Chicago

[ny344556]

Any recommendations? It seems to be limited options on Rentmen. I'm looking for a bottom/versatile guy in his 20s or early 30s. Any ideas?

[TruthBTold]

I have been trying to get some info on Builtboy138. If any is true, he has the attributts of what you (and I) are looking for. There actually are a couple of other guys that physically meet a bottom/versatile standard but it would probably mean that you would need to contact them and see if you like them or not. Last, though he is in Milwaukee (which is not that far away) and is really tall, Damien Lord has always gotten magnificent reviews. I was always a little hesitant to explore his bottom side while I was absolutely sure he could satisfy any top role I asked him to play. If you sometimes also want to explore your bottom half I think Chicago offers some other candidates.

[+ Gar1eth]

There's Andrew Justice. But he is just a bit outside your age range. And he lives outside Chicago-so he only comes in for extended visits. He's known for being a top. But he is perfectly versatile.

 

Gman

[TruHart1]

There's Andrew Justice. But he is just a bit outside your age range. And he lives outside Chicago-so he only comes in for extended visits. He's known for being a top. But he is perfectly versatile.

 

Gman

Well if anyone knows from personal experience that Justice is a wonderful bottom, Gman, who has admitted to hiring him a number of times and is quite vocal about being ONLY a top himself, is the man to trust on this. Of course, I've seen a number of video's where Andrew has power-bottomed and appeared to be enjoying it immensely! As for meeting your age requirements, he's in his mid thirties and from hiring him myself, I can guarantee you will have a great time with him! :)

 

TruHart1

[BabyBoomer]

Of course, I've seen a number of video's where Andrew has power-bottomed and appeared to be enjoying it immensely! :)

:)

 

The one with SX in particular.

 

~ Boomer ~

[+ Gar1eth]

Well if anyone knows from personal experience that Justice is a wonderful bottom, Gman, who has admitted to hiring him a number of times and is quite vocal about being ONLY a top himself, is the man to trust on this. Of course, I've seen a number of video's where Andrew has power-bottomed and appeared to be enjoying it immensely! As for meeting your age requirements, he's in his mid thirties and from hiring him myself, I can guarantee you will have a great time with him! :)

 

TruHart1

 

Oh ye of little faith, TruHart. Aside from not wanting to be gay, the idea of having to bottom was my second highest reason for being total virgin until the age of 41. And my feelings regarding bottoming haven't really changed much since then. I swear to you that only my urologist's finger has ever popped my cherry. And every time I have a visit I wish were able to pre-procedure myself with some Ativan to provide some amnesia and relieve my fear.

 

But just for the record , I topped Raul Manzo too. He's another mainly top but is also versatile. I'd suggest him too. But the reviews indicate he is outside the OP's desired age range.

 

Gman

[TruHart1]

Oh ye of little faith, TruHart. Aside from not wanting to be gay, the idea of having to bottom was my second highest reason for being total virgin until the age of 41. And my feelings regarding bottoming haven't really changed much since then. I swear to you that only my urologist's finger has ever popped my cherry. And every time I have a visit I wish were able to pre-procedure myself with some Ativan to provide some amnesia and relieve my fear.

 

But just for the record , I topped Raul Manzo too. He's another mainly top but is also versatile. I'd suggest him too. But the reviews indicate he is outside the OP's desired age range.

 

Gman

I certainly don't question or mean to criticize your dislike of bottoming Gman, and I apologize if that's how you interpreted my post. We all have our preferences! As for Raul, he is wonderful, yes, but he is in his mid 40's, so absolutely older than ny344556's criteria!

 

:)

 

The one with SX in particular.

 

~ Boomer ~

Absolutely, Boomer, that flip flop scene between Andrew Justice and Sean Xavier is a hot pleasure to watch!!!

 

TruHart1

[tyro]

I haven't even SEEN that scene between Sean and Andrew and I know it's smokin'.

T

[wisconsinguy]

I certainly can recommend Raul. He can meet your wants/needs without any hesitation. As far as the age thing. I have never been disappointed with our many extended encounters. He also has a personality that will melt and excite your heart. He is tops in my book, but that is all I need!!! WG2

[+ Gar1eth]

I haven't even SEEN that scene between Sean and Andrew and I know it's smokin'.

T

 

 

Tyro -all of a sudden you have a male icon!!

 

Gman

[TruHart1]

I certainly can recommend Raul. He can meet your wants/needs without any hesitation. As far as the age thing. I have never been disappointed with our many extended encounters. He also has a personality that will melt and excite your heart. He is tops in my book, but that is all I need!!! WG2

 

I completely agree WG2! Raul belies his years with his high energy level, his sensual hotness, and just his innate ability to make it ALL about you, the client!!! A fantastic, intelligent man who always furnishes the BFE plus in every way!!!

