Need help finding a "ultra high-end" escort - for my boss!

[danneeoo]

I'm in a bit of a pickle and looking for direction.

 

I work as a head assistant for a very high-powered, semi-publicly known and moneyed man in New York. He recently informed me, to my surprise, that he would like me to find him a male escort. I say "to my surprise" because... A. As far as I and most people know, he's straight and married. B. I think I may be one of only a handful of people he's every "come out" to. And C. He's never asked me to do something quite like this. It was almost amusing how indirectly he approached the topic. I've never seen him do anything but get to the point with everything else. We have had a number of frank-er discussions since.

 

I was simultaneously shocked and flattered by his request. I've worked with him for years and have prided myself on being a fantastic assistant but I never saw this or the male-on-male thing coming. I also feel a certain happiness about being so trusted by someone I really look up to. That said, for the first time, I find myself failing at carrying out something he's asked me to do, which is find him a male escort.

 

I've gone through all the escorts in the major markets and none exactly fit the bill. I know that sounds nuts but as I read through the forums, I realize that what he's looking for would fit more into some of what was discussed in a recent post about the "ultra high-end" market.

 

Physically, he's not as demanding as might be expected. He wants them to be handsome, have great smile and be in very good shape, but he doesn't need them to be 5% body fat or anything like that. Mid 20s to mid 30s. He's into more of a swimmer build than a muscle god. There are some darker feature preferences but nothing set in stone. They also have to be whip smart, engaging and have a great personality. He has the money to take care of any geographical problems easily so location is not as important. Surely, there are many who could fit the bill in the Rentboy ads and some of you could say, "look at so and so" but...

 

First, he's looking for someone who's absolutely discreet, torture chamber discreet even! And "undercover." Though he doesn't see ever being in public with the escort, he's concerned about doormen at his apartments and in hotels. (The stories I could tell about how indiscreet and gossipy even the highest end of doormen and bellmen can be!) Anyway that rules out anyone who shows their face in their ads, or sends them out at all. He's willing to let me vet them and their faces in person. Quick meet-up with me to chat, fee paid of course.

 

On top of discretion, he wants someone that only takes a few clients a month (or preferably altogether). In regard to the previous discussion on the ultra-high end market, he's not looking to be a "retainer client" per se and he's definitely not looking to be a sugar daddy. Too many strings. He's looking for someone who is just very discerning and very, well, exclusive in taking on clients. What can I say? Everything in his life is about exclusivity. On that previous discussion, someone mentioned guys who only take 3-10 clients at higher rates. That's the kind of guy he's looking for. He'll want to hire 2-3 times a month for multi-hour sessions.

 

I've emailed a number of escorts on RB who look like they could fit the bill based on their (faceless) profiles and lack of reviews but the exchanges have been underwhelming to say the least.

 

So where does one find these more-exclusive working guys? They don't seem to be on Rentboy or any other site I can find. I've contact Dave from m2m and unfortunately, no one he has fits the bill. I've contemplated contacting fashion modeling agencies, though most models I've known wouldn't check the whip-smart and interesting boxes, and obviously that approach is rather risky and potentially insulting (unless someone can attest otherwise)! I've thought about approaching actor agents though same problems as above. Obviously these last two are terrible options and I wouldn't do them even if I've thought them, but you can see how frustrated I'm getting at not being able to do my job.

 

Can anyone point me in the direction of how I might go about finding these more-exclusive escorts? Is there something online I'm missing, some secret door I need to go knock on? Thanks to everyone.

[+ azdr0710]

what you want very definitely exists....

 

you'll get good advice here - hopefully in the form of a private message!!

 

I'd stay away from the rentboy et al sites and just see if somebody here contacts you directly with a lead....this is the best place to ask

 

good luck....

[kaboom35]

On top of discretion, he wants someone that only takes a few clients a month

 

How would anybody know this info? Wouldn't

it be rude to ask an escort how many bookings they have in a month?

[Epigonos]

My only advise would be stop searching the usual escort websites. Try searching the reviews on this site. The guys who are reviewed here know the ropes and are most likely to respond in a timely manner. You might want to begin searching the states and cities in your area and then if you don't find anything expand your search further afield. Most reviews here show a photograph of the escort and usually have a link to men4rent, rentmen, or rentboy where you can access additional photographs to ascertain if he doesn't present any face shots. Private me if you would like to discuss the matter further

[Lankypeters]

Arek, in NYC, is discreet, professional, hot and handsome. He no longer advertises on Rentboy -- word on this site is that he wants privacy at his day job -- but he seems to be available for "other" work. You might try calling the phone number listed in the numerous reviews here.

[danneeoo]

what you want very definitely exists...

 

Thanks! That is a relief to know!

 

My only advise would be stop searching the usual escort websites...

 

Will PM you!

 

Arek, in NYC, is discreet, professional, hot and handsome...

