I'm Not Sure What to Do, I just want to have fun

[rocky]

OK, been on this forum before. I may have offended some or asked stupid questions. But I am a mature, pudgy closeted man who enjoy's the company of younger men and escorts. That being said I also like the companionship of men and have been fortunate through this site and others to have someone to snuggle against. But I digress. I'm a "chub", 57 year old guy who wants to go and have some fun. I'm also not adverse to being generous to someone but not these unbearable weekend rates; treat someone well and have fun. So, my question is anyone have any suggestions where this mature chub, who likes to go to Florida (I'm in upstate NY) might look for companionship? I know there's silverdaddies, there's biggercities, there's all sorts of things. I guess I'm asking those out there to let me know I'm not alone looking for some fun. OK, sorry for taking anyone's time. Best.. Rocky

[Epigonos]

Rocky I'm not offended by anything you have said and I don't really mind stupid questions (I taught high school for 30+ years). My problem is I don't really understand what you are asking. In an attempt to address your question might you define what you mean exactly by fun?

[Zapped]

I think Rocky is saying he wants to hang out with and have sex, preferably with a younger guy, but can't afford weekend escort rates.

 

Depending on the location, Silverdaddies, Grindr, and even gay.com have been good places to find guys in their 20s and early 30s attracted to "daddy" types (I'm early 50s with a belly). I recently spent 5 months in NY and hooked up with lots of younger guys, and saw a 19-year-old a number of times. But it was like going fishing--sometimes nothing, sometimes lots of interest. So it depends on the location and, well, luck. I don't have a lot of experience with Manhunt and Adam4adam.

 

I'm pretty sure my 19-year old friend in NY would have gone somewhere for a weekend with me and all I would have had to do was pay the expenses. He bought me me dinner the first time we met.

 

There are guys who aren't escorts who are attracted to older guys who would love a weekend away. Seek and ye shall find.

 

And I hope I interpreted your question correctly.

[Samai139]

Rocky--don't have lots of answers to your questions, but I am in the same geographical area and have some similar problems. If you would write to me privately perhaps we could discuss possibilities???

[Diverdan]

Zapped has some good suggestions for you. It may take some time, but the old addage is true "seek and ye shall find"... Since you like to go to Florida, I suggest you spend some time at some of the gay clubs and stay at a gay resort. I have found that there are guys of all ages, shapes, interests, etc. and the hosts at one of the places I stayed were very helpful in suggesting places to go and guys to meet.

[josephga]

Ive met a couple of guys between 19 and 25 on grindr and manhunt and never had to spend a dime. I normally placed my profile and sat back and waited for them to contact me. I tend to let them contact me and let them decided how fast things progress. There's lots of young guys out there feeling burned and been treated poorly by guys their own age and are seeking out guys that will treat them better.

[jjkrkwood]

Ive met a couple of guys between 19 and 25 on grindr and manhunt and never had to spend a dime. I normally placed my profile and sat back and waited for them to contact me. I tend to let them contact me and let them decided how fast things progress. There's lots of young guys out there feeling burned and been treated poorly by guys their own age and are seeking out guys that will treat them better.

 

Or are they just looking for Big cock and muscles at any age ?

[josephga]

Or are they just looking for Big cock and muscles at any age ?

 

I think mentioning i spent 8 years in the army helps

[jjkrkwood]

I think mentioning i spent 8 years in the army helps

 

Oh yeah, thats BUTCH. ;-)

[josephga]

there's 9 bottoms for every 1 top in atl that can help too lol

[rocky]

Thanks, feel free to email me at [email protected] thanks

[rossthebosssf]

I think mentioning i spent 8 years in the army helps

 

And that you have really, really big low hanging balls ;-P

[GreatTop]

there's 9 bottoms for every 1 top in atl that can help too lol

 

I'm booking my flight for ATL today! If they need tops in ATL I am happy to volunteer my services!