Filipe's review & his response

[kjun]

After reading Felipe's response I have some understanding of how they did not jive. Felipe admits to having back-to-back appointments. This is something that can cause the escort to rush because he is more time concerned and rushed than he should be. For this reason alone, I would not hire him.

[Kevin Slater]

Fair point. I do think his reply conveyed his thoughtfulness and sincerity, especially given that English is not his native tongue. Given such a brief negative review with so little to rebut, I think he offered a fine, if mistyped, reply.

 

Kevin Slater

[MichiganMan]

Well said, I couldn't agree more. He was someone on my "to do" list, but I have changed my mind!

[adriano46]

I also had him on a possibles list but the fact that he is so popular thathe books back to back appointments was a negative for me.

 

Yes, of course I like popular guys, but I hate feeling rushed or being on a clock. Sure I respect the time I have with a guy, but when we are still 15 minutes away from the time and he is rushing me to dress and leave... well I never go back and avoid guys who set up appointments so closely together,

[seeker630]

I also had him on a possibles list but the fact that he is so popular thathe books back to back appointments was a negative for me.

 

Yes, of course I like popular guys, but I hate feeling rushed or being on a clock. Sure I respect the time I have with a guy, but when we are still 15 minutes away from the time and he is rushing me to dress and leave... well I never go back and avoid guys who set up appointments so closely together,

 

I agree - if he's booking back-to-back appointments, then he HAS to be a clock-watcher to honor his committments. And having to watch the clock really kills the mood for me!

[JT Brooklyn]

IF you have 2 Clients who you YES to everything with and do them "Back to Back" somebody is gonna get disappointed on something! Clock Watcher's rarely keep Repeats

 

There's no reason to not sked Appointments AT LEAST an Hour apart! Some "Working Guys" need an Hour to get it back up!

[+ WilliamM]

The Client Should Have Spoken Up, or Words to that Effect in Escort Responses

 

I meant to comment on Filipe's response yesterday.

 

Here are Filipe's words that bothered me: "to me every client is as important as the next and if he felt he were being rushed I wish he would've said something to me at the time and maybe all of this would've been avoided."

 

To some degree, Filipe's is shifting responsibility for the problem to the client for not speaking up.

 

More to the point, I have been in this situation twice as a client. Both time I needed some time after the appointment to think about what just happened. Once I decided the working guy had rushed through the appointment. I called him the next day. He offered another appointment at half rate, which I declined. The other time, I decided the appointment was in the very low end of being acceptable.

[+ Travis69]

I think the client should have spoken up. I have, on a few appointments, said "Let's slow it down a bit. I am in no hurry." The escort/masseur gets the message. I am very quick to point out any problems so they can be resolved. Not speaking up and complaining about it after the appointment doesn't do me any good.

[josephga]

I think the client should have spoken up. I have, on a few appointments, said "Let's slow it down a bit. I am in no hurry." The escort/masseur gets the message. I am very quick to point out any problems so they can be resolved. Not speaking up and complaining about it after the appointment doesn't do me any good.

 

I agree I think the client should have spoken up. maybe he would have discounted the session or done something to correct it. people won't speak up but they will break their neck to get home to right a negative review

[+ WilliamM]

Short Appointments

 

I agree I think the client should have spoken up. maybe he would have discounted the session or done something to correct it. people won't speak up but they will break their neck to get home to right a negative review

 

The reviewer wrote about an hour appointment. I completed agree with you about longer appointments, or when it's obvious from the beginning. His final sentence in the review is "I left feeling worse than when I walked in." If he felt that way after 20-30 minutes or so, he should have said something.

 

But, it's not always as clear cut for the client in short appointments as you suggest. He might have done what I did...call the working guy and told him directly, rather than write a review based on a one hour appointment. But, neither you nor I were actually there (true of all reviews), it was just Filipe and the reviewer.

[LouieD]

The reviewer may have felt fine after the first 20-30 minutes. It was the the escort's rushing him the last 15-20 minutes that seemed to ruin the encounter.

 

I have been in the reviewer's situation a few times and I sympathize with him. It is awkward, at least for me, to "speak up". What is the escort going to do? Maybe become huffy or turn nasty? I seriously doubt that an escort who books back-to-back appointments is going to offer any kind of a rebate.

 

And, what's the point of calling him afterwards to rehash the whole unpleasant thing?

 

And, as another observed, I don't like Filiipe turning the tables and trying to get off the hook by blaming his client

 

Escorts like Felipe are a big disappointment.

[Jaker27]

Hope he showered up good because I wouldn't want to be the client 10 minutes after he just finished up on one before and god knows how many before that. He might still smell like sex.

[GoodFella69]

I too understand the reviewers disappointment. I hate when a guy sounds eager to please in everyway when we discuss our session on the phone, and then he shows up at my hotel and then rushes through our time together. I've had several working guys come right out and say they needed to wrap things up so they could get to their next session on time! I don't think these guys care about cultivating long-term repeat business, they are just in it for the quick bucks.

[bobchitown]

I just noticed that no one posting on this thread mentions that they've been with Felipe. I'd be curious in hearing on this issue from someone who has.