Asking about repeat business?

[Daverwr]

Hi,

As a client, I will say I love it when an escort follows a session with an email to me. Lets look at it as a business--> I go to a store and they ask for my email. I give it to them. They will follow up with either a "thank-you," a request for feedback, or just a "Hi, can we help you with anything else?," etc.--No matter what, I have initiated the initial meeting with you, the escort. You should follow up with an email/call to me. This makes me feel as though my time/money meant something to you and you would be "open" to another encounter. Of course, if you don't want to see me again, don't follow-up. LOL. Seriously, though: if I see two different escorts in one month's time, I'm more inclined to be a repeat client with the one that followed-up with an email or call after our encounter. I would not be offended, nor would I feel "harassed," if an escort contacted me after a "meet-up."

 

Well put. I agree whole-heartedly!

[UconnFlyer]

Hi,

As a client, I will say I love it when an escort follows a session with an email to me. Lets look at it as a business--> I go to a store and they ask for my email. I give it to them. They will follow up with either a "thank-you," a request for feedback, or just a "Hi, can we help you with anything else?," etc.--No matter what, I have initiated the initial meeting with you, the escort. You should follow up with an email/call to me. This makes me feel as though my time/money meant something to you and you would be "open" to another encounter. Of course, if you don't want to see me again, don't follow-up. LOL. Seriously, though: if I see two different escorts in one month's time, I'm more inclined to be a repeat client with the one that followed-up with an email or call after our encounter. I would not be offended, nor would I feel "harassed," if an escort contacted me after a "meet-up."

 

I totally agree with you, but I can also understand why others might not see it this way. Generally, I think there are two levels of discretion when it comes to escorts. Almost everyone wants a basic level of discretion, but then some people need even more discretion. The latter group are often those with sensitive personal situations (e.g. married with two kids) or professional situations (e.g. works in law enforcement, Congress, etc). For this group, I can see why they might be particularly sensitive to receiving additional communication that was unexpected/unwanted.

 

Personally, I have no problem with an escort sending me a thank you....as long as they contact me the way I contacted them. If we only communicated via email or text, don't start calling me. For me, if I had a good time, I almost always try and follow up the meeting with a thank you email or text anyway.

[rvwnsd]

An escort that I hired semi-regularly, but have not hired recently, wished me a happy Thanksgiving via e-mail. I appreciated his note and told him so and mentioned that I was getting my Christmas cold early this year. He has checked in on me twice since then to see how I am feeling and to ask if he could stop at the store or pick up some soup for me. He has made no mention of me hiring him. I plan to hire him when I am feeling better, not only because I have fun with him but because his thoughtfulness makes him a standout.

[Lohengrin1979]

An escort that I hired semi-regularly, but have not hired recently, wished me a happy Thanksgiving via e-mail. I appreciated his note and told him so and mentioned that I was getting my Christmas cold early this year. He has checked in on me twice since then to see how I am feeling and to ask if he could stop at the store or pick up some soup for me. He has made no mention of me hiring him. I plan to hire him when I am feeling better, not only because I have fun with him but because his thoughtfulness makes him a standout.

 

Wow that's really sweet. I must be hiring the wrong guys.

 

 

Lohengrin

[rvwnsd]

Wow that's really sweet. I must be hiring the wrong guys.

 

 

Lohengrin

 

Yes, it really is! He isn't the only escort who has done that.

[JoeyBryant]

wished me a happy Thanksgiving via e-mail. He has checked in on me twice since then to see how I am feeling and to ask if he could stop at the store or pick up some soup for me. He has made no mention of me hiring him.

 

Wow that's really sweet. I must be hiring the wrong guys.

Lohengrin

 

I'm sorry but, if I had a client wish me Happy Thanksgiving and then offered to bring me soup after I said I had a cold...and then NOT mention anything about hiring, I'd probably be a bit bewildered.

 

I don't think there's anything wrong with the guys you're hiring.

