Flake alerts: oh-so-well-reviewed Colton

[Will Do]

John/JohnBrown states in the reviews he posted on Colton that he's in his 20s.

 

Seaworld's profile page states that he's 46.

 

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[Seaworld]

John/JohnBrown states in the reviews he posted on Colton that he's in his 20s.

 

Seaworld's profile page states that he's 46.

 

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Lol didn't think I would go this far. Didn't intend to reveal I'm the reviewer. But I guess it felt really good to say things I want to say lol. So judge all you want, I feel awesome now

[Seaworld]

John/JohnBrown states in the reviews he posted on Colton that he's in his 20s.

 

Seaworld's profile page states that he's 46.

 

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Dude if you have this many doubts about this post. Book a session with Colton and ask him if everything I said was true. If he's decent enough to not lie. He's wide open for bookings as long as it's not me.

 

That's his idea of "fair"anyway, just getting paid to talk. I spent countless paid hours listening him complaining all the miseries in his life and how people mistreat him how people are cheap to him blah blah. One guy once told me, he creates all his own miseries. Too bad, back then I couldn't listen to anything negative about him.

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Dude if you have this many doubts about this post. Book a session with Colton and ask him if everything I said was true. If he's decent enough to not lie. He's wide open for bookings as long as it's not me.

 

That's his idea of "fair"anyway, just getting paid to talk. I spent countless paid hours listening him complaining all the miseries in his life and how people mistreat him how people are cheap to him blah blah. One guy once told me, he creates all his own miseries. Too bad, back then I couldn't listen to anything negative about him.

 

Seaworld what was the point then of this thread? You titled the thread Fake Alert but then proceed to admit that he said he wanted nothing to do with you but you went ahead and tried to book with him again. Now you are recommending we schedule sessions with him? You state you spent countless paid hours listening to him complain. This is on you. You kept going back and I seriously doubt that you didn't get something out of it or you wouldn't have spent the thousands upon thousands of alleged dollars on him. What did you hope to gain by posting this thread in the first place? This reads like sour grapes from somebody that was rejected by a pro.

[+ azdr0710]

This reads like sour grapes from somebody that was rejected by a pro.

 

84 posts to get here?....amen, brother Jeep.....nothing more to see here, folks, move along, move along

[Seaworld]

Seaworld what was the point then of this thread? You titled the thread Fake Alert but then proceed to admit that he said he wanted nothing to do with you but you went ahead and tried to book with him again. Now you are recommending we schedule sessions with him? You state you spent countless paid hours listening to him complain. This is on you. You kept going back and I seriously doubt that you didn't get something out of it or you wouldn't have spent the thousands upon thousands of alleged dollars on him. What did you hope to gain by posting this thread in the first place? This reads like sour grapes from somebody that was rejected by a pro.

 

Guess I just want to say things I was holding to myself for over a year for the first time. You are right I am very much the sour grape here. Never again. And I'll shut up.

 

Thank you all the guys participated in this thread talking about it with me because I can't talk this kind of stuff to any of my real life friends.

 

I really feel a lot better now. Yesterday was a really bad day.

[killianjamesnyc]

This entire thing is HIGH-larious. Just saying. Just saying.

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Guess I just want to say things I was holding to myself for over a year for the first time. You are right I am very much the sour grape here. Never again. And I'll shut up.

 

Thank you all the guys participated in this thread talking about it with me because I can't talk this kind of stuff to any of my real life friends.

 

I really feel a lot better now. Yesterday was a really bad day.

 

May I make a suggestion? venting here is great, that is part of what these boards and threads are for, but be up front about what you want to do. I think had you just said hey I want to vent about my experience you would have had a much different response. If this is about you feeling bad because of what happened and you feel like you wasted money/time etc then damn I am behind you 100% and I feel for you....I can appreciate that and I can support your pain but that is not how this post read. I do hope you feel better.

[Seaworld]

May I make a suggestion? venting here is great, that is part of what these boards and threads are for, but be up front about what you want to do. I think had you just said hey I want to vent about my experience you would have had a much different response. If this is about you feeling bad because of what happened and you feel like you wasted money/time etc then damn I am behind you 100% and I feel for you....I can appreciate that and I can support your pain but that is not how this post read. I do hope you feel better.

 

Thank you. It's just really hard to sound like a reasonable person with all the emotion I went though. This me vs Colton situation, I was the biggest loser in history. But like I said, never again. It takes things like this to grow up.

[Will Do]

De Clérambault's Syndrome

Presentation

• The diagnosis of primary erotomanic delusions requires at least one month's duration of the delusion, otherwise generally normal appearance and behaviour and the exclusion of schizophrenia, mood disorder, substance-induced toxicity and medical disease.
  
• Typically, patients are unaware of the psychiatric nature of the condition.
  
• Usually the supposed lover is inaccessible - eg, a famous television performer whom he/she only sees whilst watching the television.
  
• Patients often believe that it is the subject of their delusion who is more in love with them than they are with him/her. They take great pride in this. They may feel that the subject cannot live happily without him/her.
  
• Patients may believe that the subject of their delusion cannot make his/her feelings known because of various reasons - for example, difficulties in approaching them.
  
• This type of delusional disorder may lead to stalking or other potentially threatening and dangerous behaviour.[4] The police may get involved in trying to keep the patient from pestering the subject but this may be perceived as a paradoxical sign of affection.
  
• The patient may continue to pester the subject and may develop delusions of persecution following the delusions of passion.
  
• They may also be violent against those they believe stand in the way of their delusional love.
  
