When Your Escort Shows Up and Not What You Expected

[rocky]

Hi; I know that when you take a chance on setting up a meeting, it is always a risk so to speak.

Not so much scarey wise but what you expected your escort to look like. So, being from an area

with limited escorts I was surprised to see this young, blond haired individual within my area.

OH BOY, I thought. Through some emails and knowing that he'd be coming from the NYC

area to upstate NY our price of $250 was agreed upon. He provided some very nice pictures

and I said what the heck, spend the money. Well last night as I waited he finally appeared,

I guess he didn't tell me he had put on over 50 pounds, looked like Elton John now (love the

guy but never would pay for fun with him) and just not like his picture. What do you do.

We sat on couch, played around a bit, I said I was tired and paid and let him go. Sooo, do

you follow up and say, hey guy don't go spreading your pics around when you dont look like

that anymore?? Just wondering

[orbital sander]

I would point out that he had misrepresented himself and send him away. He is a cheat, and he needs to be called on it (IMHO).

[+ Travis69]

You state on the phone that what they look like is crucial to the appointment and them getting paid. Tell them that if they aren't as their pictures represent they will receive no money and be wasting their time. At that point you have warned them and it is up to them to be honest.

[JT Brooklyn]

Rocky..Sorry for your disappointment! BUT the bottom line is the guy didn't even look close to the pix's you saw. Chalk this up to a Bad Experience and tell yourself Never Again!

 

I'm pretty sure you will be making sure the guy "Agrees"..IF he doesn't look like his Pix's he doesn't stay for Play...

 

This happened 1 Time to me a long time ago and I said "Never Again to Myself" Good Luck next time around...

[bigvalboy]

This has of course happened to me several times when hiring escorts and masseurs. If there is ANY misrepresention at all, I point out the area in which they were untruthful, thank them, simply say I'm sorry but you did not represent yourself correctly, and walk away. I actually was inside his bedroom once and then decided that the extra pounds he had put on was a deal killer. I walked into the kitchen, told him how I felt and excused myself and left.....in the end it is MY money. And I NEVER worry about hurting there feelings or how they might react.

[rocky]

I appreciate everyone's advice! Yes chalk it up and move on I will and I should know better.

[jjkrkwood]

Why are these guys even allowed "inside" your home for any discussion ? If you need to say something (of course you do), it can be said without allowing the scort entrance. While I truly believe peoples feelings should always be considered to some degree, keep in mind that HE was not thinking about YOUR feelings when he intentionally Mislead you, and THAT should be the Trump card..

[MiamiLooker]

This is one reason I prefer to see nonprofessional pics. I want to see what the guy’s gonna look like when he shows up; not what he looks like with airbrushing, flattering lighting and makeup.

[bigvalboy]

Exactly jj, that is why I NEVER worry about there feelings, because they all know that they are misleading you.. and the one time I actually was in the bedroom, it was in his house not mine. At my house I stop them at the door. He had a huge oversized shirt on, and it wasn't until he turned to go get something in the kitchen that I saw the profile and the stomach...wow, well it took me all of 5 sec to decide to make my exit...He was of course appalled at my accusations, he said the pics in his ad were from last week, I laughed and said "sure they are honey" and walked out the door. IT IS A NEVER ENDING GAME.

[nynakedtop]

sometimes i feel that it is good to stay with a circle of regulars - that way you know for sure who you are dealing with.... but, then again, our mind does tend to wander, right?

 

unsure how to deal with this problem except that WORD OF MOUTH is the best shopping tool. sites like this one are wonderful for getting the word out, be it good or be it bad.

 

agreed?

[bigvalboy]

Or worse Miami, pics that are 15 years old. Now we all get older, and I like a fit daddy as much as anyone, but damn it be honest and if you are a bit older than say your glory days in the porn industry, that's ok as long as you stayed in shape, and many do, and recent pics are posted. And speaking of fit daddys...jj are you listening? lol

[bigvalboy]

Well said nyn..the guys on this site will cut right to the chase and tell the truth...there is so much information and good advice here free for the taking.