[Guest Starbuck]

If you need to be discreet about hiring guys, isn't setting up an email account separate from your regular one the first thing you ought to do? Seems logical to me, and I'm OK with getting emails sent to my "private" account whenever. I wouldn't want to be hounded about making another appointment, but wouldn't mind an occasional inquiry.

 

Phones, on the other hand, can be dangerous. Last weekend I got a text from an escort I saw a month ago letting me know he'd be back in my area this week. Whether he remembers my personal situation or not, he was aware of it last month. He sees both men or women and is the only guy who's suggested that I might want to bring my wife along next time. Who knows; maybe he would have invited her himself if my phone had been out of my pocket and she'd picked it up (as has been known to happen). Just my personal insight into why CALLS or TEXTS to solicit more business are NOT COOL.

[leigh.bess.toad]

If you need to be discreet about hiring guys, isn't setting up an email account separate from your regular one the first thing you ought to do? Seems logical to me, and I'm OK with getting emails sent to my "private" account whenever. I wouldn't want to be hounded about making another appointment, but wouldn't mind an occasional inquiry.

 

Phones, on the other hand, can be dangerous. Last weekend I got a text from an escort I saw a month ago letting me know he'd be back in my area this week. Whether he remembers my personal situation or not, he was aware of it last month. He sees both men or women and is the only guy who's suggested that I might want to bring my wife along next time. Who knows; maybe he would have invited her himself if my phone had been out of my pocket and she'd picked it up (as has been known to happen). Just my personal insight into why CALLS or TEXTS to solicit more business are NOT COOL.

 

Starbuck -- I think it calls and texts are fine IF, and only IF, the escort is certain that it is fine with the client. In the event of ANY doubt, no. But for me, I hear from a lot of my guys frequently. And it is no problem at all for me. But maybe I'm the odd duck. But great caution needs to be exercised and unless they are certain, a call or text may be unwise.

[leigh.bess.toad]

An escort that I hired semi-regularly, but have not hired recently, wished me a happy Thanksgiving via e-mail. I appreciated his note and told him so and mentioned that I was getting my Christmas cold early this year. He has checked in on me twice since then to see how I am feeling and to ask if he could stop at the store or pick up some soup for me. He has made no mention of me hiring him. I plan to hire him when I am feeling better, not only because I have fun with him but because his thoughtfulness makes him a standout.

 

After my surgery last week, I think most of my guys have checked in once or twice to see how I'm doing.

[Bargara Leatherboy]

In my history of hiring, only had one make contact after the appointment. A very high class gent who provided a specific and expensive service.

From memory I booked a 2 hr for $1200 , in a town where $300 an hour is top end.

He stayed for about 4.5 hours, some of that time was showering mid session, some in conversation but the bulk of the time he spanked and flogged me.

he followed up the next day with a text asking how I was and if I had any bruising.

Total professional.

I have and do send a text or email to escorts if I have had a good time, and say Thankyou, I enjoyed.

Courtesy goes a long way in business.

[JoeyBryant]

But maybe I'm the odd duck.

 

Maybe? Come on. I'd say probably half of half of 1% of clients have a partner that knows, is okay with it, AND is okay with attending related events. Maybe 'Platypus' would be more like it.

 

lol...I'm just teasing. But I'd probably say a large portion of clients don't necessarily welcome lots of contact. Not saying they never do, but usually it's the communication leading up to it, and then maybe checking in once in a blue. But that's just my experience. I can see someone and then go 6 months without speaking with them, and they'd be up to see me again.

 

Myself, I've been stepping out to do the check-ins more so than I did some time ago. Especially if I get the thankyou afterwards. But, I find it doesn't always work though if I've only met the person once. Like dating, sometimes a 1 night stand is a 1 night stand.

[Guest Starbuck]

...Calls and texts are fine IF, and only IF, the escort is certain that it is fine with the client. In the event of ANY doubt, no. But for me, I hear from a lot of my guys frequently. And it is no problem at all for me.

 

Lee, no disagreement here. I was responding to the question about solicitations for repeat business. I believe you are alluding to ongoing communications with men who have become personal friends and know for a fact that it's okay to call/text you whenever they'd like.