Oddiest thing happened dont know how to respond...

[zach_wilson]

So last night I was going through album request, And this local colleague and requested to view my private pics on men4rent. I obliged, However when I messaged him about meeting up for a drink he said he would love to that his in call rate was"_". I was kind of thrown off by this... I simply responded with who I was and he said that if I wasn't looking for service it was fine.. so confused here help?

[instudiocity]

Zach, I'd say you're handling the entire situation correctly. Meeting for a drink isn't hiring - he's just being bone-headed.

 

Let's hope he's never the second escort when a client hires you.

[zach_wilson]

Thanks, I was like your the one who wanted to see my private pictures.. he said well "I will consider getting together with ya for free"

[Juan Vancouver]

Zach, I'd say you're handling the entire situation correctly. Meeting for a drink isn't hiring.

 

Well, as it has been discussed to exhaustion here, some men hire -just- to go for a drink while some others only consider sex as hiring. The issue here is not whether the other escort is right or wrong about what constitutes a session as opposed to a social occasion.

 

Zach, all I can say is that you will find many escorts who will be agreeable to meet you, and many who will not. That is just the nature of the beast. If he came back with such a harsh response he just saved you some time showing you that he is a dick. There is nothing left to do but move on.

 

While many intelligent men will be able to understand the lives we lead without having to escort themselves, nobody understands this life better than an escort. Good escorts have so much in common that sometimes the connection is immediate and fun, even just socially. Sadly many escorts still believe that we are competition for one another, which I think is stupid. We are so unique, so different and we offer such a different set of talents that we can only benefit from getting to know one another.

 

If you continue trying to meet the good ones and skip the insecure ones, soon enough you will be able to make a few good friends.

 

Take good care of yourself and keep them smiling!

[+ Chris Eisenhower]

...Good escorts have so much in common that sometimes the connection is immediate and fun, even just socially.

 

As I discovered in Vancouver.

[Juan Vancouver]

As I discovered in Vancouver.

 

I was thinking the same thing. =)