Has this ever happened to you?

[MrMiniver]

I've had a couple interesting or unusual things happen when I hired escorts recently, both when visiting Chicago. In one instance, the well known escort I hired spent a good 15 minutes "dissing" another well known escort (who I gathered happened to be his boyfriend or about to be ex-boyfriend). I sort of listened but didn't really know what to say as I hadn't initiated the conversation.

 

In the other instance, I hired another well known escort for a 2 hour encounter. We discussed in advance and agreed on a rate. Roughly 1 hour into the session, during a short lull, he stopped and said "I'm going to have to stop because I remembered I have another appointment soon." It was an in-call so I got dressed and said "oh, okay." It wasn't clear if he just remembered it that second or before we started. I was trying to figure out if something had happened during the session that made him want to stop and I couldn't think of anything. I later texted him and asked, politely, if everything had been alright or had I done something. He said no, not at all. I said keep me on your list for the next time you're in town (mostly to see what he'd say or do). He said 'sure.' I never heard from him again and I see that he has been back in town several times.

 

In a year of great hires, these were the two odd ones! Anyone else?

[foranhour]

Did you pay this escort for 2 hours or 1 hour?

[+ WilliamM]

In the other instance, I hired another well known escort for a 2 hour encounter. We discussed in advance and agreed on a rate. Roughly 1 hour into the session, during a short lull, he stopped and said "I'm going to have to stop because I remembered I have another appointment soon." It was an in-call so I got dressed and said "oh, okay." It wasn't clear if he just remembered it that second or before we started. I was trying to figure out if something had happened during the session that made him want to stop and I couldn't think of anything.

 

Welcome back, Mr. Miniver. That happened to me also, early in my hiring. The strange twist was it was the 2nd time I hired him, and I thought the first session went well.

[jawjateck]

We're people and we're quirky. Weird things happen from time to time. No need to fret too much as to why. A flaky outing usually ends my association with the provider. I'd rather look forward to the next great guy.

 

"People are people so why should it be

You and I should get along so awfully?"

 

Depeche Mode

[AdamSmith]

Seconding jawjateck's advice. Few years ago a well known escort I had been interested in was visiting my town. I phoned him about noon to see if he had time that evening. He said yes, sure, and offered a time to meet. Then in talking a couple of minutes more -- general chitchat, nothing about the appt, sex/money or other red flags -- he suddenly said, Oh, sorry, I can't meet tonight after all. I said, How about later during your visit here? (He was in town for another four days.) He said, Sorry, no, I don't have any more free time this trip, gotta go now.

 

Evidently he suddenly got some vibe that spooked him. No idea what or why. But the wonder being that a skull full of unstable glycerophosphates wobbling along on 20-40 watts works at all, you let it go and look to the next one.

[+ Gar1eth]

Once while visiting Dallas, I was having no luck meeting guys one night. At around 9 pm I finally managed to make arrangements with an escort who had a few good reviews (I can't remember now whether they were only on M4RN or also here on Daddys). He was staying with a friend. I was going to pick him up and drive us to a local bath house. I was actually staying outside Dallas in a Northern suburb. So I drive 15 miles to meet the guy. I'm in a nice car. He comes to the window of the car, and says I've decided I can't do this. I guess he got spooked at going somewhere in a car with a guy he had never met before. He didn't continue to advertise for long after that. I wonder what ever happened to him.

 

Gman

[MrMiniver]

Oh, I'm not fretting at all. I just thought it was curious, interesting, worth asking about. There was obviously a problem, if it was me I'd like to know but if the guy doesn't want to share that's up to him but I'd prefer he be honest. When I'm asked about him, the first thing I say is "the guy isn't honest." If he had been, I wouldn't be able to say that.

 

As for the first escort bashing another escort. It surprised me. Perhaps I caught him at a bad moment but I've never experienced that one before.

[AdamSmith]

As for the first escort bashing another escort. It surprised me. Perhaps I caught him at a bad moment but I've never experienced that one before.

 

Just keep hiring.

[MrMiniver]

Absolutamente!

 

Obviously, they were having a bad break up ... but why tell me about it? I wondered where his therapist was! And they are both on this forum so I didn't say anything publicly about it at the time .... for obvious reasons. But so much time has passed that it could be about almost anyone now! lol.

[liubit]

Some years ago, when I was living in New York, I "invited" a gorgeous twink from Philadelphia's Premier for a weekend in the city. It was not our first time: we had met for some overnights and even for a weekend or two, with excellent results. The kid was stunningly good looking, fun to be with, and great in bed. That particular Friday afternoon, soon after arriving at my place, we were making out, kissing and getting "warmed up". Suddenly, he stopped, burst into tears and said something like "I can't do this anymore, I can't. You are just too nice. I am very confused about my feelings. I am very confused about you. I have to go". I tried to calm him down and to understand what was happening, to no avail. He just picked up his stuff and left. I phoned the agency, and they told me that he had just called and that he had decided to quit. I never saw the boy again, but later he did send me a couple of apologetic messages , repeating that he was very confused about his feelings. Strange situation....

[+ VeryHappyCustomer]

A while back I had a similar disappointment with a guy who had previously been reliable.

 

He arrived 1.5 hours late for a two hour appointment. Normally I won't wait that long, but he'd never been late before, so I cut him some slack. When he arrived, he acknowledged that he was late but did not apologize. (At that point I should have cancelled, but things had gone so well before... ) A few minutes after we started, he said he couldn't do the full two hours because that would make him late for his "regular" job. I'm sure it was true. But two hours is my minimum -- otherwise I feel rushed and unsatisfied. (I definitely should have ended it there, but I didn't. Foolish me.) Our total time together came to 80 minutes. I pay for a BFE, which I certainly did not receive. He got me off, but I could have done better solo. Overall, it was an unsatisfying waste of time.

 

When I asked what I owed him, he named a sum based on his full hourly rate prorated to the minute. I was impressed by the quick mental math, but insulted by the price. I thought he should say something like "Just pay for an hour. I promise to be on time for our next appointment", or "I screwed up. Pay me what you think is fair". I would even have been OK with "I know you're disappointed. My rent is due. Could you please pay me for two hours and let me make it up to you next time?" But, nope. Just a number. So I counted out exactly what he'd asked for.

 

I know it wasn't anything I did, because he texted me last week about making another appointment. I was polite but didn't book. Was I wrong to expect some kind of customer-service gesture?