21 yo Blake from Australia

[jj69action]

Just a quick question....is it ok to ask a potential escort to meet for a drink to see if we click? I had no point of reference to this young man other than his profile on RentMen. The age of 21 and the PnP reference caused me to ponder if I was getting into something I wouldn't like.

[bigvalboy]

I certainly think that it is OK to ask for a meet-and-greet prior to the hire, especially if you have concerns, however I would think that the escort deserves compensation for his time. You should specifically inquire whether or not he intends to charge for his time in that regard.

 

I personally have never asked for a meeting prior to a hire, unless the hire involved a multi-day situation. I think you can imagine how time consuming it would be for the escort, if every client wanted to meet for coffee prior to a one hour hire.

 

When this has been discussed in the past on the forum, a couple of escorts responded with the comment that in their professional capacity as an escort, that they charged for all time spent with the client, regardless of the reason. If in fact that is the case, then I would think that paying for an escorts time just to interview him, on a hire that only involved an hour or so, could get a little pricey.

 

In only one instance that I can think of did I meet with an escort prior to what would have been a one or two hour hire. It was not an interview so much as I just wanted to meet him, so I took him to lunch, and then followed up by dinner. He did not charge for his time, and in the end I think that he had a loss of interest and nothing ever happened going forward.

[jj69action]

Thank you! That was exactly the response I was looking for, and yes I did offer to pay him for his time. My concern was the PNP and of course his age of 21, I usually like escorts and men who are older with more experience. I have been burned by the young ones once or twice. Anyway as you say it is a moot point as he lost interest and hasn't contacted me again.

I certainly think that it is OK to ask for a meet-and-greet prior to the hire, especially if you have concerns, however I would think that the escort deserves compensation for his time. You should specifically inquire whether or not he intends to charge for his time in that regard.

 

I personally have never asked for a meeting prior to a hire, unless the hire involved a multi-day situation. I think you can imagine how time consuming it would be for the escort, if every client wanted to meet for coffee prior to a one hour hire.

 

When this has been discussed in the past on the forum, a couple of escorts responded with the comment that in their professional capacity as an escort, that they charged for all time spent with the client, regardless of the reason. If in fact that is the case, then I would think that paying for an escorts time just to interview him, on a hire that only involved an hour or so, could get a little pricey.

 

In only one instance that I can think of did I meet with an escort prior to what would have been a one or two hour hire. It was not an interview so much as I just wanted to meet him, so I took him to lunch, and then followed up by dinner. He did not charge for his time, and in the end I think that he had a loss of interest and nothing ever happened going forward.