Escorts Need Not Worry

[doitb4ugo]

As is my habit from time to time, I am keeping the forum up-to-date on my activities and explorations in the m2m world of get-off and get-it-over.

 

Yesterday, I had my first sexual experience outside of the escort world....I hooked up with a guy from Manhunt...I now understand why escorts are such an attractive means of pursuing sexual encounters....

 

I am left with some doubts and mis-givings about hooking up with strangers, especially when I am so submissive that it is hard to get what you want from someone whose goal is to get themselves off....

 

Ah, where are my favorite professionals when you need them.

[jjkrkwood]

As is my habit from time to time, I am keeping the forum up-to-date on my activities and explorations in the m2m world of get-off and get-it-over.

 

Yesterday, I had my first sexual experience outside of the escort world....I hooked up with a guy from Manhunt...I now understand why escorts are such an attractive means of pursuing sexual encounters....

 

I am left with some doubts and mis-givings about hooking up with strangers, especially when I am so submissive that it is hard to get what you want from someone whose goal is to get themselves off....

 

Ah, where are my favorite professionals when you need them.

 

I have NEVER had an online hookup, but were you perfectly CLEAR to your date about what you wanted and expected from the meeting ?

[+ Travis69]

Now don't judge all "non escort encounters" after just one. Next person you meet might be very concerned with your happiness and your needs. If after 200 non escort encounters you come to the same conclusion then you can forget about strangers and go back to the escorts. Now get out there and try, try, try..... Seriously speaking, don't judge all by one. Next one might turn out to be great.

[+ glutes]

I have NEVER had an online hookup, but...

 

 

Imagine that!

[jjkrkwood]

Imagine that!

 

Exactly, those are for Trolls like YOU Glutes..... BTW, I'm sure YOUR avatar gets lots of "hits"..?

[leigh.bess.toad]

Rich -- first, I must say I am glad that you actually were able to hookup with someone, as you and I have talked about before. I'm sorry it didn't go ideally, but then remember, your first encounter with an escort wasn't such an ideal result either. Don't be too discouraged that it wasn't all that. Sometimes they work, other times they don't. Even when the desire is plain old vanilla suck and fuck that's true. In your case, it may be a bit more difficult, but certainly not impossible. But the only way I know of is to keep in the game. You gotta play to win. Hang in there, brother.

[JackTwist]

Rich, I have to agree with you regarding casual online hook-ups--personally, I've had more mediocre experiences than great ones. While I've had a few pleasant surprises with Manhunt (and more recently Grindr and Scruff), the best sex is always with a few of my favorite "providers" who are well-reviewed on Daddys. Discretion, Safe Sex, DDF and Excellent Hygiene are all important to me and the men I hire regularly make these caveats a priority as well.

[Guest Spanky]

Doit,

 

Have you tried using Recon? It's geared towards guys interested in BDSM play and I've met a number of really good guys through there. Not just hot guys that are fun to play with, but guys that seem genuinely concerned with their partner's enjoyment. Sure there is some of the typical gay hookup site bullshit, but it's far less than what you get at Manhunt.

[Phil_musc]

Hmmm, Grindr, Recon, etc. Maybe I need to expand my horizons.

 

Good advice here, I'd say. I'm still not all that impressed with the internet as a meat-market. I'd much rather go to a bar, a bathhouse or a play room. There's just something about the spontaneity of meeting, greeting and doing - all within a few moments and what you see is what you get. Definitely something to be said for "here and now" cruising. If I have to hop in my car and drive somewhere I want something to show for my efforts. But I guess everything is actually pretty hit or miss. Better go with the well-reviewed pros.

[JT Brooklyn]

imagine that!

 

l o l !

[doitb4ugo]

Now don't judge all "non escort encounters" after just one. Next person you meet might be very concerned with your happiness and your needs. If after 200 non escort encounters you come to the same conclusion then you can forget about strangers and go back to the escorts. Now get out there and try, try, try..... Seriously speaking, don't judge all by one. Next one might turn out to be great.

 

Just a quick update for anyone that cares.....Second encounter was a success...with a married bear couple....un f*cking believable....one of the best and hotest encounters to date....all very vanilla but my first time with a three-way...and to top it off, they were great guys....took me out to dinner after so we could get to know each other.....I also learned a bit about bears. Thanks for the encouragement. For those on the forum that know a bit about me, I find it hard to believe that I am at this point and have opened up so much...in many ways thanks to you guys.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Thrilled and ecstatic aren't too strong of words to describe how excited I am over your experience. Just keep it up. Sometimes you'll hit home runs, some times you'll strike out. But you have you to play to win. Keep in the game and good things can happen.

[Diverdan]

I echo Lee's comments... thrilled that you had such a good time with the guys, as it will encourage you to continue to spread your wings, so to speak! Not every pitch will yield a home run, but the averages are good for at least a hit, and seldom a strike out. But, to stay with the analogy of baseball, sometimes we learn what to do the next time at bat when we strike out. There can be so much fun in learning and practicing.