 

TruHart1

[+ Gar1eth]

I certainly can recommend Raul. He can meet your wants/needs without any hesitation. As far as the age thing. I have never been disappointed with our many extended encounters. He also has a personality that will melt and excite your heart. He is tops in my book, but that is all I need!!! WG2

 

I completely agree WG2! Raul belies his years with his high energy level, his sensual hotness, and just his innate ability to make it ALL about you, the client!!! A fantastic, intelligent man who always furnishes the BFE plus in every way!!!

 

TruHart1

 

All y'all say is true. But of course we don't know how fixed a desire younger guys are for the OP.

 

Gman

[TruthBTold]

Gar1eth, as to whether you wish to be a top forever that is your decision. From your replies here I can't tell if you have no desire to bottom or if you entertain the possibility but are afraid to do it. I can understand that because I was in that position. I was apprehensive about the whole thing but at the same time there was something about having someone else taking control and me letting lose in a way that a bottom can that drew me to it. (Of course, I knew that even as a bottom I could take control if I wanted to, that is what power bottoming is all about, isn't it?) At any rate, once I realized I wanted to go there I started small and worked my way up. In the beginning, I was still in control but bottoming in a way. First my own fingers, then I used small dildoes. Then I increased size only when I felt comfortable. I was still in control but for some reason it felt like I was giving myself up to some other thing. Finally, when I was using a dildo that was the size of a normal sized cock I threw caution to the wind and contacted someone who had a similar sized dick. I did not call (and still would not) contact someone whose appellation is "Doctor Destructo" or the like. When I first contact the person I tell him my situation and he knew exactly what I wanted. I dildoed myself before he arrived and he was respectful of my request. There was apprehension on my part but at the same time there was also a great "bottoming" feeling that was so enjoyable. It is hard to describe. The feeling got more intense as time went on and I learned to let loose more and more. Certainly, it doesn't necessarily happen all at once, but what does. Deep throating a cock doesn't happen without practice or at least I do not recall it that way. So go for it, really with the right amount of lube you have very little to lose but your cherry.

[+ Gar1eth]

Gar1eth, as to whether you wish to be a top forever that is your decision. From your replies here I can't tell if you have no desire to bottom or if you entertain the possibility but are afraid to do it. I can understand that because I was in that position. I was apprehensive about the whole thing but at the same time there was something about having someone else taking control and me letting lose in a way that a bottom can that drew me to it. (Of course, I knew that even as a bottom I could take control if I wanted to, that is what power bottoming is all about, isn't it?) At any rate, once I realized I wanted to go there I started small and worked my way up. In the beginning, I was still in control but bottoming in a way. First my own fingers, then I used small dildoes. Then I increased size only when I felt comfortable. I was still in control but for some reason it felt like I was giving myself up to some other thing. Finally, when I was using a dildo that was the size of a normal sized cock I threw caution to the wind and contacted someone who had a similar sized dick. I did not call (and still would not) contact someone whose appellation is "Doctor Destructo" or the like. When I first contact the person I tell him my situation and he knew exactly what I wanted. I dildoed myself before he arrived and he was respectful of my request. There was apprehension on my part but at the same time there was also a great "bottoming" feeling that was so enjoyable. It is hard to describe. The feeling got more intense as time went on and I learned to let loose more and more. Certainly, it doesn't necessarily happen all at once, but what does. Deep throating a cock doesn't happen without practice or at least I do not recall it that way. So go for it, really with the right amount of lube you have very little to lose but your cherry.

 

 

I appreciate the advice. But while I've been vaguely curious, for the most part I have no desire at all to bottom. In any case it's possible I might have developed an interest in bottoming if I had had sex earlier in my life. But when I was 32-long before I ever had sex for the first time, I developed chronic pelvic pain syndrome/chronic prostatitis. The first episode lasted about 2 months with daily groin pain enough to bring tears to my eyes. Nowadays not only do I develop pelvic soreness after ejaculation, but at my worst times even the exam by a hopefully gentle small-fingered urologist can put me in pain for days.

 

Recently I have had one of the worst episodes in years. It lasted on and off for about 2-1/2 months. I was taking *pyridium for the pain a majority of the days of the week (*it's a urinary analgesic-like aspirin for the bladder. The only problem is it's also an orange dye. And it can actually stain the porcelain of a commode. Thankfully it seems to respond to bleach). I decided a long time ago that if a gentle exam by a urologist could put me into pain for days that a tallywacker deliberately trying to ram my prostate was not a good idea.

