Any Escorts Into Ballbusting?

[MikeBauer]

Ballbusting is an area I have always had an urge to explore, but I have never come across anyone interested in this particular fetish.

 

Hourboy lists it among escort preferences, but when I contacted two escorts to ask about it, neither one of them knew what ballbusting actually was, even though they had it listed among the activities they would get into.

 

I'd prefer to be the buster rather than the bustee, but with the right guy, who knows? I'd also be willing to fly an escort in to see me, or travel to his city, to explore this type of play.

 

If anyone knows any escorts who are open to this, please let me know.

 

Thanks.

[whipped guy]

Mike... first welcome!

 

As for finding an escort that might be willing to be on the receiving end by being the bustee, I would imagine that might be a challenge. As a case in point, a few years ago I asked an escort who was both a dom and sub in the realm of S&M if he would agree to having his cock flogged. I did so kind of in jest, as we had already gotten into a number of other mutual S&M activities. Still, I was interested in his response which was not surprisingly, "Hey! That's my bread and butter!"

 

In any event, I guess it would not 'hurt' to simply ask... Still, while many guys might get into such activities with trusted partners in their private sex lives it would probably require an established relationship for an escort to chance such activities with a client.

 

While I really don't know of any escorts who are into mutual ball busting, I do know of a guy based in Houston by the name of Devon who is into mutual gut punching... and that is a somewhat related type of activity. So that might be a place to start your quest.

 

At any rate, one again welcome... here's wishing you luck... and do keep us posted!!

[MikeBauer]

Hi, WG!

 

Thank you for the reply.

 

It's curious. On hourboy, I've come across a few sexy escorts who list both ballbusting and CBT among their specialties, but when I wrote to them for specifics, they didn't understand what the fetish actually was. They thought it meant to "bust a nut", i.e., ejaculate, with your partner.

 

I have also asked a few other escorts, who list S&M in their profiles, but so far, the answer has been an emphatic no, LOL. I was hoping that someone here might have already done all the searching, and found someone who was willing to give this specific activity a go.

 

Thanks for the advice about Devon in Houston. I'll check out his profile ASAP.

 

If I never find anyone to ballbust with, I'll live, I suppose.

 

I hope my other driving fetish, a guy wearing super-tight, foreskin-molding pants like in Tom of Finland art, might be easier to find!

[bigvalboy]

I don't know of anyone who specifically is into that, but not long ago someone posted a video of three guys engaged in 'ball busting'...I think it was one of the most erotic things I have ever seen. Just to see the look on the guys face who was having it done to him was incredible. I was so hard, he was ready to explode the whole time. Anyone out there that remembers that, PLEASE post that again for all to enjoy!! WG might remember....

[whipped guy]

I wish I had a penny for all the escorts who check the "all of the above" box on their profiles and don't have a clue about half of what they claim to be knowledgable about or proficient in...

 

I found the video link... Thanks for reminding me about it BVB... I think Mike will enjoy it! (I know BVB will! )

 

http://m.extremetube.com/video/show/title/four-hot-muscle-studs-in-a-daisy-chain-cbt-session-where-one-good-142327/id/142327

[bigvalboy]

I wish I had a penny for all the escorts who check the "all of the above" box on their profiles and don't have a clue about half of what they claim to be knowledgable about or proficient in...

 

I found the video link... Thanks for reminding me about it BVB... I think Mike will enjoy it! (I know BVB will! )

 

http://m.extremetube.com/video/show/title/four-hot-muscle-studs-in-a-daisy-chain-cbt-session-where-one-good-142327/id/142327

Thanks WG....I don't think I can thank you enough. I know Mike will enjoy it. I'm gonna get all settled in for bed, watch the video and then it will be sweet dreams till the am...

[whipped guy]

Thanks WG....I don't think I can thank you enough. I know Mike will enjoy it. I'm gonna get all settled in for bed, watch the video and then it will be sweet dreams till the am...

I guess my work is done for the night... Hopefully both you guys will enjoy to the max... and hopefully a few others will get a bit of pleasure as well... "Pleasant" dreams to all!

[Businessguy]

Check out The Legendary Dave

 

Mike - Welcome to the board. I can recommend that you contact Dave from Washington DC. Better known as Legendary Dave, he is well known to members of the board and comments here often. Dave is generally known for his BDSM topping skills but he is equally an eager and highly skilled sub.

Check out his reviews and particularly read review #24. In that review he is a CBT sub with a client and another escort named Mick. In that review, you should get a feel for what he enjoys and I think it is right up your alley. The rest of his reviews are great reading but I would doubt you would find this one without specific direction. He has so many.

