Contemplation

[Guest Starbuck]

I am seeing a guy for the first time next week and, in these days before, I am savoring the anticipation. (And, apparently, needing to say so to guys who might have experienced the same sensation.) It's like planning for a vacation; the planning begins to immerse you in it and becomes part of the treat. Maybe it's a newbie feeling but I'm hoping I never lose it.

[tsgarp]

Enjoy this feeling. BUT also don't create unrealistic expectations of the experience to come. If you keep your expectations modest, there's a really decent chance they'll be exceeded and THAT is a great feeling.

[Guest boiworship08]

I know the feeling, especially with regulars with whom you've developed chemistry. Unfortunately, new boys are often dicey. I tried out two recently who, while looking exactly as their pictures and pretty willing, just didn't do it for me. I even had a hard time staying hard.

[+ azdr0710]

just take it easy, don't rush, smile, chat, kick back....and bring some beer!

[Becket]

I always treat the appointment like a date. It's all fantasy anyway, so might as well treat one another as kindly as possible. Pretend like you actually consider how your "partner" feels and he will usually make a better effort. It does almost always depend on chemistry though. If you don't fit together in some way, it probably won't be what you are hoping for. If you do connect somehow, it can be amazing. Good luck.