Would you like to see photos of the bedroom, "play area" or massage set up.

[+ Travis69]

Assuming an escort or masseur does incalls, would you like for them to include a photo of the bedroom, "play area" or massage set up in their ads? Would this be helpful in making your decision or would you rather have the mystery and be surprised?

[bigvalboy]

I don't need a photo, but when asking questions about the massage, I am very specific as to how I like the room. I prefer a dedicated space, ie not in the bedroom or living room, but a separate massage room, and it must be very dimly lit and soft music, with candles. I don't like a lot of talking, I just want the experience to be really soothing kinda like a Burke Williams. As far as escorts are concerned, I always make sure that no one else will be there ie: the bf waiting in another bedroom, and I need to know that it is a fairly safe neighborhood as sometimes I will be leaving late at night.

 

I had a massage the other day and it was going fantastic, he came highly recommended by another member and the session had spilled over into what an escort would do. When I arrived the apartment was dark and dimly lit, it was really a great time we had. When we were finished he asked if I wanted to take a shower with him, I said of course that would be nice. When I left the bedroom his girlfriend was in the kitchen cooking dinner....She just said hello as I passed by in my birthday suit...ruined the whole freakin nite. So now I always ask if we will be alone.

[Dave]

When I left the bedroom his girlfriend was in the kitchen cooking dinner....She just said hello as I passed by in my birthday suit...ruined the whole freakin nite. So now I always ask if we will be alone.

 

wow - unbelievable.

i hope you expressed that to him at some point. he deserves to hear it, if for no other reason than to help him be better at his trade in the future. i would guess that he probably thought it was "no big deal."

[adriano46]

Bigvalboy -- LOL -- I had the same experience three years ago with what I thought was a hot massage in NYC -- arrived at masseur's apartment, but he was using a (small) bedroom with an overly large bed in it rather than a table. Then showed me the bathroom to shower first (which I requested), and it was not very clean, nor were the towels fresh...

 

As the massage progressed, he left the room 3 times -- to have a very loud and disconcerting argument with his boyfriend/apartment mate??? -- scary.

 

Now I insist in setting up an appointment that the masseur have available

1) Special space

2) a Table (no bed)

3) Shower facilities and clean towels

 

I fiond that every guy I now frequent in NYC has all 3 so it is not that hard to pick and choose.

[josephga]

I have massage room photos. mostly to show that there's a table and the majority of those seeking massage req one. IMO those without one should be avoided.

[Guest Spanky]

When I left the bedroom his girlfriend was in the kitchen cooking dinner....She just said hello as I passed by in my birthday suit...ruined the whole freakin nite. So now I always ask if we will be alone.

 

Why didn't you ask her to join in?

[Steven_Draker]

Why didn't you ask her to join in?

 

Probably to avoid the extra charge.

[bigvalboy]

wow - unbelievable.

i hope you expressed that to him at some point. he deserves to hear it, if for no other reason than to help him be better at his trade in the future. i would guess that he probably thought it was "no big deal."

 

Actually Dave that was exactly his reaction, he thought it was no big deal. He actually called the member that had recommended him and told him what a nice guy he thought I was...The whole erotic part was just completely gone. lol

[+ Axiom2001]

Assuming an escort or masseur does incalls, would you like for them to include a photo of the bedroom, "play area" or massage set up in their ads? Would this be helpful in making your decision or would you rather have the mystery and be surprised?

 

Personally, I would prefer the "mystery and the surprise!" When escorts are invited into my hotel room, they are indeed surprised because I have at least 12 large votive

candles lit and aglow; I use to have some hot music accompaniment as well, but my portable cd portion doesn't work, and I DO NOT want an ipod or iphone!!

 

No, I prefer that their "play area" not be included in their ads. My being surprised, as well as curious, is the name of the game!!!

[Lohengrin1979]

Personally, I would prefer the "mystery and the surprise!" When escorts are invited into my hotel room, they are indeed surprised because I have at least 12 large votive

candles lit and aglow; I use to have some hot music accompaniment as well, but my portable cd portion doesn't work, and I DO NOT want an ipod or iphone!!

 

No, I prefer that their "play area" not be included in their ads. My being surprised, as well as curious, is the name of the game!!!

 

This. Also, I can't tell you how many appointments I've gone to where the pictures in no way matched the space. I mean sure there are candles and a table....in a closet sized studio with really bad carpeting. I just assume that the masseurs I end up hiring will be professional and have amazing spaces to ply their trade in. Doesn't always happen and the photos were no help in that regard.

 

Lohengrin