What you are seeking requires a high level of trust from the escort. You may need to meet with a potential Ball Busting partner for more mild activities before he would feel comfortable embarking on your particular fetish. Another alternative would be to set up a 3-way with another escort who your Ball Busting sub already knows and trusts. That way he won't worry that you will go past his limits with no safety valve.

Dave is a great teacher as well. Visit his web site which you can access from his reviews. You will get a great overview of the man. I have personally played with Dave as both a top and sub. He is fantastic. My review is either #26 or 27 authored as Businessguy! Good Luck!

[MikeBauer]

Whoa, great link. Thanks, WG!

[MikeBauer]

Thank you for the suggestion, BusinessGuy! That ballbusting session, described in the review, sounds hot!

[MikeBauer]

Ballbusting Bear

 

http://www.tube8.com/gay/fetish/ball-self-punishment-session-with-a-beefy-muscular-bear-and-my-se/2943871/

[+ honcho]

As I've mentioned on other threads, the top in this video is "Roger" of shotgun video. And what's happening to the bear is having his nuts

*crushed* instead of struck. "Roger" likes having his nuts squeezed, and will 'scort if you ask.

 

I had the impression that Ballbusting really is more about impact play, and although there might be 'scorts who enjoy being on the

receiving end of that too in their personal lives, it's a matter of trusting and knowing the top has enough skill and experience to deliver

a blast of pain sufficient to roll you into a fetal ball *without doing damage*.

 

I think any escort would be rightfully wary and cautious about the kind of surrender until he had plenty of experience with you.

 

We might want to move this to WG's BDSM techniques thread.

[MikeBauer]

As far as I know, ballbusting entails a variety of different activities, from vicing to striking to pumping to stretching. Certainly Roger from Shotgun features alll of these activities in his videos, under the general terms of ballbusting or CBT.

 

I wouldn't expect anyone, escort or not, to completely surrender to anything which made him uncomfortable, until the trust factor was there, but it would be nice to find someone who enjoyed the fetish and would consider partaking in it whenever he was ready. Anticipation is half the fun!

[whipped guy]

Mike... I guess I had a brain-freeze yesterday... So I am glad that Businessguy mentioned the Legendary Dave. I thought of him after I had posted... but that oversight has been rectified. In any event, while I have not had any personal experience with the Legendary One... I do know those who have had experiences with him... Plus, on a video that he recently posted he was wearing his leather armband as a sub... so that might tell you something right then and there.

 

Also, as you mention above... most escorts are not going to let you have at them the first time around... Actually that happened only once in my experience... but that was after we had exchanged numerous lengthy emails and had long telephone conversations prior to our first meeting. Plus, other than in its most mildest forms, no real hard-core ballbusting was involved... but rather more flogging, paddling, TT, electriacal, etc.

 

So the moral of the story... get that trust factor established as soon as possible... and then who knows... while anticipation is indeed part of the fun... the sky could be the limit!!!

 

Also, trading CBT tips would be a good subject to cover in the BDSM techniques thread... and especially tips regarding safety.

[MikeBauer]

Whipped Guy, it wouldn't even occur to me that anyone would let me put him in restraints and start working on his balls. *I* would never agree to be the sub in a situation like that, so I fully understand an escort's need to wait and judge the client's character and behavior before trusting him to such an extent.

 

I'd be happy just curling up beside the bustee and licking his nipples or kissing him as he cranked his own nuts down in a vice, put weights on them, hit them with a paddle, etc. Particularly at first, just being there observing would be a turn on. Of course later, as the trust factor grew, I'd hope he would let me participate in the fun.

[whipped guy]

Mike that sounds so freaking hot!!! Kissing and getting lost in a guy's nipples as well!!! Damn! I would be kissing, licking, sucking, and biting those nips... and with any luck he would be doing the same to mine. Plus, knowing that he would be also pleasuring himself in a manner that would be turning him on would only add to the excitement. Oh yeah!!! And if he were using a paddle as you mention... he would hopefully "share" the pleasures!

[MikeBauer]

Mike that sounds so freaking hot!!! Kissing and getting lost in a guy's nipples as well!!! Damn! I would be kissing, licking, sucking, and biting those nips... and with any luck he would be doing the same to mine. Plus, knowing that he would be also pleasuring himself in a manner that would be turning him on would only add to the excitement. Oh yeah!!! And if he were using a paddle as you mention... he would hopefully "share" the pleasures!

 

Hopefully, yes!