Joy

[adventurous old guy]

As I try to convey with my screen name, when I hire its for a fun adventure with someone other than my partner. He encourages this by the way, tells me to learn something new and bring it home LOL.

 

Anyway, a peak experience for me is when the service provider is having fun too. Recognizing that this is a business for them, this involves searching. It does seem possible that given the intrinsic pleasure of sex and physical contact a pro could find physical joy himself in this work, or the psychological payoff of being admired or appreciated for his skills, or even the deeper satisfaction of knowing that through his work he can make others happy.

 

Looking for guys who enjoy their work and is one of the major reasons I check this forum and the reviews here. Joy doesn't come through in RM reviews or any other rating that doesn't include narrative report. Wondering if service provider joy is important to others here, and if so who has tips for vetting past the marketing pitch to find the real deal?

[+ Keith30309]

As I try to convey with my screen name, when I hire its for a fun adventure with someone other than my partner. He encourages this by the way, tells me to learn something new and bring it home LOL.

 

Anyway, a peak experience for me is when the service provider is having fun too. Recognizing that this is a business for them, this involves searching. It does seem possible that given the intrinsic pleasure of sex and physical contact a pro could find physical joy himself in this work, or the psychological payoff of being admired or appreciated for his skills, or even the deeper satisfaction of knowing that through his work he can make others happy.

 

Looking for guys who enjoy their work and is one of the major reasons I check this forum and the reviews here. Joy doesn't come through in RM reviews or any other rating that doesn't include narrative report. Wondering if service provider joy is important to others here, and if so who has tips for vetting past the marketing pitch to find the real deal?

Yes, very much so (and well said)!

 

Half the fun of the experience is seeing my companion having a good time as well. I like to think I can distinguish true pleasure from well-intended acting but I understand that the chemistry I feel may not be mutual. That said, I also seek out guys who seem to enjoy their work. I'm afraid to name names because I'll omit someone but I have a feeling that most of the companions active on the forum derive some higher level, perhaps even spiritual, gratification from their engagements.

 

When writing a review this is a difficult to accurately express and I generally try to not make too many assumptions. I simply state that the companion was fully engaged, even exuberant, and that we both enjoyed ourselves.

[adventurous old guy]

Yes, very much so (and well said)!

 

Half the fun of the experience is seeing my companion having a good time as well. I like to think I can distinguish true pleasure from well-intended acting but I understand that the chemistry I feel may not be mutual. That said, I also seek out guys who seem to enjoy their work. I'm afraid to name names because I'll omit someone but I have a feeling that most of the companions active on the forum derive some higher level, perhaps even spiritual, gratification from their engagements.

 

When writing a review this is a difficult to accurately express and I generally try to not make too many assumptions. I simply state that the companion was fully engaged, even exuberant, and that we both enjoyed ourselves.

Fully engaged, exuberant -- love these descriptors and am going to borrow! More a propose and classier than the ones I tend to use: enthusiastic, loves sex, super bottom.

[escortrod]

The vast majority of the guys I have met over the years have been keen to ensure that I have enjoyed the experience too, and have at least partially derived pleasure from that. In fact I can only think of one guy who bucked that trend. I would therefore expect most reviews to take that into consideration.

[adventurous old guy]

The vast majority of the guys I have met over the years have been keen to ensure that I have enjoyed the experience too, and have at least partially derived pleasure from that. In fact I can only think of one guy who bucked that trend. I would therefore expect most reviews to take that into consideration.

Rod, refreshing to hear that your experience with clients has been this good. Maybe you vet well? Or reap what you sow?

 

I've definitely talked to escorts with client horror stories, and others who just feel run of the mill disrespected because of no shows or people who are perceived to be time wasters.

[+ glennnn]

As I've said many times, "I live to serve." I NEED to bring him pleasure to order to find pleasure for myself. Most of the times, when he cums, I cum. My escorts seem to recognize the passion I put into my love making and match my exuberance and engagement giving us both a joyful time.

[escortrod]

Rod, refreshing to hear that your experience with clients has been this good. Maybe you vet well? Or reap what you sow?

 

I've definitely talked to escorts with client horror stories, and others who just feel run of the mill disrespected because of no shows or people who are perceived to be time wasters.

I expect that I have been lucky, but I've also never been in a position where I've had to find a client in order to pay the rent, so I have been able to turn down the few who I have instinctively felt might be unpleasant or dangerous. That said I have had a few experiences I really didn't enjoy, but with one exception they weren't because of maliciousness or indifference by the clients.