When kissing is listed in your ad...

[jon1265]

Do you mean it as dry or French?

 

Should this be specified? I would imagine it would always mean French and the ad should state otherwise if not, but am I in the wrong here? I realize kissing is not for everyone, and I respect that--I would not hire someone who does not kiss--but I respect those boundaries.

 

What say you escorts?

[Juan Vancouver]

Hi Jon,

 

Thanks for asking. This is a subject very dear to me and sometimes it's good to revisit such subjects for those who missed it in the past.

 

I love kissing. Kissing to me is the main element that gets me going. A great kisser with a perfectly clean breath, who listens to my own kissing style and plays within those parameters will make me do anything. For me has to be a gradual warm up game, starting with light , sensual touches, growing into more passionate kissing. The surest way to shut me down is to tongue rape my throat as a first approach. (I have seen client in this forum recommend this, and I couldn't disagree more.)

 

Kiss me gently, warm me up, listen to how I respond to your kissing, and let our bodies do their magic. When passion takes over, go for it and grab unto your seat! I love it.

 

I list kissing as one of the things I do in my ad.

 

However it is important to remember that I do not charge for kissing or fucking or fisting. I charge for the time I spend with my clients. I list all the things that I enjoy, but that doesn't mean that because you pay my rate you "get to" do these things to me. If I list those things is because every lover that I encounter, whether he is a client or a recreational partner will know that I enjoy those things and it is possible those things will happen with me.

 

Now, I don't mean that it depends on whether I feel in the mood or not; I am always in the mood. (Damn you latin blood!) What I mean is that if my partner is ready and prepared correctly for the activities I like, we will for sure do them.

 

Some people mention that they are into kissing and show up with terrible breath, teeth that have not been brushed in weeks, food scraps on their moustaches and refuse to brush their teeth at your invitation or even take a mint. More often than not it's these guys who use the tongue throat rape as overture. With these men I don't kiss.

 

Some people want to be fucked for a long time or want to try being fisted. When they arrive it's evident that they didn't prepare for what they want. Not only it would be unhygienic to go ahead, it would be riskier. (Feces can cause rips in the anal tissue and condoms.) With these people we will have to find other things to do.

 

Often people complaint about having met a well reviewed escort and having had an entirely different experience than the ones that were described ad nauseam in his reviews. My guess is always that when it comes to consistent escorts, the differences between experiences have only to do with the degree to which the client was ready for the session. This has nothing to do (As some clients fear) with the perceived beauty of the client. All escorts worth their salt have their favourite clients, who more often than not wouldn't be considered as attractive men, but are kind, fun, polite and are ALWAYS ready. We LOVE to see these men.

 

Want a great experience?

 

Be prepared, be polite, be informed, remember that you are dealing with a human being and be ready to have a riot.

[Alec Andrews]

I couldn't agree more wholeheartedly with Juan. What eloquence and thoughtfulness his post was.

 

I touched on this exact issue in one of my rare posts.... maybe 6 months back... Like Juan.. I love kissing, but like most things in life, it needs to have technique and finesse and passion. You start out slowly... touch lips..smell each other... explore the mouth until the tongue ever so gently starts to play... then deeper and deeper and deeper. I am so turned off when someone starts coming at me with their tongue already an inch outside of their mouth. I actually have a little private thought that runs through my mind when this happens... oh no... I have a snake kisser. The tongue isn't something that flicks in and out of a mouth and into mine... It is a part of you to explore me and make love to me. Slowly and sensually always wins the race for this man.

 

Cleanliness is always a huge factor. It takes me a good 10 minutes to get into kissing with a smoker. It just isn't something I will ever enjoy... but I do it because I want to please. It just takes me a while to warm up. Same thing with halitosis or what have you. A clean man is a satisfied man.

 

Fondly - Alec

[desertguy1954]

I agree with Juan and Alec. Kissing is a must for me. In reading escort ads and reviews that is one thing I check to see what happens. I like the slow start, the soft kisses, the foreplay, the first touches. I like to warm up slowly, see how the person responds, start to find those spots that make them moan and want more. I am always nervous at first meeting and by staring slowly always helps me to relax.

Also I that how ever we spend our time together both must have great breath and a very clean body.

[Juan Vancouver]

I love kissing, but like most things in life, it needs to have technique and finesse and passion. You start out slowly... touch lips..smell each other... explore the mouth until the tongue ever so gently starts to play... then deeper and deeper and deeper....

 

The tongue isn't something that flicks in and out of a mouth and into mine... It is a part of you to explore me and make love to me. Slowly and sensually always wins the race for this man.

 

Damn! Immediate boner!

 

That is exactly what I am talking about! We should print this in small pamphlets and call it "The Andrews complete manual for perfect kissing." and give it away at bars and public squares. =)

 

Thanks for chiming in Alec. No wonder why your reputation is what it is.

 

Here's to kissing!