Transgender female on a male forum

[dixietony]

On the website dominants.co, there was a member called Alphabeast. Pretty heavily muscled. Short, but attractive. I contacted "him," and he was willing to make a few muscle flexing videos for me to buy.

 

Fast forward to now. He is off the site. No profile, nothing. But now I found out it's a female who is transgender. She has her whole story and transformation on her youtube site.

 

I literally can't even watch the videos now, knowing she's a woman.

 

I get that not all the guys on those sites are dominant or straight. But I assumed they were guys.

 

Was this going too far?

 

I think so.

[sincitymix]

On the website dominants.co, there was a member called Alphabeast. Pretty heavily muscled. Short, but attractive. I contacted "him," and he was willing to make a few muscle flexing videos for me to buy.

 

Fast forward to now. He is off the site. No profile, nothing. But now I found out it's a female who is transgender. She has her whole story and transformation on her youtube site.

 

I literally can't even watch the videos now, knowing she's a woman.

 

I get that not all the guys on those sites are dominant or straight. But I assumed they were guys.

 

Was this going too far?

 

I think so.

 

So... you enjoyed the videos when you thought she was a he... but now that you know he was a she who is a he..... you find the videos repulsive? hmm.. yeah i dont think i want to go any further here.

[dixietony]

Maybe not repulsive. But I just don't enjoy them anymore. It's too manipulative.

[+ VeryHappyCustomer]

It sounds like Alphabeast's transformation was very successful. He was hot enough to get paid for his looks. Way to go, man!

[+ quoththeraven]

On the website dominants.co, there was a member called Alphabeast. Pretty heavily muscled. Short, but attractive. I contacted "him," and he was willing to make a few muscle flexing videos for me to buy.

 

Fast forward to now. He is off the site. No profile, nothing. But now I found out it's a female who is transgender. She has her whole story and transformation on her youtube site.

 

I literally can't even watch the videos now, knowing she's a woman.

 

I get that not all the guys on those sites are dominant or straight. But I assumed they were guys.

 

Was this going too far?

 

I think so.

 

The whole point of transness is that the trans identity is the authentic, real one. That means a trans man is a man.

 

Unless you're going to have sex IRL with someone, they don't owe you disclosure of trans status. If they provide it, it is because of people like you who freak out about it.

 

Since we're still dealing with the whole "ew, girl cooties" response to bisexual escorts who are actually bisexual (apparently some are actually gay but pretend to be bi so they can nail the "seduce the straight guy" fantasy; yes, doesn't make a lot of sense to me either), I don't expect a lot of progress on this point anytime soon, but this was not going too far. This person transitioned and was a man. You assumed he was a guy, meaning his transition was successful in conforming with standards for his gender identity to the point where he had muscles you admired.

 

While you get to feel whatever you feel about the videos and whether you find this person attractive anymore, a little open-mindedness might help.