Escort vs Masseur

[sincitymix]

Forgive me if this is posted in the Deli instead of the Spa. It just felt more appropriate here, as some of the answers may not be conductive to a masseurs license.

 

 

I'm seeing a lot of ads going from Escort to Massage categories. I find it hard to know when a Masseur offers Escort type services. I don't want to offend the Masseur by asking...or if its even considered an appropriate question to ask.

 

Thought and suggestions?

 

Oops just noticed the title after I submitted.. should be Escort vs Masseur. Clumsy fingers this morning

[mmk123]

unfortunately you just might have to ask if the Masseur offers escorting services

 

I would say narrow down your choices. If the Masseur says "Massage only" in his ad then it is possible that nothing else would happen but a massage (and even in that case they might still do more.) If there is no "Massage Only" type of message in the add, then maybe best to discreetly imply you would like more.

[corndog]

When a masseur advertises "sensual" or "custom" massage, it can be really difficult to know what you're going to get. You really have to read between the lines of their advertisements, and you'll rarely be sure in advance.

 

I think that a lot of masseurs offer escort-like services, but don't necessarily feel that they can perform with just any client; it depends on the chemistry. So, if the masseur doesn't have chemistry with the client, they can perform a massage or "body rub," and you can't really complain, because they've provided what they advertised. However, for some clients, the service is much more sexual. If the chemistry is there, I think that some masseurs would rather do an escort session -- it is ultimately less work than giving a really good massage.

 

If my theory is true, I don't think you'll get anywhere by asking in advance. They might be offended (or pretend to be), or might be concerned about law enforcement, or might not want to commit one way or another until they meet you.

 

My best advice when hiring a masseur is to go in with an open mind. Be prepared to enjoy a good massage, or an erotic experience. Treat the masseur with respect, and don't assume that they're body is available to you. If the masseur is open to erotic play, you'll generally find at some point that their "package" is "accidentally" rubbing against your hand as you're on their table. That's your clue to gently touch back, and things will usually move on from there. For me, the thrill of not knowing for sure where the session is going is part of the fun.

[bigvalboy]

My best advice when hiring a masseur is to go in with an open mind. Be prepared to enjoy a good massage, or an erotic experience. Treat the masseur with respect, and don't assume that they're body is available to you. If the masseur is open to erotic play, you'll generally find at some point that their "package" is "accidentally" rubbing against your hand as you're on their table. That's your clue to gently touch back, and things will usually move on from there. For me, the thrill of not knowing for sure where the session is going is part of the fun.

 

Yes to this....^^

[sincitymix]

When a masseur advertises "sensual" or "custom" massage, it can be really difficult to know what you're going to get. You really have to read between the lines of their advertisements, and you'll rarely be sure in advance.

 

I think that a lot of masseurs offer escort-like services, but don't necessarily feel that they can perform with just any client; it depends on the chemistry. So, if the masseur doesn't have chemistry with the client, they can perform a massage or "body rub," and you can't really complain, because they've provided what they advertised. However, for some clients, the service is much more sexual. If the chemistry is there, I think that some masseurs would rather do an escort session -- it is ultimately less work than giving a really good massage.

 

If my theory is true, I don't think you'll get anywhere by asking in advance. They might be offended (or pretend to be), or might be concerned about law enforcement, or might not want to commit one way or another until they meet you.

 

My best advice when hiring a masseur is to go in with an open mind. Be prepared to enjoy a good massage, or an erotic experience. Treat the masseur with respect, and don't assume that they're body is available to you. If the masseur is open to erotic play, you'll generally find at some point that their "package" is "accidentally" rubbing against your hand as you're on their table. That's your clue to gently touch back, and things will usually move on from there. For me, the thrill of not knowing for sure where the session is going is part of the fun.

 

That is pretty good advise. I did ask a masseur once if he also escorted, he sent me a pretty angry reply.. while I was sitting there thinking.. "if you say you don't do any type of sexual contact, then why post pictures of your erect c*ck and spread open bum"

[anatole]

 

My best advice when hiring a masseur is to go in with an open mind. Be prepared to enjoy a good massage, or an erotic experience. Treat the masseur with respect, and don't assume that they're body is available to you. If the masseur is open to erotic play, you'll generally find at some point that their "package" is "accidentally" rubbing against your hand as you're on their table. That's your clue to gently touch back, and things will usually move on from there. For me, the thrill of not knowing for sure where the session is going is part of the fun.

 

I totally agree with that