Marijuana Asthma Lesbian Etiquette Question

[ValleyDwellerNorth]

Last night me and my lesbian friend went to a gay bar. She was my designated driver. I was getting sauced. There was a delightful, older man sitting next to me. He is from Puerto Rico. He purchased shots for the two of us. It was strong and I couldn't pronounce the name of the shot if you paid me.

 

Then, after I rubbed and kissed his bald head, he invited me to his car for a joint. He invited my lesbian to join in but she politely declined and stood outside of the car.

 

After a few hits he started to have an Asthma attack. He grabbed his inhaler and did what he needed to do. I didn't realize he was Asthmatic until he started to have the attack and grab the inhaler. I didn't know what to do so I put down the joint and tried to see if there was anything I could do for him. My nephew has Asthma and I realize this is not a funny matter.

 

However, during the height of his attack, he was able to tell me to ACT LIKE NOTHING WAS GOING ON and to continue to enjoy the joint! He almost became angry that I stopped what I was doing while he was having this awful experience.

 

Things subsided and he continued to partake in the joint. Then he planted one on my lips and my lesbian turned into a voyeur and stared!

 

So, your opinions please:

 

1) what should I have done for him during the attack

2) was I correct in following his order for me to proceed as if nothing was happening

3) should I tell my lesbian the next time I am getting tongue she needs to walk away even though she is my ride

 

PEACE

VDN

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[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Miss Manners Wannabee Replies

 

>Then, after I rubbed and kissed his bald head, he invited me

>to his car for a joint. He invited my lesbian to join in but

>she politely declined and stood outside of the car.

 

I am not sure why she had to follow you both outside if the invitation to partake was extended and declined. Were I her, in a similar situation, I would not have found it necessary to stand "guard" so to speak.

 

>I didn't know what to do so I put down

>the joint and tried to see if there was anything I could do

>for him.

...

>He almost became angry that I stopped what I was

>doing while he was having this awful experience.

 

The courteous and considerate thing is always to determine if someone in your presence requires assistance. In this particular instance there are other issues which might be present, such as calling attention to the partaking of a substance which might cause further and additional complications both to you and this gentlemen; nonetheless, determining if you can assist was appropriate.

 

>2) was I correct in following his order for me to proceed as

>if nothing was happening

 

If you felt comfortable doing so and, after inquiring if he required assistance, it appeared he neither desired nor required same, yes.

 

>3) should I tell my lesbian the next time I am getting tongue

>she needs to walk away even though she is my ride

 

I think you should bring up the issue of privacy, in a tactfull and appropriate manner. I would have simply told her, once she declined to partake, that you would return for her inside within a reasonable amount of time and made sure to do so.

 

 

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[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Miss Manners Wannabee Replies

 

>Then, after I rubbed and kissed his bald head, he invited me

>to his car for a joint. He invited my lesbian to join in but

>she politely declined and stood outside of the car.

 

I am not sure why she had to follow you both outside if the invitation to partake was extended and declined. Were I her, in a similar situation, I would not have found it necessary to stand "guard" so to speak.

 

>I didn't know what to do so I put down

>the joint and tried to see if there was anything I could do

>for him.

...

>He almost became angry that I stopped what I was

>doing while he was having this awful experience.

 

The courteous and considerate thing is always to determine if someone in your presence requires assistance. In this particular instance there are other issues which might be present, such as calling attention to the partaking of a substance which might cause further and additional complications both to you and this gentlemen; nonetheless, determining if you can assist was appropriate.

 

>2) was I correct in following his order for me to proceed as

>if nothing was happening

 

If you felt comfortable doing so and, after inquiring if he required assistance, it appeared he neither desired nor required same, yes.

 

>3) should I tell my lesbian the next time I am getting tongue

>she needs to walk away even though she is my ride

 

I think you should bring up the issue of privacy, in a tactfull and appropriate manner. I would have simply told her, once she declined to partake, that you would return for her inside within a reasonable amount of time and made sure to do so.

 

 

http://www.gaydar.co.uk/francodisantis

[taylorky]

He invited my lesbian to join in but

>she politely declined and stood outside of the car.

 

>Then he planted one on my lips and my lesbian turned into a

>voyeur and stared!

 

 

MY lesbian...lol thats funny ,i want a lesbian too...yea i want a great big ol lesbian ,one with a motorcycle and tattoos. do they come in different colors and sizes,do you have to feed them or are they self sufficent.

 

mommmmmmmmmmm i want a lesbian like vdn's

 

:+

[ValleyDwellerNorth]

RE: Miss Manners Wannabee Replies

 

>I think you should bring up the issue of privacy, in a

>tactfull and appropriate manner. I would have simply told her,

>once she declined to partake, that you would return for her

>inside within a reasonable amount of time and made sure to do

>so.

 

Thank you Franco. She is somewhat protective and a voyeur. It makes for a crazy combination. I appreciate the advice.

[ValleyDwellerNorth]

Hello Taylor,

 

>MY lesbian...lol thats funny ,i want a lesbian too...yea i

>want a great big ol lesbian ,one with a motorcycle and

>tattoos. do they come in different colors and sizes,do you

>have to feed them or are they self sufficent.

>mommmmmmmmmmm i want a lesbian like vdn's

 

My lesbian is very independent, self sufficient and somewhat high maintenence. I have the most fun with my lesbian at Barnes and Noble. We have a grand time.

 

She is a pretty and very fashionable lesbian. She is sassy, smart and a good friend. Her wit is dry but her sarcasm sneaky and biting. If we were both 100% straight we would be having sex by now. However, I am not ruling it out.

 

You have to work hard Taylor to find a special lesbian like I found.

 

VDN