How do you ask a guy if he is gay?

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[MiamiLooker]

You have reached new lows in your postings. This is so not relavant , but utterly stupid. You apparently have never met Steven or any of the other highly rated European working guys, cause this clip is so wrong of its depiction if these guys. Why don't you keep you comments and posts to guys you personally know instead of your off the wall comments of being a wanna be.

 

Boston Bill

 

Why are your posts so unnecessarily nasty? Something isn't right.

[Steven_Draker]

Where's the S? We straight people are tired of being invisible!

 

You straight guys and gals are surrounding the Q-circle.

[Steven_Draker]

First of all, I am sorry to be asking this question. I am a middle aged gay man living in NYC, and I should know better. My gaydar sucks, except in the most obvious of cases. Sometimes I 'feel' a guy is attracted to me, of vice versa, and I can't think of anything to say that would 'break the ice' so to speak. What is a polite, non-intrusive way of bringing it up? Thank you for your recommendations ...

 

How can you tell if a guy is gay without asking him?

 

You can't tell. There are guys who wave their arms around, and talk with a lisp, who are extremely straight. And there are butch tough guys who drive trucks, who are gay. The stereotypes are no use here. The big question is "why should it matter?" Sometimes men can be effeminate in manner (swishing, moving their hands or arms in exaggerated movements) while some guys can look and act just like a straight guy. I have met many people in my lifetime and never really thought of their sexuality and some of those people I have had as friends for many years and it wasn't for a long while before a few admitted they were gay. I loved them for who there were, how they treated me, and nothing has changed. Don't sweat it and just enjoy the guy. If you are interested in him then ask him out and if he's gay he probably will say no or even admit he's gay. Either way you'll at least know where you stand.The only way to tell is if he tells you, and tells the truth. Many people say you can tell by mannerisms or interests but I could point out many straight florists and many gay wrestlers. All the stereotypical male interests (hunting, sports, drinking games) are found among gay men too. All the stereotypical gay interests (fashion, gossip) are found among straight men too. There is no way to know for sure unless a man tells you. In my case, I almost never tell people, because once I do they put me in a category and start dishing about Cher or Liza (I could not care less), ask my fashion advice (I know nothing about it ) and want me to pick out a color for their living room (how do I know?). Learn to treat people as individuals and you'll rarely cause offense.Sometimes it's extremely difficult to know unless the person tells you. I have seen men from all walks of life that are gay and some are oil riggers and longshoremen (big guys and the least ones you would guess would be gay.) There are men with effeminate trends (women's gestures) but they're straight as an arrow. Some women may look and act like a man but are straight and some women you would consider a #10 are lesbians. Unless they tell you outwardly they are gay then it's often hard to know. It's a difficult question to ask the person so unless you are steady dating them or married to a person you suspect is gay it doesn't really matter. See how he reacts if others call him gay. He will deny it very strongly. See if he looks at men at restaurants and see if he looks at attractive men. Also, see if his girlfriend (if he has one) complains about him. Does he have sex with girls? These are all signs.

 

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How to Find Out If a Guy You Like Is Gay (is He Gay or Straight?)

 

Is he gay? Is he straight? That guy who just avoided eye contact with you in the store....those dreamy eyes....what was he staring at your for?

 

Every gay man struggles with the fact that it is very difficult to tell if another man is gay or straight. It happens to everyone eventually. You encounter a gorgeous, hot, smart, funny guy that is the best of all worlds. He's good with conversations, has a great outlook on life, and he's smoking hot! What more could a guy want?

 

Well some of the problem may be your interpretation of his actions. Does he want to be your friend? Or does he want to be with you? Depending on the day, your opinion on this might differ.

 

One thing is certain, body language can give you a lot of hints about his intentions. Keep an eye on how he acts around you. Is he constantly making eye contact? Does he stare and then quickly look away? Does he stare and smile? These are all excellent signs that he is into you!

 

With a little practice in the 21st century, men who are gay, bisexual, or metro-sexual can be spotted. Most of the time if they are interested in you, they will find a subtle way to let you know. Sometimes you have to take charge. The trick is knowing who's court the ball is in. My advice....try to keep in in yours!

 

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