FF Top in NYC

[mlscott]

Any recommendations for experienced FF tops in NYC. Many escorts include FF in their ads but looking for tops that specialize in it. As one escort once told me "anyone can be a FF TOP" NOT True! Thanks.

[Kevin Slater]

Any recommendations for experienced FF tops in NYC. Many escorts include FF in their ads but looking for tops that specialize in it. As one escort once told me "anyone can be a FF TOP" NOT True! Thanks.

 

Tony Bishop (or I guess when he's fisting, it's SIR Tony) or I could definitely help you out here.

 

This fellow also visits NYC often and has the tiniest hands you've ever seen on a grown man. Nice guy to boot. http://www23.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=387244&scid=111319973&sp=1&pos=1&locid=1650&iid=470713

 

Kevin Slater

[Guest ChrisW]

Thanks for the plug Kevin!

 

Anyone can fist miscott but few do it well. There is a level of technical skill involved but the key ingredient is empathy, you need to be able to tell where there bottom is while processing the scene as well read there muscles to tell where their limits are. If your going to hire an escort to fist contact them and feel them out, you should be able to tell within a minute or 2 how knowledgeable they are. They should be able to tell about safety (both emotional and physical), cleaning out, the proper lube and most importantly they should put you at ease. Exploring any part of your sexuality can be nerve wracking, I know I still get a little anxious when I try something new.

 

What kind of a fisting scene are you looking for? There seem to be 2 schools that I have observed, one that is purely about physical pleasure and is the type that can be used in a BDSM scene or the other which is my preference that is about intimacy and connection. When talking to your escort ask them what kind of scene they prefer so you can get a good match. Fisting is many things for different people and everyone processes it a little differently, some laugh, some cry (tears of joy) and some make farm animal noises. For most people that aren't looking to incorporate bdsm into their scene I recommend tantric fisting which is what I do.

 

There are very few escorts I would let fist me, Tony Bishop is one of them but most are on the west coast. Make sure to find someone that resonates with you. I will actually be in new york in a few weeks if you would like to meet and I think tony is out of town for a while traveling. I would be happy to recommend some people on the east coast but I don't have any experience with them and can't vouch for them.

 

Best of luck in your search!

[mlscott]

Thanks Kevin for the referral and thanks Chris for the follow up.