping gets a little more relaxed, they start to do more work on glutes, inner thighs, going lower on the abs over time. After a few sessions I may mention that I am fine without draping if it is easier for them.

 

I have never been upsold as they are all legit places and it just happens naturally. The key is just to act normally as you interact with him in the common area of the place where there may be other people and coworkers around. They have to know you won’t expose them. Most times if it leads to a HE neither one of us will talk about it and pretend it didn’t happen. It can be interesting to have a guy jerk you off and then shortly after you are standing with him at the receptionist paying and making your next appointment. Both of you know what just happened but no one else has a clue.

[+ 7829V]

I would say the average is around 2 to 5 sessions. After the first couple of sessions I think you can get a good idea how it will progress. The draping gets a little more relaxed, they start to do more work on glutes, inner thighs, going lower on the abs over time. After a few sessions I may mention that I am fine without draping if it is easier for them.

 

I have never been upsold as they are all legit places and it just happens naturally. The key is just to act normally as you interact with him in the common area of the place where there may be other people and coworkers around. They have to know you won’t expose them. Most times if it leads to a HE neither one of us will talk about it and pretend it didn’t happen. It can be interesting to have a guy jerk you off and then shortly after you are standing with him at the receptionist paying and making your next appointment. Both of you know what just happened but no one else has a clue.

Thanks for sharing these details! Do you get erections while they are working on you..? That might be a clue for them too.

[lets go]

If they are working on my inner thighs or abs then I usually get hard. Not a tell tale sign as I assume most guys do. Even those seeking strictly therapeutic work. Usually there may be an “accidentally “ bush up against my cock just to get a reaction. If you don’t react negatively I think they are more comfortable going farther next time. Just my experience of course.

 

I am 2 sessions in with a new therapist as we speak. Based one the last session I think my able 1 or 2 more and we will be there lol.

[MisterMike]

I have to echo the same as @lets go - I have had dozens of legit masseurs who after a few sessions have gotten a little more handsy.

 

I think there's a few factors:

• I always tip very well.
  
• I keep it casual and not creepy or trying to get a HE.
  
• I'm a big leaker so I'm certain I've left wet spots on the sheet and the draping.
  
• I have a pretty big dick that's hard to ignore when hard. (Except for when they use a like 50-pound blanket type sheet or drape so tight you can barely move.)
  

[+ 7829V]

I have to echo the same as @lets go - I have had dozens of legit masseurs who after a few sessions have gotten a little more handsy.

 

I think there's a few factors:

• I always tip very well.
  
• I keep it casual and not creepy or trying to get a HE.
  
• I'm a big leaker so I'm certain I've left wet spots on the sheet and the draping.
  
• I have a pretty big dick that's hard to ignore when hard. (Except for when they use a like 50-pound blanket type sheet or drape so tight you can barely move.)
  

Do you even tip when the masseur is the owner of the practice? I can understand when is just a worker. But when he’s the owner I’d think it twice, I don’t feel that is that necessary to tip.

[lets go]

I think the second point *keep it causal and not creepy * is maybe the most important one. Don’t be that guy.

 

I also think not being aggressive about touching the therapist goes a long way also. If he is into that he will make sure he leans into you and postions his body so there can be some casual contact with his junk against your arm hand etc. Especially during the first few sessions. Just let things play out over a few sessions. Just my experience and YYMV.

[lets go]

I tip either way. A little more if they just work there and a little less if they are the owner. Just letting them know you enjoyed and “approved” of the session.

[MisterMike]

Do you even tip when the masseur is the owner of the practice? I can understand when is just a worker. But when he’s the owner I’d think it twice, I don’t feel that is that necessary to tip.

I always tip, and in direct proportion to my pleasure with the service. I just feel like it's the right thing to do.

[fratphysicals]

I think it's pretty clear with his ad that he is strictly therapeutic, but who knows. Let us know if someone gives him a shot.

[samK]

Do you even tip when the masseur is the owner of the practice? I can understand when is just a worker. But when he’s the owner I’d think it twice, I don’t feel that is that necessary to tip.

Yes darling. It is very modern to tip the owners, when they are providing services.

From a business perspective, masseurs are commission paid and being the owner does not necessarily mean he is making any money from the business, he is only making the commission from his massages. All the workers (including the owners portion of) commission goes to the overhead of the business. (rent, elec, etc..) 75% of small business like these operate without making a profit, which is why the owners are still providing services. Sad that the American dream is holding on by a thread.

[+ 7829V]

If they are working on my inner thighs or abs then I usually get hard. Not a tell tale sign as I assume most guys do. Even those seeking strictly therapeutic work. Usually there may be an “accidentally “ bush up against my cock just to get a reaction. If you don’t react negatively I think they are more comfortable going farther next time. Just my experience of course.

 

I am 2 sessions in with a new therapist as we speak. Based one the last session I think my able 1 or 2 more and we will be there lol.

 

Hi @lets go Do you have any update on this "new therapist"... how did it go?