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The concept of an escort NOT liking regulars makes me feel sad for them and the client. I want to think that there can be some kind of lasting bond between an escort and a client. The sex may be commerce but these are two people with feelings. I hope they can have feelings for each other. I hope there can be some kind of intimacy. Perhaps I'm dreaming ...

 

I agree with you, it also makes me sad to think that someone would want to avoid establishing a relationship and further deepening a bond with someone else. The comfort and familiarity that develops over time is wonderful and opens to door to all sorts of deeper exploration.

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If you do have a regular client and things are becoming a little monotonous do you ever suggest a change to the routine to keep it fresh? Or do you feel slighted if the client suggests a change that might include adding another escort? As LADoug said the escort/client relationship might be a commercial one in the end but both participants do have feelings and if they have seen each other for a while the feelings might run deep.

 

I think that depends entirely on the client and what they want. I think mixing things up is always fun, but in the same way that some people prefer to order the same thing when they go to their favorite restaurant, some clients may want their time spent to be one of comfort and familiarity. It's all in finding that balance.

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Isn't there an expression about finding comfort in the familiar? I think everyone has experienced this - whether its a favorite pub, a much loved restaurant, old friends, and yes, intimate activities. Looking back on my active period, I can say while I did sample many flavors, I did establish some lasting relationships (no, not romantic) with three gentlemen. Two were of an intimate nature and for lack of a better term, I was a regular client of both. We connected, liked what the other had on offer, and enjoyed each other in and out of intimate settings. The third gent, while we both liked what the other had on offer, despite best efforts, our intimate times weren't exactly top notch. But, we really enjoyed each other's company and had many shared interests. So what started out as one thing, evolved into a friendship now of many years standing. However, back on track, speaking as a client I would prefer being a regular client - you get to know what each like to do/have done to them, usually one learns to read the other's moods/desires and incorporate "x" into activities, etc.. Speaking as someone who doesn't exactly fit the "gay ideal" body wise, its more important that I know the gentleman caller is into me and that we enjoy ourselves rather than me seeking out new flavors. As such, comfort in the familiar gets my vote.

 

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You know guys sometimes I think we have a tendency to over analyze things.

 

Some clients and some escorts like their get together to be short and sweet; slam bank I’m out of here. If that’s what works for them that’s just fine; there is no right or wrong here.

 

Some clients and some escorts like their get together to include socialization before and pillow talk cuddling after they have played around. If that’s what works for them that’s just fine; there is no right or wrong here.

 

When I first started hiring escorts fifteen plus years ago I was like a kid in a candy shop. I traveled all over the place meeting guy in New Your, Chicago, Tampa, London, Vancouver, and Las Vegas to mention just a few places – it was great fun but it led to very few repeats. As time has passed I find that I meet fewer and fewer new escorts and most enjoy the guys I have come to know as damn good playmates as well as personal friends. That what currently works for me and that’s just fine; there is no right or wrong here.

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