Straight dudes: Russian vs American hang-ups

[BoyBerlin]

@7829V: haha..okay.. Are you a top when you hire?

[+ 7829V]

@7829V: haha..okay.. Are you a top when you hire?

Yes, I am.

[BoyBerlin]

@7829V Okay cool! First thing is I will only hire a straight guy if he is listed as versatile. I don't care how hot he is..If I can't pound his ass and have him suck my cock I don't see the point in hiring. Second thing is when I call I always make it very clear that I will want to fuck his ass, kiss and be sucked. assuming we agree on a time, place, price, etc. we then meet (I don't have guys at my place so normally their place or a hotel). When its a straight guy I try to keep it very much about the sex.. I don't go into small chitchat because this is their goal. A lot of them will try to spend the whole hour talking because the sex part they aren't into (not there for chat). As soon as I get in the bedroom I start to kiss, grab ass, and then start to push their head toward my cock to suck. I don't let them suck too much because a lot of the time they are just trying to get you off without having to get fucked. Then, I rip off all our cloths, I play with their ass ass, normally finger them a little to loosen them up.. Then ask for a condom and some lube.. I am gentle in the beginning to get there ass looses enough to fuck the way I want and then start to pound them in different positions until I cum...

 

I find with the straight guys it can be really hot actually but the trick is to be a very cocky client and be in control... I know this might come across as a little obnoxious but its the only way to go with the straight guys (and also all part of the thrill!).

[+ 7829V]

@7829V Okay cool! First thing is I will only hire a straight guy if he is listed as versatile. I don't care how hot he is..If I can't pound his ass and have him suck my cock I don't see the point in hiring...

 

Thanks for sharing! Good pointers and advice. But just to clarify, this does not apply to masseurs that have listings in MF... because there's no info there regarding being versatile, etc. So this would apply to escorts that identify themselves as straight...? Am I correct to assume this? So far I have zero experiences hiring escorts... but some of the massage sessions have turned into escort-type experiences.

[BoyBerlin]

@7829V yes this is only going to work for guys who advertise as escorts. I get massages as well and that I find much more simple. Its just a matter of knowing what you want and asking/negotiating before hand. I always make sure "happy endings" are included. If you don't either you will be already to explode toward the end and they will be like "its 100 for release" kinda catching you at a weak moment... or you will be left with blue balls.

[Guest InthePines]

Thanks for sharing! Good pointers and advice. But just to clarify, this does not apply to masseurs that have listings in MF... because there's no info there regarding being versatile, etc. So this would apply to escorts that identify themselves as straight...? Am I correct to assume this? So far I have zero experiences hiring escorts... but some of the massage sessions have turned into escort-type experiences.

 

Correct. Most of the guys who advertise on MF and M4M want to remain on the right side of legalities, especially when booking first time clients. That said, pay for sex may be illegal in most states, but a massage conducted in the nude generally speaking here is not. I tell the first time prospects that while I respect boundaries, I find it awkward to be nude during the massage and for the masseur to remain cloth, and base my decision to schedule on their response.

 

No doubt there's some players in the field, but the good local guys want repeat business and are usually looking for some direction from the client.