Women seeking services of male escorts: does it happen more than we think?

[Guest thedolphinsofaugust]

I've heard of it a few times, like in that movie about the gigolo and yea the stereotype of the wealthy woman whose husband never has time for her anymore and she is sleeping with the pool boy (for some reason, he's usually Latino). There's movies too about older women that have younger male lovers. Tennessee Williams wrote about it once (I think it was The Roman Spring of Mrs. Stone).

 

It's not really discussed a lot. Today we have cougars but they are older, confident women that go out to bars and flirt with younger men.

 

Are there any women on here that can share their experiences? What made you start looking for male escorts? Are there separate male escorts for women than for men? If so, where do you find them?

 

The whole topic is taboo which makes this whole forum a really naughty place but it provides people with a place to go.

 

Not all of us are confident. Maybe it has nothing to do with our physical appearances. Maybe it's not so much about sex either. We might just need someone in our lives, even if he's fake, just for a few hours it might make us less lonely. Or do we become too attached?

 

I think I might want a companion one day. I don't know if there will be any men that will ever be attracted to me. Dating presents its own unique problems, especially for me. I don't like crowds, I don't like bars, and I don't have many friends, although that might change if I ever get a job. I don't want to always be alone. I shouldn't be thinking about this kind of rubbish now since its not relevant at the present time, but I'm just curious about the women - are there any on here at all, and can they kinda discuss their own issues? Thank u

[jjkrkwood]

I've heard of it a few times, like in that movie about the gigolo and yea the stereotype of the wealthy woman whose husband never has time for her anymore and she is sleeping with the pool boy (for some reason, he's usually Latino). There's movies too about older women that have younger male lovers. Tennessee Williams wrote about it once (I think it was The Roman Spring of Mrs. Stone).

 

It's not really discussed a lot. Today we have cougars but they are older, confident women that go out to bars and flirt with younger men.

 

Are there any women on here that can share their experiences? What made you start looking for male escorts? Are there separate male escorts for women than for men? If so, where do you find them?

 

The whole topic is taboo which makes this whole forum a really naughty place but it provides people with a place to go.

 

Not all of us are confident. Maybe it has nothing to do with our physical appearances. Maybe it's not so much about sex either. We might just need someone in our lives, even if he's fake, just for a few hours it might make us less lonely. Or do we become too attached?

 

I think I might want a companion one day. I don't know if there will be any men that will ever be attracted to me. Dating presents its own unique problems, especially for me. I don't like crowds, I don't like bars, and I don't have many friends, although that might change if I ever get a job. I don't want to always be alone. I shouldn't be thinking about this kind of rubbish now since its not relevant at the present time, but I'm just curious about the women - are there any on here at all, and can they kinda discuss their own issues? Thank u

 

Dolphin, keep in mind that when you are seeking the opinions and advise from women (I am assuming you mean REAL women) that while many of there responses might be relevant to you, many might not as you being Transgendered. that is a whole separate element that often comes with its own distinct package of issues.... So if you do go thru with the surgeries and transformations you have discussed in other threads, dont think that you life will be easy sailing as a woman, and that you WILL meet your Prince.... You should make your decisions after doing your research, joining some groups, and getting all the facts. As you have often heard, there are NO quick "fixes" in life....The road you are seeking to travel is a VERY complex, painful and Expensive one. Please make an enlightened AND educated decision.

[mansniffing]

Since this site is primarily for men who hire men perhaps you should be googling sites where it is more female oriented. Genuine switch-hitter male escorts do exist, as well as switch-hitter female escorts and there are sites for men who are attracted to transsexuals. As always, different strokes for different folks. Nothing really is "taboo" in this Internet world. As Judy sang in "A Star is Born": "Somewhere there's a someone . . . who's the someone for you."

[+ Gar1eth]

As Judy sang in "A Star is Born": "Somewhere there's a someone . . . who's the someone for you."

 

Unfortunately, Judy never met me, or the wording would have changed to, ' for the majority of you there's a someone who's the someone for you'

 

Gman

[jjkrkwood]

Unfortunately, Judy never met me, or the wording would have changed to, ' for the majority of you there's a someone who's the someone for you'

 

Gman

 

Gar although I dont know you personally, do you think part of your problem could be "negativity" ??? I am suspecting there is someone out there for you, but you just dont like the choices. Often we hold out, or are stand-offish because we think we can do "better" or that something "hotter" will come along. Sometimes, LESS is actually MORE, or at least its something, and often times, IF you give a guy a chance, he might end up "growing" on you like barnacles......

[leigh.bess.toad]

DOA -- I know of one escort who also has female as well as male clients. In fact, his most recent review was written by a woman. Check the most recent review of Dave Rockin (in DC) -- in fact Dave answered you on your previous thread.

[+ FreshFluff]

The whole topic is taboo

 

Sorry to disappoint you, but it's not taboo. Most women just aren't interested since they need some semblance of a relationship to enjoy sex. There are always a few "Samantha" types who think like men, but in my experience, they're rare.

 

The closest equivalent for a woman is probably a "sugar son," a guy who sticks around in exchange for gifts and maybe money. And even that's rare, since a major turn on for most women is feeling desirable, and paying takes away from that. (Men like feeling desired too, but for women, it's a central part of being turned on.)

 

Then again, as someone who's always been attracted to older, mentor types, maybe I'm the wrong person to ask. :o