NYC Question

[CJinNYC]

Hi,

I'm new to this world as I've never had a m4m massage. Can someone please recommend a place or professional based on what I'd like to find?

 

Ideally, I'd like the following:(1) a really good massage... not a massage that is a pretext for BFE or extras. Those are secondary for me (2) somewhere that is clean and not sketchy (3) a professional that isn't sketchy (4) something sensual would be great, but nothing that becomes overly sexual (i.e. a BFE)... at most, maybe an attractive masseur who is nude and hung... but that's really it.

 

Any advice will be appreciated.

[+ EVdude]

Welcome to the forum! It's a big exciting massage world. Few questions upfront to help better respond:

 

Do you have any initial preference for a spa type of setting versus the home/studio of an individual masseur?

 

Looking for any particular physical traits in a masseur beyond "attractive, nude and hung"?

[CJinNYC]

Welcome to the forum! It's a big exciting massage world. Few questions upfront to help better respond:

 

Do you have any initial preference for a spa type of setting versus the home/studio of an individual masseur?

 

Looking for any particular physical traits in a masseur beyond "attractive, nude and hung"?

 

Thanks so much for replying and welcoming me.

 

I'm pretty open to home v. Studio, so long as it's not my home. Im a little more nervous about a home/incall for safety reasons -- is that normal? Or are the in home massages pretty safe? Also, are the sites (masseurfinder... backpage... craigslist... rentmasseur) legit? Honestly, some strike me as escort/sexual services disguised as massage (it's a fine line, I'm sure... and I know I'm looking for something beyond a traditional massage. I'm just not interested in sex, even oral. HE and sensual touching is fine... just nothing that would put me at risk of an STI/D).

 

In terms of other characteristics, and in addition to the above, I like smooth/athletic/clean cut/somewhat muscular guys... also on the younger side (under 40).

 

As for skills, someone certified in massage therapy would be an extra benefit. I'm active/athletic and have tight shoulders and upper back issues.

 

Thank you so much for your help. As a newcomer, I feel overwhelmed by everything I'm reading. I also have a stressful career and have been told that I need to start getting massages to help!

 

-CJ

[+ Italiano]

smooth, muscular, clean cut, excellent massage, around 40, hung, touching and HE.....

 

I think you would like Eli very much:

 

https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/eliblu.shtml

[CJinNYC]

smooth, muscular, clean cut, excellent massage, around 40, hung, touching and HE.....

 

I think you would like Eli very much:

 

https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/eliblu.shtml

 

Thanks for the recommendation!

[Jose Anmo]

best way is to go to masseurfinder and browser through the list of guys there and then come to this forum and find info on them.

[CJinNYC]

best way is to go to masseurfinder and browser through the list of guys there and then come to this forum and find info on them.

 

Thank you!

[+ beethoven]

CJ, please note that Jose Anmo said "Come to this forum and find info on them." That is the BEST advice you will get all year! DO NOT rely on reviews that you find on Masseurfinder, M4M, or any other massage site. When you find a masseur that you think you will like, post a 411 here, and you will get reliable, honest evaluations and information.

[+ EVdude]

In terms of other characteristics, and in addition to the above, I like smooth/athletic/clean cut/somewhat muscular guys... also on the younger side (under 40).

 

As for skills, someone certified in massage therapy would be an extra benefit. I'm active/athletic and have tight shoulders and upper back issues.

KT fits all of these qualities. Sweet guy too. Some people are turned off by his postage stamp size studio. I sorta like the intimate cocoon feeling.

 

https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/hypnotic_k.shtml

[CJinNYC]

CJ, please note that Jose Anmo said "Come to this forum and find info on them." That is the BEST advice you will get all year! DO NOT rely on reviews that you find on Masseurfinder, M4M, or any other massage site. When you find a masseur that you think you will like, post a 411 here, and you will get reliable, honest evaluations and information.

 

Thank you!

[+ Italiano]

KT fits all of these qualities. Sweet guy too. Some people are turned off by his postage stamp size studio. I sorta like the intimate cocoon feeling.

 

https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/hypnotic_k.shtml

 

Hi there. KT looks like a good looking sexy man. Does he works in the buff @EVdude ?...

[+ EVdude]

No, typically shirtless with loose shorts.