First time getting a massage

[+ JamesInSanFrancisco]

Hello guys,

 

I've never hired a masseur or an escort before but I am really curious. What is the difference between sensual and erotic massages?

 

I'm thinking that I really want to a nice sensual/erotic massage, (nothing too sexual, no oral or anal), but I do want a really happy ending. What is the etiquette when contacting a masseur? What is ok to discuss or not? I really want to contact a couple of masseurs but getting cold feet. Also, I don't know if this is too much, but is it ok to ask a masseur if they can lick my nipples while they give me a happy ending? Or is that more an escort situation?

 

Do you guys have any suggestion for good masseurs in San Francisco? I think I want someone masculine with a nice body and on the younger side.

 

I'm interested in these three masseurs, do you guys have any comment about these guys?

 

Alexandro: http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/chester76.shtml

Ricardo: http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/ricardomassage.shtml

Armando: http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/paleosanz.shtml

 

Thank you guys! Much appreciated!

[+ dutchmuch]

Welcome to the M-F James!

 

When in SF last year I saw Richardo. Those are his pics, he is handsome and chiseled.

Grade C massage in a cold apartment near Dolores Park.

As per your special request, you may ask him in advance, and offer some inducement/s. ($$$)

[+ JamesInSanFrancisco]

Hey thanks dutchmuch! Much appreciated. Maybe I'll check him out.

 

I also was looking at an ad about a 4 hand massage? Any of you guys tried one? How was it compared to a regular massage?

[+ beethoven]

James, I don't think you ought to get a 4-handed massage until you have had several 2-handed. Unless you don't care about money. They're expensive, and many people (like me) think the extra expense isn't worth it -- UNLESS you get two guys who really know how to work in sync. And most duos do not know how to really work in sync.

 

I think the difference between erotic and sensual massage is what the masseur thinks it is. Of course, erotic definitely includes a happy ending, and usually lots of touching and body contact. Maybe oral. If a masseur advertises sensual massage, he usually includes a happy ending, but not always. After all, all massages are sensual, especially if both of you are naked.

 

As for the nipple request, I agree with DutchMuch. Don't be afraid to ask, and offer extra $$ as an inducement if you need to. After you evaluate his reply. Frankly, I don't think it's such an odd request, and should not require extra money. If you like the massage, you can tip. And it's certainly not a request that's limited to escorts.

 

As far as "what is etiquette," ask everything that's on your mind. Again, you're not asking anything unusual. Just be respectful, and you'll get along fine.

 

I highly recommend Max in San Francisco. (He's Asian, and doesn't show his face in the ad.) I saw him here in New York, and returned the next day. And the next.

 

BTW- DutchMuch said that Ricardo gives a "grade C massage in a cold apartment," and you're still interested?

I think DutchMuch is really saying, "stay the fuck away from this guy," but is too polite to use those words. But I wouldn't know. But I'd look elsewhere.

[jasonb]

I second Beethoven's recommendation. Max has a killer, compact body and gives a great massage.

[+ dutchmuch]

BTW- DutchMuch said that Ricardo gives a "grade C massage in a cold apartment," and you're still interested?

I think DutchMuch is really saying, "stay the fuck away from this guy," but is too polite to use those words. But I wouldn't know. But I'd look elsewhere.

 

For a first time massage, Ricardo might NOT be the candidate.

[nylund]

i recommend Pan. he's thai and pretty handsome. good massaging skills and very obliging.

 

https://www.massagem4m.com/gay-massage-san-francisco/panthai/

[+ beethoven]

I was trying to think of Pan's name; yes, I also recommend him highly. I saw him twice when he was in New York, but he hasn't been here lately. A body you won't forget!!

[+ JamesInSanFrancisco]

Thank you beethoven nylund, jasonb & dutchmuch for your replies and suggestions. I had contacted Pan and I am both really nervous and really excited about the experience. He seems pretty accommodating when I asked about the nipple licking thing. I will let you guys know how it goes.

[+ beethoven]

James, there is no need to be nervous! Excited, yes. Eagerly anticipating, yes. Pam is a very easygoing guy (and I assume his English has improved since the last time I saw him), even a bit shy -- except when that shirt comes off! You're gonna love your massage experience, and this will be the first of many, I assure you.

[Ronin512]

Welcome to the M-F James!

 

When in SF last year I saw Richardo. Those are his pics, he is handsome and chiseled.

Grade C massage in a cold apartment near Dolores Park.

As per your special request, you may ask him in advance, and offer some inducement/s. ($$$)

Shame to hear about

Ricardo (now Julian) disappointing performance. He certainly has an a seductive hot body. I agree with the rave reviews of Pan and Max.