[josephga]

IMO photos are only relevant for 6 months not 6 years. Ask when were the pics taken. Let them know b4 they show what will happen if they don't look like the pics. For my business I shoot new pics every 4 to 6 months as a good business practice. However I believe if the client lets the provider in or enters the providers place then the provider then deserves to be paid with no later complaining about it.

[jjkrkwood]

Or worse Miami, pics that are 15 years old. Now we all get older, and I like a fit daddy as much as anyone, but damn it be honest and if you are a bit older than say your glory days in the porn industry, that's ok as long as you stayed in shape, and many do, and recent pics are posted. And speaking of fit daddys...jj are you listening? lol

 

BVB, i am bordering on 6-0 next month. I think I am more suited to the Granddaddy category.... OY VEY !!!!!

[bcohen7719]

In my experience: when I was entirely "new" to this scene, I was nervous and tended to just cough up. During a middle period, I became polite but resentful. At this point, I'm becoming jaded and angry enough to buy the device below for fake advertisers. If there were some way to "hack" into these guys fake ads/reviews and pull them off the internet...that might be best.

 

BC

 

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[bigvalboy]

Surely josephga you don't mean that!!!!! Are you saying that once I entered his home I was obligated to pay him, no matter what has taken place? You can't mean that? I must have misunderstood you. I didn't see his size until I had entered the bedroom, he was the one who had lied, not me. If anything he should have paid me for wasting my everning and my gas. There are a million reasons why you would not realize something negative about a person until you were inside there home or vice versa. Ie: not realizing someone is high is an example. I pay for services rendered, Period. You lie or are less than truthful to me I'm gone. Have you been reading the posts from just this morning, The level of dishonesty among escorts, is appalling and disgusting. If I choose to stay, then don't like what happened, ok then I pay. NO tip, but I pay. And ANYTIME that I am ripped off, you can be damn sure I am going to complain about it. That is my right and I really should let others know what happened. That's what reviews are for.

[bigvalboy]

Hey, a hot daddy is a hot daddy jj..you go girl. ;-) and glutes if you are reading this...don't you say one word. sssssshhhhhh.

[josephga]

no i'm talking about their face and body size not performance or the fact they might be on drugs. im saying if they look nothing like their photos there's no reason to ever let them in the door. say for argument sake escort arrives and is 20lbs over weight and looks 10 years older that person should never bet let past the front door.

[bigvalboy]

Read my post carefully. His face was as advertised, HIS STOMACH WAS NOT! And surely I have the right to take a few minutes to check out a situation. I'm not buying a freakin magazine at a newstand, this is BIG money we are talking here, no matter how wealthy you are. And if I enter his home and one or two minutes or five minutes passes before I realize all is not as I expected, I have a right to change my mind. AGAIN he is the one that has lied, not me. How does this become the clients burden? Once again, if I stay and don't like it...well that's a very different story.

[josephga]

never mind. lol

[JT Brooklyn]

"Once a Crap Shoot Always a Crap Shoot"! Especially for the Guys who are ALWAYS Searching for "New" Guys to try out!

[bigvalboy]

Thank you josephga, I bow to your graciousness.....sorry I got so worked up, but that might have been the Bourbon talkin.

[jjkrkwood]

He wont say anything here BVB, Now he just sends me private messages with Nasty comments. Hes a psycho and Loser as far as I'm concerned.

[jjkrkwood]

no i'm talking about their face and body size not performance or the fact they might be on drugs. im saying if they look nothing like their photos there's no reason to ever let them in the door. say for argument sake escort arrives and is 20lbs over weight and looks 10 years older that person should never bet let past the front door.

 

Well, maybe the lighting is BAD in the Hallway ??? I think the guys that are LET IN by clients, or the clients that choose to enter the escorts place and stay do so out of curiousity and Horniness. And horny relief COSTS !!!!

[jjkrkwood]

Thank you josephga, I bow to your graciousness.....sorry I got so worked up, but that might have been the Bourbon talkin.

 

Can I drop by when you are worked up ? ;-)