Strange escort behavior I keep experiencing

[Guest]

Just a little update. I wanted to write the last escort I wrote about in my OP a rave review, but I noticed he did not have an ad on Rentboy for his home city, where he said he lived. I wrote him a text advising him of my wish to write a great review for him on Daddy's Reviews, and asking him if he was still escorting. I never got a text back. I'm guessing that maybe he never really wanted to do the escort thing at all, but while he was here filming some porn, one of the other porn actors put him up to it. Well, if so, I'm glad I'm one of the few of the few who got to hire him, because he was totally hot, and sweet to boot. I may never get to do it again, but I'm glad I at least have the memory. As for the second to last escort who declined to notify me of upcoming travel plans, he's a very prolific and long-standing escort, well into his 30s. I do find myself checking his website every once in a while, but wish I didn't have to.

It just goes to show you, if you see a guy you want to hire who advertises, hire him while you can. I've kicked myself many times over guys I didn't hire while I had a chance, then became no longer available. Unlike Disneyland or the Grand Canyon, some memorable experiences are only available for a limited time...

[rguer]

I wouldn't want an escort to store my name and phone number where law enforcement could see it. The NSA knows who I call and text and email, of course.

 

This seems like a business opportunity for escort sites. They know who the escorts are and when they're traveling, and they know who you are if you create an account. For a small fee they could keep lists and send email. I'd have more confidence in professional web sites keeping things hidden than I would in an escort not leaving his contact list on the bus.

[+ FreshFluff]

My interest in being with an "airhead" probably expired when I was 9 years old.

 

I don't know about you, MrMiniver and Gman, but while many men CLAIM to dislike airheads, their actions tell a different tale.

 

A guy I dated briefly encouraged me to keep wearing feminine dresses to compensate for my "intimidating" profession and education. Keep in mind that (1) I'm feminine in appearance, a tiny thing with very long hair and big blue eyes. and (2) This guy is highly educated and is incredibly successful, so one can't call him dumb.

 

After that, I learned. On the way to meet guys at destinations in the city, I started texting things like "Uh oh i am so lost " My current guy teases me about it, but I can tell he likes it.

[Str8boyluvr]

Would be cool if Rentboy had a feature where you could flag favorite escorts and be notified when they post for your city.

[Dave]

oh my gosh, I am exhausted just reading this thread. since I regularly deal with the struggles of letting people know where I am (that is, after all, part of my business) it just sounds like the "work" part of my work.

on the other hand, so much of what you all wrote is spot on. and the funny thing is, there are so many dissenting opinions in this thread - perhaps that gives you some insight with our challenges as escorts?

 

...if you see a guy you want to hire who advertises, hire him while you can. I've kicked myself many times over guys I didn't hire while I had a chance, then became no longer available. Unlike Disneyland or the Grand Canyon, some memorable experiences are only available for a limited time...

 

couldnt agree more.

[JoeyBryant]

Many excellent responses--let me add this: there is something to be sad about "being too available." If the escorts send you an e-mail they may believe they are lowering that "hard to get" factor that makes them alluring. After all, we tend to want that which is more difficult to get.

If you really want to hook up with these guys again, follow their suggestions and have a good time.

 

LOL, I've been heavily counseling my new roommate about this very topic, except he meets guys the 'universal' way. But, it's been more of a lesson of trying to get him to not keep texting a guy he's hooked up with in the past, who continually ignores him and turns down his advances to meet again. But there's a thin line between playing hard to get, and playing mind games.

 

As for the topic, if a guy tells me to contact him next time I'm in town, I'll do it. And the OP made a great point: clients don't always check websites (especially in small markets with few selection, but same applies elsewhere). If I'm in town for only a day or 2, I make it a point to get in touch with a client about a week in advance or further. Usually through text or email, but I always prefer to do it by email. I'd say majority of the time, the client is happy to set something up again.