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I am thankful to so many of you for your thoughtful responses to my inquiry from last month about falling in love with escorts. It seems that some of you see falling in love as a choice (in this case, a foolish one) and some of you see it as involuntary("falling"). It appears to be a consensus that this experience is common and that heartbreak is unavoidable. Perhaps having more than one escort to love is the answer. So, i am looking for recommendations...a mature top, NJ/NYC area, romantic, passionate, handsome, kind, masculine, and planning to be in the business for a while. I have hired many great guys of late, but have not felt the same chemistry I feel with my special escort. By the way, he said I am his favorite client. I am sure many of you will doubt his sincerity. I am trying to make this work for the rest of my life. I am in a long term relationship that i do not want to compromise. Please help.

[Guest sebastian]

The best advise I think anyone here could possibly give you is to end contact with your "favorite" escort. It will compromise your relationship if you continue to have serious feelings for the escort. You will regret it at first, but I promise that it will be best for you in the long run.

 

I believe escorts themselves should see this type of situation comming and should curtail any "colateral damage" that may occur if they continue to see a client who is falling for them as you put it.

 

 

 

Sebastian (premier Philly)

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Dear Sebastian...Thank you for your thoughtful advice...To be fair, the escort for whom I have such feeling has been thoroughly sensitive, compassionate, boundaried,and professional during all of our meetings. I really have no complaints about him or his conduct.He knows how I feel and has repeatedly said that he does not want to hurt me.I often think i should do what you suggest and stop seeing him. I am trying to make my relationship with him work first,as I do not think what I feel for him is easy to replace. I also wanted to say thet I've been many of the guys from Premiere over the last 18 months or so and I think Nick runs a quality shop. Tim, the "dispatcher"' has been a big help and has taught me alot about what to look for in an escort. Shake his hand for me when you see him.

[Guest sebastian]

Yeah I give Tim kudos every time I see the man! He is a great "phone guy" as we call him, and I'm sure that many of the Premier boys hope that he sticks around for a long while.

 

I'm just confused as to what type of relationship you expect from your "favorite" escort, do you believe that someday you'll both run off to a far away place and be blissful together, or do you just want to remain in contact, maybe watch a football game on the weekend type of a friend?

 

I really hope that I'm not sounding judgemental, just wanted to get a little clarification on what you wrote back to me.

 

Sebastian (Premier Philly)

 

 

P.S. -- You've seen escorts from Premier and haven't seen me?? I'm offended!! LOL ;-)

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Dear sebastian...please accept my apology, I usually see older top- type guys, but you are very kind and cute and I will ask for you next time I call Premier. I do not expect a non-professional relationship with my escort. However,I am trying to keep the feeling alive. I haven't felt this way for many years and it has been sweet. I wish I knew where this was headed emotionally. I have been warned, and I agree, that it will end in a sense of heartbreak. The current plan is to see if my heart can expand to love yet another guy so that potential losses wont be as devastating. I have been told by other escorts that clients often stop seeing escorts when they develop feelings for them. I don't want to go down that road. I would like to keep what I have going without making it negative because of the non-reciprocal nature of our relationship.

[Guest sebastian]

I see your Point, thanks for the clarification.

 

BTW, I'm not a teen anymore, but I am a top! LOL

 

 

Sebastian