Would how an escort chooses to spend their money dissuade you from hiring them?

[Man Crush Morris]

It's difficult enough for me to find a guy that excites me and does his job well. Adding another layer isn't something I'm interested in doing.

[Shiloh]

After reading all replies I'm content in hiring him still. What he does with his money is his business. Thanks for the feedback everyone!

[LookingAround]

I'm not sure how it has become my (or your or Juan's) business how he spends his money in his private life. Jeez.

[+ dutchmuch]

Well I wouldn't hire a escort again after forking over $3,300 for a long weekend, and see him drive off in a Porsche thumbing his nose at me.

[Frequentflier]

I'm not interested in how a companion spends his money unless he wants to talk about it conversationally. I find people are often easier to get along with if you let them choose the topics as long as they aren't incendiary. If I found out a companion was an illegal drug user I wouldn't hire them for that reason, not because I was concerned my money was going to be used for that purpose. What I don't know and don't need to know I won't start an investigation for Yes, I search online a companions name just in case its real. I don't remember ever finding anything bad out about the person.

[TruthBTold]

Unless it is taking out a mob contract on me or supporting the American Nazi party, not much else.

[jimboivyo]

We're here to hire, not to judge how they spend what we give em

 

I reckon some of yall sound a little bitter about folks who live larger than you do

[Shiloh]

My post had nothing to with bitterness or jealousy, FYI---I was legit concerned for his health and well being.

[LookingAround]

Please take this as a sincere remark. That being the case your efforts would yield far more benefit to him by discussing this with him than with a group of anonymous escorts and clients on an escort Internet site.

[philly cheese]

I'll say that I hire a fellow who I have a more than wonderful time with who has student loans over his head.

 

I'm glad to help with those - with base fees and generous tips. Actually, my last payment sum might have taken care of one of his larger interest rate loans.

 

Very glad to assist the younger generation.

[Juan Vancouver]

I'm not sure how it has become my (or your or Juan's) business how he spends his money in his private life. Jeez.

 

I am not sure how it has become your business to decide whose business business is.

 

The OP is laudably concerned about being the enabler of a destructive habit. We don't know if this guy is mainlining meth and getting barebacked daily and is turning tricks to pay for the habit or whether it is just an occasional circuit party bouncing off the walls.

 

Without this information it would be impossible to give any helpful opinion, but if you sincerely believe that knowing that someone is doing something terribly destructive with the money you give him leaves you free of responsibility... well, then I get a better insight into your country's politics and modus operandi.

 

Your point of view is not very far from: I don't see the child labour, I am just buying outrageously cheap jeans, what the company does with the money I pay does't concern me.

 

Sure, I respect you might not want to discuss ethics here, but some people do.

 

It is not your business to decide what people should talk about or not.

 

It's none of my business, but I sure hope you have a nice evening.

[LookingAround]

I am not sure how it has become your business to decide whose business business is.

 

.....

 

It's none of my business...

 

For someone who acknowledges it's none of their business you certainly are opinionated yet seem to believe I am not entitled to express my opinion. A bit cray cray lol.

[+ dutchmuch]

Headless Wonder One, if you are trying to build-up your 'brand' with comments in this thread, I beg to differ.

[calrichmond]

I will leave the escort's identity private. I saw a posting on social media that was a bit alarming. I'm not passing judgment by any means, I just don't want to contribute to a potential overdose. But on the other hand, if I'm satisfied with their services---what they do with my payment shouldn't matter, right? Advice please!

I agree that it's none of my business. Also, I make an effort not to search for escort hires on social media.

 

Like other professionals I hire for other services, escorts have a right to privacy. I really don't pry into their private lives. They are hired to perform a service, and need to be treated professionally and with respect.