where to write a no-show review other than forums?

[discreet]

I have recently had some no show cases. The same pattern, all confirm the time and no show, no response. Some reputable and some newbies. It is really annoying and wastes time, kills other escorts' business. Because there is no good site that allows no show reviews, these guys can get away with it. And they do it again. Is there a site that allows no-show reviews?

[JT Brooklyn]

No Shows for different reasons have always been part of the Biz! For as many No Shows as some Working Guys have done they also have Showed! Don't take it Personally just Move On!

[discreet]

No Shows for different reasons have always been part of the Biz! For as many No Shows as some Working Guys have done they also have Showed! Don't take it Personally just Move On!

 

it's not about moving on, it's wasting my time and because of that I couldn't hire others. There are times that you wanna have fun but these no-shows are really destroying everything...

[+ azdr0710]

these no-shows are really destroying everything...

 

 

"destroying everything"??....I know the frustration, but it's part of the game....can't worry too much about it.....there are plenty of good guys out there.....

[Steven_Draker]

If you've had many no-shows, probably you could review the way you present yourself as well your modus operandi while setting the meeting.

And I'm saying that in the most friendly way, not to upset you. I hope you have better luck next time.

[discreet]

If you've had many no-shows, probably you could review the way you present yourself as well your modus operandi while setting the meeting.

And I'm saying that in the most friendly way, not to upset you. I hope you have better luck next time.[/color]

 

the only way we can tell who's doing wrong is having both sides' argument. That is where we need a review and the escort responds. I don't think escort who oversleeps an appointment or the one just doesn't show up without answering call even though the meeting was confirmed over the phone 30 min ahead has anything to do with how I present myself. It was frustrating because two guys in a row blew me off and wasted a lot of my time. I value my time as escorts do, so they should pay the price, as we do when you hire them.

[daviddd49]

No-shows and last-minute cancellations can be very expensive in terms of both time AND money ... and especially so if one has flown to another city and made hotel reservations in order to see them, only to have them cancel on you after you've landed and are checking into the hotel. I have had this happen, on occasion, over the past 8 years and I have accepted it as part of the "game" when seeing Escorts that are "new to me." In general, when they no-show or cancel, I strike them off my list and "move on."

 

That's not so easy to do, however, when it's someone with whom you've built a meaningful relationship as a dependable "regular" over the course of a couple of years. It's difficult to just "move on" when you've got an emotional investment in someone; I can't have sex with a guy 10 times over 2 years and not have at least some degree of fondness for him.

[JoeyBryant]

the only way we can tell who's doing wrong is having both sides' argument. That is where we need a review and the escort responds. I don't think escort who oversleeps an appointment or the one just doesn't show up without answering call even though the meeting was confirmed over the phone 30 min ahead has anything to do with how I present myself. It was frustrating because two guys in a row blew me off and wasted a lot of my time. I value my time as escorts do, so they should pay the price, as we do when you hire them.

 

 

How do you set up the appointments? Over phone, email or text? Are they asking you questions about the appointment, and are they presenting what their rates are? Because I find if the conversation isn't about business, then they aren't about business. If you find yourself doing all the asking, and they are just responding with yes, yes, yes...move on. Not that they should say no either, but they should also be invested in finding out certain things and offering certain things about themselves as well.

 

Also, are you having them come to you, or you going to them? It sounds like they may be coming to you, and then not showing up. Which leaves them with more room to flake, because they can afford to not show up. It's easier to not show up, than to show up. Whereas, if you have their address with specifics...it'd be less likely to happen. It just all boils down to how much information the other party is willing to give out.

 

If you want to cut down on it happening, try planning to go to their place and have an address on hand. I know that sounds like you'd be setting yourself up for even more frustration, but it's not the case. You'll know if they're serious if they are willing to give one out.

[bigvalboy]

"destroying everything"??....I know the frustration, but it's part of the game....can't worry too much about it.....there are plenty of good guys out there.....

 

I know it is frustrating to hear, but I'm with azdr on this one. I understand that no-shows are a time and money waster, and damn irritating, but it is unfortunately one of the downsides to hiring, and while you can do a few things to protect yourself, there are no guarantees, no matter how well reviewed he is or how many times you have seen him. It is what it is. I have said this before, but I always have a plan B. Make sure that if for some reason the escort does not show up, have a plan on the back burner to occupy your evening. Get up, get out of the house, and treat yourself to something special. I never stay home after a no-show. Sitting alone in the house would only frustrate me more.