My first no show

[+ WmClarke]

I feel like I finally made the inner circle--had my first no show tonight!

 

Supposed to get a massage. I went to the guy's house (I've seen him several times). No response. No response to texts.

 

Hopefully he just fell asleep or something. I'll check on him tomorrow.

[+ Truereview]

Congrats! Welcome to the top dog circle, @WmClarke ! You are in good and diverse company! Yours truly amongst them Big hug

 

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[+ WmClarke]

Well, he's ok, so that's a relief.

 

Just got an "I'm available" text followed by an "I think my phone was muted or something. Didn't get any messages. Wish I would've seen you" text.

 

Yeah, well, parked in my car outside a house waiting has a fifteen minute limit for me. And my phone still delivers message when it's muted. Don't know what type of phone he is using.

[Brian Kevin]

Drive east to ClevelAnd I'll wait up for you (;,

[Brian Kevin]

I call bullshit. He is trying to play a game. Maybe he had company or was busy, either way it's u unprofessional. ESPECIALLY A REGULAR, HE BETTER BE WAITING OUTSIDE WITH HOT CHOCLATE AND A CUPCAKE if he expects to see you again! That is super rude of him

Well, he's ok, so that's a relief.

 

Just got an "I'm available" text followed by an "I think my phone was muted or something. Didn't get any messages. Wish I would've seen you" text.

 

Yeah, well, parked in my car outside a house waiting has a fifteen minute limit for me. And my phone still delivers message when it's muted. Don't know what type of phone he is using.

[+ WmClarke]

It's the only bad experience in a year and a half. I will probably give him another chance.

[Jock123]

Things happen. Granted he's a regular of Yours I'd say give him ONE more chance. Its hard enough finding a quality guy You like these days...Stick with him while hes around!

[Brian Kevin]

@Jock123 look who finally uploaded a picture.

[+ WmClarke]

Things happen. Granted he's a regular of Yours I'd say give him ONE more chance. Its hard enough finding a quality guy You like these days...Stick with him while hes around!

For sure!

[seaboy4hire]

Ima say his loss on spending time with an awesome guy. But I do hope that nothing serious hapened to him. Let me know how I can make it up to you.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[seaboy4hire]

Maybe he meant his phone was off or in airplane mode? I know sometimes the weather (thats what I am blaming it on) prevents me from sending or receiving texts and sometimes calls.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ WmClarke]

Maybe he meant his phone was off or in airplane mode? I know sometimes the weather (thats what I am blaming it on) prevents me from sending or receiving texts and sometimes calls.

 

Hugs,

Greg

Didn't think of that. I'm mostly glad he's ok. I'll see him again, I'm sure.

[+ WmClarke]

Ima say his loss on spending time with an awesome guy. But I do hope that nothing serious hapened to him. Let me know how I can make it up to you.

 

Hugs,

Greg

You don't have to make anything up to me--he does.

[Guest countryboywny]

I'm sorry this happened to you WmClarke. His excuse doesn't pass the smell test for me. You're a regular with a confirmed appointment, wouldn't you think that if he hadn't heard from you at the appointed time he would have checked his phone for messages, or God forbid, look out the window to see if you're parked out there??

[+ WmClarke]

Yeah, I agree. But it's the only time he's ever flaked on me. Communication has always been pretty good.

 

If it becomes a pattern, then it's a problem. If it happens once every two years, I can cope. I just really wanted a massage last night--my trainer has been killing me at the gym!

[Guest countryboywny]

Yeah, I agree. But it's the only time he's ever flaked on me. Communication has always been pretty good.

 

If it becomes a pattern, then it's a problem. If it happens once every two years, I can cope. I just really wanted a massage last night--my trainer has been killing me at the gym!

 

Of course, totally your choice. I didn't mean to say that you should do anything else, you know the situation best. I guess what I was really trying to get at is that some guys lie about their failure to keep an appointment. Wouldn't it be better if he just said, "I'm sorry, I fell asleep and didn't hear my phone"?

