Worst Escort Experience Ever

[MikeBiDude]

And how did the escort respond?

He understood, took the small (20% maybe?) portion of his fee I offered and he left.

 

Another time, at my own home..I opened the door, I said "you're not the guy in the advertisement, goodbye" and shut the door!

[gallahadesquire]

Someone I'd flow in to Boston at least semiannually for four years (for a weekend) suddenly became completely non-interactive. No touching at all, let alone anything else. That was the last time I saw him.

 

Three months later I started a three-and-a-half month hospitalization that almost killed me. Maybe he knew?

[LaffingBear]

Boy it must be difficult and risky to only pay a portion of their fee.

Every situation is different. But really, I doubt its often very risky.

 

I've been through a few experiences where my initial feeling was "uh oh" and to be afraid. But I took a deep breath and refused to be victimized. Its easier at their place... you can leave. Ive done that at least twice (more grossed out than afraid)

 

In my hotel - I had a guy feign sleep, said it was low blood sugar. I waited a few minutes for him to appear better, gave him a partial payment, told him to leave. He made some threatening comments, I picked up phone and said Id call security. He left.

 

One of the dumbest things I ever did was, from an ad (craigs or SF BAR) agree to pick up a guy at a corner on Castro St. I cruised by... didnt see him. Circled the block... saw a guy, thought ugh, is that him? I should have driven away. But we do stupid things when horny... circled the block again and picked him up.

 

It was a mistake from the beginning. Skanky. Creepy. I said not interested. He unzipped, as if flashing his dick would help. I declined. I offered a few bucks. All the while, driving around. Went to a parking lot by local Safeway. Gave him money, said "get out" He wouldn't. Because there was a Jamba Juice (or similar) he said I should at least buy him a smoothie. I was getting scared. But I took a breath, made certain I had my keys, got out of car, walked around to passenger door, opened it and yanked him out. He sauntered away.

 

I was scared inside. I remember weighing possibilities of leaving him in my car when I stepped out. But I wasnt going to be the victim. And, even if the bad guys dont think through all of the psychology, they're relying on fear to get away with crap.

 

There may be some times where I choose safety if I feel genuinely threatened. But I've realized that most situations, the risks are very low, and it would be my choice to be victimized.

 

For most people, if you think back on situations where someone took advantage of you... you can identify that there were opportunities to prevent it.