He's Just Not That Into You !!!

[jjkrkwood]

I know escorts are professionals who train themselves to deal with any client/situation and make the best experience possible...

 

But has any client ever felt that the Hire was just not that into him, and ultimately it affected the outcome of the session? (ie: ending it early, refusing to do things discussed and planned, lack of physical emotion, etc) .

 

Escorting to me is an ART, and the person needs to be a good and convincing actor.

 

But have you ever had an experience where the escort failed, mainly because you felt he just wasnt that into you ?

[jawjateck]

One time....many years ago, with an aspiring rentboy. I arranged an overnight with this guy, but after 2 hours or so, it was obvious that he had no interest in me, and couldn't fake it. I called it a night, and sent him on his way. I prorated his fee. He thought I was fair, and left. It happens, although once in 11 years is not too bad.

[jjkrkwood]

One time....many years ago, with an aspiring rentboy. I arranged an overnight with this guy, but after 2 hours or so, it was obvious that he had no interest in me, and couldn't fake it. I called it a night, and sent him on his way. I prorated his fee. He thought I was fair, and left. It happens, although once in 11 years is not too bad.

 

Well based on your Hot looking pic, i am surprised it happened even that once (wink)......

[Mark450]

Yep, a couple of times. I have to feel some sort of connection or it's no good for me. I sometimes wish it weren't the case but that's just the way I am wired. Anyway, there have been two hires where I could tell there was absolutely no interest at all. One we didn't even get our shoes off and ended up watching tv(I'm getting my time in no matter what). The other was more mutual. He couldn't have cared less about me and I about him. He also smelled of cigarettes. Big turn off.

[+ glutes]

I know you are a 'new' member here Mr. Wood, but this thread may answer some of your questions...

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/showthread.php?79047-Are-escorts-just-mere-actors&highlight=actors

[jjkrkwood]

I know you are a 'new' member here Mr. Wood, but this thread may answer some of your questions...

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/showthread.php?79047-Are-escorts-just-mere-actors&highlight=actors

 

Sorry I wasnt MORE familiar with your past work Glutes. Didnt mean to steal your thread.

[Lankypeters]

Only one that I can think of -- Mike Harvey, who's still around. I don't think the problem was that he wasn't into me. I think the problem was that he was into something else -- ten minutes to arrive in my apartment from downstairs; beads of sweat on his forehead in the dead of winter; picks up his clothes mid-session, goes to the bathroom, comes back mumbling about "a call from the great beyond." Limp dick all the while.

 

But otherwise, no. Some working guys better than others, but no one less than professional and engaged. New York, you know, is a magnet for actors.

[Lankypeters]

Only one that I can think of -- Mike Harvey, who's still around. I don't think the problem was that he wasn't into me. I think the problem was that he was into something else -- ten minutes to arrive in my apartment from downstairs; beads of sweat on his forehead in the dead of winter; picks up his clothes mid-session, goes to the bathroom, comes back mumbling about "a call from the great beyond." Limp dick all the while.

 

But otherwise, no. Some working guys better than others, but no one less than professional and engaged. New York, you know, is a magnet for actors.

 

-- And my hat and pants are off to all of them.

[orbital sander]

it is not hard to believe that this happens from time to time, especially with guys who are not seasoned professionals

[bigvalboy]

I have had the opposite happen. On one occasion I read carefully all the reviews, stared endlessly at his pics, and finally decided that he was the one. A nice 2 hour afternoon break was in the works, then dinner. I was sure he would be perfect and was excited like a little school girl. And then................he opened the door....Nothing, nada, zip..I knew instantly that it wasn't going to work. His pics were accurate, and his body was as he described, but I just don't know, there just wasn't chemistry. We tried of course, but being a professional he knew I wasn't going to get turned on. I was kind, blamed myself and appologized many times in the span of a couple of minutes. But he was cool, asked for nothing, and I was on my way. Ya know, it happens.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Yes, but only once. But, remarkably it was one of the sessions that helped me the most learn about myself. So even though the chemistry wasn't there, and the sex wasn't there, I got an awful lot out of the session.

[bcohen7719]

Yes, this happened to me. The escort made an honest effort to provide intimacy, but I could tell his mind was somewhere else. I could have communicated more honestly myself, but thought, "Why should this be so difficult for both of us?"

 

I moved on.

 

BC

[robberbaron4u]

"I'm not gay. I do things with girls too. My girlfriend came 22 times in 2.5 hours of hard fuck. She doesn't talk to me anymore. I don't know why. She wanted to marry me and I told her I had issues with her behavior. She wouldn't let go. She followed me. She said I was the best she ever had. A man gave me $100,000 in cash an gifts in one year just for having oral with him. Oh yeah, I like really young children. Isn't that sick? If I'm staying over I need my own bed. I don't like to sleep in the same bed with somebody else. Hey, I've got two balls you know." May I pay you to leave?

[bigvalboy]

rb4u, WOW.......others may comment on this post, but I just got up to start my day and I, well I just don't know what to say to all of this. I will be back this afternoon PST. Iam in L.A. :-)

[jjkrkwood]

ROBBERBARON often leaves all of us speechless !

[josephga]

ROBBERBARON often leaves all of us speechless !

 

lol my first bf actually wouldn't sleep in the same bed as someone. we lived together for a year and had separate bedrooms the whole time his choice not mine, said he needed room to toss and turn for a good night sleep. after we broke up he dated another guy for 3 years with the same results.

[jjkrkwood]

lol my first bf actually wouldn't sleep in the same bed as someone. we lived together for a year and had separate bedrooms the whole time his choice not mine, said he needed room to toss and turn for a good night sleep. after we broke up he dated another guy for 3 years with the same results.

 

I never do "out" sleepovers.... I need to be in my own bed, but dont mind sharing...

[seeker630]

ROBBERBARON often leaves all of us speechless !

 

[+ Gar1eth]

Yes--it's happened multiple times to me--the escort not really being in to me--not the majority of the time--but definitely more than 4 or 5 times. And a few times the reverse--me not into them. The time I most clearly remember not being into an escort was when the guy had put on about 20 pounds and looked nothing like his pictures.

 

Gman

[jjkrkwood]

Yes--it's happened multiple times to me--the escort not really being in to me--not the majority of the time--but definitely more than 4 or 5 times. And a few times the reverse--me not into them. The time I most clearly remember not being into an escort was when the guy had put on about 20 pounds and looked nothing like his pictures.

 

Gman

Well that session should have ended when you met him at the Door !

[Phil_musc]

This has happened to me (and fool that I am, I went ahead with the session). Actually, I can tell within the first thirty seconds of meeting an escort for the first time whether it's going to be a good session or not. And how do I know you ask? What is his body language - does he actually look AT me or past me or through me. If it's the first, and he smiles and shows me some interest (even if faked) in me as a guy, then it will probably go well. This is also why two guys at once doesn't generally wet my whistle. If they're a couple, I know I'm the odd man out and they'd really rather that I wasn't there (except for the $$ ) so that they could just have hot sex with each other.

[zeyfur]

I remember hiring an escort who had to look at straight porn. The moment he took his eyes off the screen he went soft !