[+ Truereview]

Well, if the masseur was totally honest about his reason to not answer, we would probably be judging him for not being more conscientious. Damned if you lie and damned if you tell the truth. Regardless, I have to say that I'm impressed by @WmClarke's perspective- very healthy. We are human, we f&ck up, and sometimes 1 instance does not warrant a change in course.

[whipped guy]

Well it's a better excuse that the one that I got once: "Well I had to fly down to Florida (from NYC). It was an emergency. Sorry that I forgot to tell you beforehand. I had to punch my sister's boyfriend in the nose because he disrespected her."

 

I kid you not! So travel and hotel in NYC totally wasted. Well, years after the fact at least I got to tell the story here!!

[Guest countryboywny]

Well, if the masseur was totally honest about his reason to not answer, we would probably be judging him for not being more conscientious. Damned if you lie and damned if you tell the truth. Regardless, I have to say that I'm impressed by @WmClarke's perspective- very healthy. We are human, we f&ck up, and sometimes 1 instance does not warrant a change in course.

 

+1

You're right, TR..

[Guest]

It's the only bad experience in a year and a half. I will probably give him another chance.

Well, if the masseur was totally honest about his reason to not answer, we probably would be judging him for not being more conscientious. Damned if you lie and damned if you tell the truth.

 

What bothers me is that he not only didn't care about your time (I don't know how far you live from him), but that he lied on top of it. It's obvious he wasn't being conscientious, but his lying about it afterwards instead of apologizing shows a callous lack of concern for your feelings and time. I guess if you've hired him many times before, it's worth risking it again (assuming you don't live too far away), but I find his behavior rather sociopathic. Maybe we become accustomed to it with so many of these escorts lying about their ages, but I for one don't appreciate being jerked around one bit. I recently hired an escort who said he was 24, then found out he's 26 when I had to write a prescription for him (no, it wasn't for an STD). The ironic thing was that I hesitated to hire him because I thought he was under 25. I would have been more likely to hire him had I known he was 26 (but I went by the pictures). In my view, the lying to WmClarke added insult to injury. For me, I would be upset enough by the man blowing me off when we had a meeting arranged. The lying and lack of remorse would have put me over the top. All of us make mistakes. Not all of us lie about it afterwards.

[+ Travis69]

The masseur should give you a free session or at least half price next time.

[+ WmClarke]

Well, next time is here. And I've been waiting for 16 minutes.

 

I guess this business relationship is over.

[whipped guy]

Well, next time is here. And I've been waiting for 16 minutes.

 

I guess this business relationship is over.

Well @WmClarke it's now about 30 minutes as I respond! Sounds like the guy is a total bozo!

 

However, let me cheer you up. This past winter we both had a snow related cancelation from a certain special working guy. From what I recall in a couple of weeks you will be having "sorry I had to cancel because of the snow make up sex with this guy"! I already had my "make up session". Let me tell you that it will be the best ever and will totally make you forget today's incident. Plus, you will have saved some $$$ as well.

 

Believe me you will have quite the smile on your face!

[+ WmClarke]

Well @WmClarke it's now about 30 minutes as I respond! Sounds like the guy is a total bozo!

 

However, let me cheer you up. This past winter we both had a snow related cancelation from a certain special working guy. From what I recall in a couple of weeks you will be having "sorry I had to cancel because of the snow make up sex with this guy"! I already had my "make up session". Let me tell you that it will be the best ever and will totally make you forget today's incident. Plus, you will have saved some $$$ as well.

 

Believe me you will have quite the smile on your face!

Definitely looking forward to that!

[+ Rickee]

Well @WmClarke it's now about 30 minutes as I respond! Sounds like the guy is a total bozo!

 

However, let me cheer you up. This past winter we both had a snow related cancelation from a certain special working guy. From what I recall in a couple of weeks you will be having "sorry I had to cancel because of the snow make up sex with this guy"! I already had my "make up session". Let me tell you that it will be the best ever and will totally make you forget today's incident. Plus, you will have saved some $$$ as well.

 

Believe me you will have quite the smile on your face!

Hmmm. I wonder if I bring a snocone along as a welcome gift for my upcoming visit, whether it, too, might be elevated to the prestigious "make-up" level of intensity??? :)