• A thorough psychiatric evaluation is essential in diagnosis and assessment of possible comorbidity.
  

[Seaworld]

De Clérambault's Syndrome

 

Presentation

• The diagnosis of primary erotomanic delusions requires at least one month's duration of the delusion, otherwise generally normal appearance and behaviour and the exclusion of schizophrenia, mood disorder, substance-induced toxicity and medical disease.
  
• Typically, patients are unaware of the psychiatric nature of the condition.
  
• Usually the supposed lover is inaccessible - eg, a famous television performer whom he/she only sees whilst watching the television.
  
• Patients often believe that it is the subject of their delusion who is more in love with them than they are with him/her. They take great pride in this. They may feel that the subject cannot live happily without him/her.
  
• Patients may believe that the subject of their delusion cannot make his/her feelings known because of various reasons - for example, difficulties in approaching them.
  
• This type of delusional disorder may lead to stalking or other potentially threatening and dangerous behaviour.[4] The police may get involved in trying to keep the patient from pestering the subject but this may be perceived as a paradoxical sign of affection.
  
• The patient may continue to pester the subject and may develop delusions of persecution following the delusions of passion.
  
• They may also be violent against those they believe stand in the way of their delusional love.
  
• A thorough psychiatric evaluation is essential in diagnosis and assessment of possible comorbidity.
  

 

Lol, whatever, doctor. He was my addiction, I have to quit. That's about it.

[+ azdr0710]

thanks for taking this relatively lightly, Seaworld (if this whole saga is even true....)

 

I see you joined just yesterday and you're already getting a harsh initiation here....to be honest, this is the best discussion board of its kind on the 'net and the forum members are among the most experienced and sharpest people in the world.....but we don't suffer fools and/or idiots lightly....if we smell BS, we'll pounce hard.....when you drop beliefs like a $1500 suite in NYC is barely adequate and that you lost $20K when Colton flaked (before!!), credibility is mightily tested 'round here

[Seaworld]

You said you would hang out with him for 2000 a day. For that amount you can hire anyone and actually someone that will pay attention to you and your needs. You can probably get someone to do that for 1500 heck even 1000. Anyhoo seems like he doesn't want too even though I think its very odd someone turning down 2000 dollars just to hangout with someone. I will gladly hangout with my even an enemy for 2k lol :pIts best to stop pushing, if he wants to come back I'm sure he can, perhaps even you finding another guy for the time being will make him crawl back to you. Hope you two hash it out,

 

Ya it sure was a puzzle for me for over a year. I thought I was a good deal, apparently not to him. There is no more pursuing. I am done and done with Colton. Like one of the post said, what really went wrong was I keep coming back after the way he treated me.

 

Thank you for your kindness, really.

[Seaworld]

thanks for taking this relatively lightly, Seaworld (if this whole saga is even true....)

 

I see you joined just yesterday and you're already getting a harsh initiation here....to be honest, this is the best discussion board of its kind on the 'net and the forum members are among the most experienced and sharpest people in the world.....but we don't suffer fools and/or idiots lightly....if we smell BS, we'll pounce hard.....when you drop beliefs like a $1500 suite in NYC is barely adequate and that you lost $20K when Colton flaked (before!!), credibility is mightily tested 'round here

 

You said you knew Colton, maybe you can ask him. If he does not lie to you. I'm not here to talk about money, but apparently the number I posted here got quite a reaction. I shouldn't say any number then. But really what hurts me most is not these numbers but the heartache over and over and over again.

[sincitymix]

Ya it sure was a puzzle for me for over a year. I thought I was a good deal, apparently not to him. There is no more pursuing. I am done and done with Colton. Like one of the post said, what really went wrong was I keep coming back after the way he treated me.

 

Thank you for your kindness, really.

 

I can certainly relate to what you said SW. I was in a relationship with a guy who did the whole "If you love me, youll buy me xxx" "Hey I want xxx for my birthday" "I want xxx" "hey I need money give me xxx"

I was infatuated, I was in love. When I finally woke up and faced the hard reality that this guy did not love me. He was using me for money and gifts. He never got me anything for valentines day or Christmas or my own birthday. but there would have been hell if I didn't get him what he wanted on any of those days plus any other day.

I was in massive debt which took me quiet a few years to pay off.

So yes, infatuation, lust, love can blind one, and cause you to loose sense of ones reason thinking.

[Seaworld]

I can certainly relate to what you said SW. I was in a relationship with a guy who did the whole "If you love me, youll buy me xxx" "Hey I want xxx for my birthday" "I want xxx" "hey I need money give me xxx"

I was infatuated, I was in love. When I finally woke up and faced the hard reality that this guy did not love me. He was using me for money and gifts. He never got me anything for valentines day or Christmas or my own birthday. but there would have been hell if I didn't get him what he wanted on any of those days plus any other day.

I was in massive debt which took me quiet a few years to pay off.

So yes, infatuation, lust, love can blind one, and cause you to loose sense of ones reason thinking.

 

I feel your pain, trust me, I've been there. I feel really bad for you that you took debt for this asshole. I hope you are fully recovered.

 

Well, Colton is different though. He never asked me to do anything for him. It's always me trying to do stuff to make him comfortable and enjoy the time we spend together. That's why I keep saying in my reviews that he is such a good guy. But still, when you have the villa and mansion all arranged, then no Colton, it really hurts. And he always seems to be annoyed and in a bad mood when I'm around. This just doesn't feel good. I was really holding back as far as booking things after he canceled me in that trip, because who knows he might cancel again. Maybe this is considered "cheap" to him.