2 things--

[Brian Kevin]

I have two things I'd like to share and open to feedback.

 

1.) I am dropping Massagem4m.com, since the rentboy shut down, this website has made some changes that I dislike and they keep telling me that the price is going up. So therefore, they can suck my dick. (I mean that in the best way possible) I am going to look into masseurfinder and couple other websites I keep hearing about 100-150$ a month for massagem4m is just Nutso. I'm getting 1-3 clients a month, I know I'm making my money back! However, the agitation that comes along with ME having to manage my reviews, that is just backwards and wrong, I want no part in a website where the masseur/escort can edit and control their reviews. Shit, why don't we all just review ourselves, some of you already do (insert laugh&cry emoji)

 

2.) I noticed two local escorts of Cleveland have deleted their ads. Can't search to find their names-- Beyond deactivated. awee I thought I had steady competition in Cleveland-- I guess not =[

 

That is all.

[bigvalboy]

M4M in my opinion has been going down hill for awhile. I no longer trust the reviews and I have never liked the way they planted fake masseurs on their site, just to get people to buy the vids and photos. Lately it seems that Masseurfinders has far more guys to choose from, the only downside is that on Masseurfinders the masseur is allowed to delete any negative reviews that are posted, so only positive ones appear, which is just ridiculous. Like everything, when doing your hiring, it is imperative that you do your due diligence. Years ago I think M4M served a purpose. I used to refer to them all the time, but I started noticing the changes a few years ago, and now after this whole RB debacle, I don't see them as being of any consequence anymore.

 

As with most things...your mileage might vary.

[Brian Kevin]

FACT # 1

I no longer trust the reviews and I have never liked the way they planted fake masseurs on their site, just to get people to buy the vids and photos

 

FACT # 2

Years ago I think M4M served a purpose. I used to refer to them all the time, but I started noticing the changes a few years ago

 

 

My ex fiance and I used to work together doing 4 handed and massagem4m called us to praise us, while the second week of us being live, we had 10 reviews and thousands of views a day. Since I've deleted alot of the 4 handed reviews, kept a few for memories, but now, 2 years later, I'm ready to let Massagem4m go and I'm also ready to let those reviews go!

delete any negative reviews that are posted, so only positive ones appear, which is just ridiculous.

 

 

Any website where your services get poorer and your prices become more expensive, I AM NOT INTERESTED!!!

 

They called me this morning saying "We had issues billing your add, your account is suspended" I just sat on the phone blinking and finally said "thanks lets keep it that way" and hung up.

[Despardo]

I don't know if my behavior is typical, but when I check the massage sites, I generally check all 3 of the major ones, since it takes very little time to do that. My gut feeling is that if you advertise on only one of them, you will probably do just as well. I agree $150 per month is a lot to pay. I used to find MassageM4M "entertaining," but now I find it holds little appeal--no information there I cannot find on the other sites, Masseurfinder and Rentmasseur (basically Rentmen lite.)

[Nvr2Thick]

I agree with Despardo that Masseurfinder and MassageM4M are interchangeable. I'm always going to check both. What I don't like about Masseurfinder is the differentiation between Therapeutic, Sensual, and Custom as separate searches. I understand the distinction, however, most masseurs blur the lines. Some will massage to release (and beyond) but only advertise as Sensual and Therapeutic. Some will offer very sensual services clearly stated in the ad and reviews and only advertise as Therapeutic. I think that the separation only benefits a minority of masseurs who honestly only want to offer completely legitimate therapeutic massage, and who don't want to be lumped in with those that cross that line. I know a local masseur who aggressively clarifies that his services are not sensual (though he massages undraped), but I think his stance is atypical. It's a minor point, but I'd prefer to view all the masseurs for a city and screen by service. Seems kind of dumb to look in three categories to find the five masseurs in a small city when you're going to have to read their ads and talk to them to understand their interpretations of the categories.

 

Regarding reviews, I think it's smart that Masseurfinder calls them "Testimonials". Third party social media is the appropriate place to post negative reviews, not ad sites. No one is going to pay to post an ad that allows the masses to post information contrary to the ad's purpose. I take the MassageM4M reviews for what they are.