A sexy young massage client

[banawe]

Well, my first impression here is that it was "unprofessional" of you to assume he wanted a Happy ending and proceed to suck him off, unless he gave you some communication to the fact... Perhaps if that is nOT what he is seeking, he was turned off to your services ? Secondly if you are so anxious to have him "repeat" because he turned YOU on, maybe offer him FREE services ?? Freebies are always a huge incentive.... I really believe that you need to separate your profession from your sex drive as it does not bode well for your reputation if you are indeed trying to be a "professional" masseur... Its really about how YOU want to be perceived.

 

Thanks jjkrkwood. I always carry out my tasks professionally but when a client flirts I show him that I am only human that flirts as well.

[banawe]

... be still my heart![/color]

 

I always drape my clients (something I learned from school). When he rolled over he told me to take the towel off as he's not feeling cold. His member is in flaccid state until I worked on his thighs. It got up so I kinda helped myself.

 

It is a bit unprofessional but I am only human.

[banawe]

Well, my first impression here is that it was "unprofessional" of you to assume he wanted a Happy ending and proceed to suck him off, unless he gave you some communication to the fact... Perhaps if that is nOT what he is seeking, he was turned off to your services ? Secondly if you are so anxious to have him "repeat" because he turned YOU on, maybe offer him FREE services ?? Freebies are always a huge incentive.... I really believe that you need to separate your profession from your sex drive as it does not bode well for your reputation if you are indeed trying to be a "professional" masseur... Its really about how YOU want to be perceived.

 

Thank you jjkrkwood -- I've been massaging for some years now and I think I'm pretty good in reading body language. Honestly, I prefer that I don't give a happy finish because I find it tedious. After working on tight knotty muscles for at least an hour, I am so tired to do anything else. Im not the rub and tug kind of masseur. But I am happy to go the extra mile when someone adorable graces my table.

[banawe]

My guess is he was on a test drive. It is possible he thinks he is straight but has these "feelings". I agree with those that say leave him alone and let him make the next move. I am not Aussie, but if you're ever in L.A............[/color][/size][/font]

 

He said he has no girlfriend.

 

I was in LA for a month last April. Love LA. Love WEHO!

[jjkrkwood]

Thank you jjkrkwood -- I've been massaging for some years now and I think I'm pretty good in reading body language. Honestly, I prefer that I don't give a happy finish because I find it tedious. After working on tight knotty muscles for at least an hour, I am so tired to do anything else. Im not the rub and tug kind of masseur. But I am happy to go the extra mile when someone adorable graces my table.

 

The details of the encounter werent really clear, but I always believed if you want to be perceived as a "professional", you should act accordingly. Now if you were exclusively an "escort", there would be absolutely no issue with how you actted. I also believe if you wanted to pursue a different level of relationship with THIS client, you should just be upfront and discuss it with him and get your answer, one way or another.

[+ WilliamM]

I work with a lot of 20-year-olds. Trying to second guess why they do the things they do is futile.

 

 

I work with a lot of twenty-year-olds as well. I felt the same way the first few years, but not anymore. No idea why you have not tried a little more...

[fedssocr1]

I always drape my clients (something I learned from school). When he rolled over he told me to take the towel off as he's not feeling cold. His member is in flaccid state until I worked on his thighs. It got up so I kinda helped myself.

 

It is a bit unprofessional but I am only human.

 

Not a bit unprofessional, completely unprofessional unless you advertise yourself as an escort or in places where it's clear that some form of sexual gratification is going to happen. I used to see a professional/licensed masseur who was a totally adorable little Brazilian guy with big strong hands. It was always clear what the boundaries were. There would be no sexual touching on his part (or mine) during our sessions. Despite the fact that I always had a big ol' erection by the time I flipped over. We always used to laugh about it. I am sure he had seen that sort of thing a million times. And it's a pretty automatic body response right?

 

I also used to visit a young guy who was getting his massage certification. He was always happy to provide some extra services after the proper massage part. But the boundaries were known to us both before we started.

 

I'll agree with everyone else that you made your intentions clear to him. Now it's his turn to decide if he wants round 2.