The downside of an escort's discretion

[Rick Munroe]

>Consider your

>worry the price you pays as a decent, caring human being

>regardless of what you do to earn a living. I believe everyone

>pays that price at some point in their lives, but the longer

>it's put off, the higher the interest.

 

So beautifully put! See, you turned 40 and already you're wise beyond your years. Thanks for the thought (really). And to everyone else who posted here, too.

[Rick Munroe]

>Consider your

>worry the price you pays as a decent, caring human being

>regardless of what you do to earn a living. I believe everyone

>pays that price at some point in their lives, but the longer

>it's put off, the higher the interest.

 

So beautifully put! See, you turned 40 and already you're wise beyond your years. Thanks for the thought (really). And to everyone else who posted here, too.

[+ cougar]

can be a two-way street

 

Nice ideas put forward here on this thread...this is the best of the MC.

What Rick talks about is real and can happen to either client or escort. I have always treated my regular escorts with such kindness and thoughtfulness, that they have all said how much they treasure me as a cliet and our time together. As a regular client, I too, have been left standing, waiting and wondering what happened to him. All it takes is for them to change their cell, e-mail or move to a new apartment, and we can be left standing out in the cold.

I have two escorts I try to see on a very regular timetable and have asked both to promise me that they will just never up and disappear without atleast a notice to me as I have made the promise to them. I hold my breath sometimes and hope that they can return the kindness and thoughtfulness I have extended to them. I know that the discretion we have to play around is a very thin line, and I suspect that some escorts just find it easier to just disappear. When they do disappear, it does go against the flow of what we normally experience in our social & business lives and can really throw you a curve ball.

[Mikeyz7]

RE: Not Just Ecsort/Client relationships

 

>It is funny about Internet friends.

>If one should suddenly die, no one would ever know what

>happened.”

>So true!

 

I have been away for a few days so missed Oliver's response (on Sunday) to this topic until today. As he said, this is not confined to escorts and clients. I met a fellow from Scotland in a chatroom a few years ago. And like Oliver, over time we exchanged first names, details of our lives, our thoughts and feelings. We both seemed to have this connection. I had some knowledge of the area in which he lived so was able to discretely "test" him to satisfy myself that he did live in the area he said he did.

Unfortunately our chats became somewhat intermittent as he was having a lot of mental and physical problems and was in and out of hospital. After over 18 months of chatting all communication stopped. So now I am left wondering if he is in fact dead -- and I will never know. It is almost 2 years since I last heard from him but I still think of him. I know it is foolish but I still wonder what happened. As was mentioned by Oliver, the only possible solution would be to check newspapers for obituaries that fit the personal and family details he shared with me. But do I really want confirmation that he is dead? For that is all I can possible hope for. Not finding and obituary would not prove anything! So I resist taking a vacation to Scotland in case I turn it into a quest

And that is my true connfession!

Mike