 

I will give that a shot, thanks, though body shape wise, from the photo on daddysreviews, there's a good chance it won't be a match.

[danneeoo]

How would anybody know this info? Wouldn't

it be rude to ask an escort how many bookings they have in a month?

 

I work in a world where that kind of frankness is expected when you're on a mission to get something done.

[masonguy]

Check out Simply Adam...sexy, sophisticated, upscale, great guy.

[danneeoo]

I'd say look for a new job. Sure I'm all about being sex positive and believe in the causes of sex workers but pimping out guys to your boss is not in your job title. What's your next assignment? Scoring or running drugs? Getting your boss laid is not a position you applied for.

 

I'm good where I am, but thanks for the concern. Getting our bosses laid is not explicitly laid out in the job description of an assistant at my level, but I can assure you it's understood between the lines when you work your way up to my job and it is very much what many of my peers are tasked with on a regular basis, even if it's a first for me.

[danneeoo]

I'd say look for a new job. Sure I'm all about being sex positive and believe in the causes of sex workers but pimping out guys to your boss is not in your job title. What's your next assignment? Scoring or running drugs? Getting your boss laid is not a position you applied for.

 

PS... I'm finding this assignment quite entertaining, if frustrating in my inability to seal the deal. I really like my job. I don't know about running them, but scoring drugs, also among many high level assistants' job responsibilities. (Not mine so far.)

[Lankypeters]

I will give that a shot, thanks, though body shape wise, from the photo on daddysreviews, there's a good chance it won't be a match.

Arek's recent shots were unflattering -- there was some discussion about the pictures on this site. He's quite handsome -- even better looking than his pics, as posters here like to say. If you contact him, perhaps he can send better shots.

[Lankypeters]

If you can talk your boss out of requiring the escort not post face pix, I highly recommend Rob Yaeger, whom I've recently engaged a couple of times. He's bright -- he has a law degree from Columbia -- very sociable, witty and conversant. His body is spectacular and his technique in the sack is as great as it gets.

[+ DickyF]

I recommend Zach Brown! He does not post or ever send face pix. Very discreet. He is very intelligent and very handsome! He has a great body: lean-muscular. He is in NYC and has a RB ad.

 

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=393629&type=escort

[danneeoo]

Adam and Arek are a no-go at this point. :-/ As is Rob Yeager or anyone who's done porn. He's not open to anyone who shows his face even privately, let alone guys who post their face in their profiles. Funnily enough, from what I've read from around here, he seems to have an opposite preference to most in that regard!

 

For reasons that can't be elaborated upon, but that shouldn't in any way reflect badly on Zack Brown, nor are in any way sinister, Zack Brown is not an option. In terms of style, type and substance, he is a good direction though!

[kaboom35]

What about Jake #3 ? He's here on daddy reviews. Hot guy and hot sex. I had a great time with him

[needbodywork]

There was a guy named Brock S primarily based in LA but also visited east coast often. Has 3 reviews here he'd fit the bill 100%. I'm under the impression he has a select few clients and doesn't advertise openly, but I can PM you the email he used.

[instudiocity]

And from the headline alone, I was assuming a guy up can get his ass up high in the air for a tall top....

 

Ultra High End, Indeed!

[danneeoo]

Hi, kaboom, nbw, PMing the both of you. Thanks.

[Alec Andrews]

I highly recommend Alec Andrews.... he's as whip smart, quick, and charming as a cattail in heat!

[danneeoo]

And from the headline alone, I was assuming a guy up can get his ass up high in the air for a tall top....

 

Ultra High End, Indeed!

Ha! I mean, he is a man of a certain stature... Lol

[danneeoo]

I highly recommend Alec Andrews.... he's as whip smart, quick, and charming as a cattail in heat!

 

You're a very handsome and fit guy Alec! I'm not even gay and I can tell you that.

 

Unfortunately, for some of the reasons stated above not really a match for what he's looking for.

[Lankypeters]

I'm beginning to think this guy has so many requirements, he might just jerk himself off.

[+ WmClarke]

I'm beginning to think this guy has so many requirements, he might just jerk himself off.

He's probably sick of doing that and finally got up the nerve to ask his assistant to find someone.

[danneeoo]

I'm beginning to think this guy has so many requirements, he might just jerk himself off.

 

Really, I don't think I have stated that many requirements. No porn actors or escorts who show their face, which is not THAT uncommon on either front, swimmer build, smart, interesting, ultra discreet, offers a certain exclusivity. With all the talk of the "off-menu" boys people have alluded to in other threads (eg. "They don't necessarily advertise."), those are the guys I'm looking to contact. Most of the men suggested so far were ruled out by these measures (eg. no face) before they were even suggested.

[+ Chris Eisenhower]

Call David Geffen. He'll know.

 

"offers a certain exclusivity…"

By the way, IMHO this is going to be the hard part. I can't recall a single well-discussed or popular escort on here who is known for being überchoosy with the clients they see.