 

Gman

[TruthBTold]

I'm really sorry to hear that. As you already have found, you can live a happy and healthy sex life as a top. As a matter of fact, it seems that there are more bottoms to be had.

[+ Gar1eth]

I'm really sorry to hear that. As you already have found, you can live a happy and healthy sex life as a top. As a matter of fact, it seems that there are more bottoms to be had.

 

Thank you for understanding. But as to your comment about bottoms-actually no-or maybe it's no about bottoms I'm interested in. I'm not hiring now. But when I did I'd say, if not a majority, then large plurality of muscular/body-builder escorts ads are only of tops. If Rentboy were still around, I'd use New York and Miami as prime examples. Really you begin to wonder whether if these guys are really gay, then do a large proportion of Brazilians and Mediterranean guys come to the USA because there are no bottoms at home.

 

Really just about any of the large cities on Rentboy I think if you had divided out the number of athletic/muscular/bodybuilder escorts -there were more tops than bottoms. The same holds true on the dating apps (which I've just deleted). I'd say that 3/5 of the guys I'm interested in - I read their descriptions only after being attracted to them-and find out they are tops. And if mirabile visu by some chance the guy is a bottom -invariably they are only interested in bottoming for in shape guys, guys no more than 5 years older than they are, or really endowed guys. I don't fit any of those demographics. And I'm not attracted to guys with my body type. I most likely wouldn't be able to perform. It's difficult enough for me to perform-even with Viagra- with guys I like these days. So I've pretty much given up sex. And when you think about it, I didn't start having sex until I was 41. I'm 54 now. I had about 11 years of semi frequent sex due to hiring before I had to quit. And occasional unpaid sex over the last two years. Who really needs more than 13 years of sex? That would just be greedy.

 

Gman

[+ honcho]

Who really needs more than 13 years of sex? That would just be greedy.

 

Color me greedy! Can we strike a chorus to sing the praises of sex for multiple decades, and educate Gman without being mean-spirited in a nonetheless decorous way?

 

I have the impression that Epigonos and Adriano46 might be our poster people for such an enterprise, but I'm sure there are other stellar examples among the regulars here . . .

[+ Gar1eth]

Color me greedy! Can we strike a chorus to sing the praises of sex for multiple decades, and educate Gman without being mean-spirited in a nonetheless decorous way?

 

I have the impression that Epigonos and Adriano46 might be our poster people for such an enterprise, but I'm sure there are other stellar examples among the regulars here . . .

 

 

If there were any jobs door to door for sex therapists, that would probably be the perfect job for me. You know what they say. Those who can have sex do-those who can't teach.

 

Gman

[TruthBTold]

Thank you for understanding. But as to your comment about bottoms-actually no-or maybe it's no about bottoms I'm interested in. I'm not hiring now. But when I did I'd say, if not a majority, then large plurality of muscular/body-builder escorts ads are only of tops. If Rentboy were still around, I'd use New York and Miami as prime examples. Really you begin to wonder whether if these guys are really gay, then do a large proportion of Brazilians and Mediterranean guys come to the USA because there are no bottoms at home.

 

Really just about any of the large cities on Rentboy I think if you had divided out the number of athletic/muscular/bodybuilder escorts -there were more tops than bottoms. The same holds true on the dating apps (which I've just deleted). I'd say that 3/5 of the guys I'm interested in - I read their descriptions only after being attracted to them-and find out they are tops. And if mirabile visu by some chance the guy is a bottom -invariably they are only interested in bottoming for in shape guys, guys no more than 5 years older than they are, or really endowed guys. I don't fit any of those demographics. And I'm not attracted to guys with my body type. I most likely wouldn't be able to perform. It's difficult enough for me to perform-even with Viagra- with guys I like these days. So I've pretty much given up sex. And when you think about it, I didn't start having sex until I was 41. I'm 54 now. I had about 11 years of semi frequent sex due to hiring before I had to quit. And occasional unpaid sex over the last two years. Who really needs more than 13 years of sex? That would just be greedy.

 

Gman

 

G - the more I thought about it the more I came to the conclusion you were right (god, how many times am I going to have to say that to you in this forum. ) My "type" seems to be the same as what you like. While I did mean bottoms in general when I originally answered, when put in the context of the hiring of athletic/muscular/bodybuilder escorts the majority of them are tops - tho there is the occasional Robert Gonzalez (emphasis on occasional). And then once found there is always the necessity that personalities click. God, now I'm depressed.