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[Guest 2guys4men]

Hi guys, we were wondering if anyone knows where an escort(s) might advertise for a more specific client type (bondage to be exact). I know of RECON, but it is not a site for this type of advertising. Our men4rent ad has "kink" and "something you might have wanted to try" in there, and by all means we are not just looking for that, but was curious if anyone happens to know where we could advertise. Any feedback would be great!

 

Thanks Jake and Dane *2guys4men*

[doitb4ugo]

Hey Guys,

 

I do understand your problem...as a client who wants to hire for kink and BDSM stuff, I look at ads and can never tell if the escort has checked the boxes and is not really into the activities...There are few things worse than a kinky session with someone who isn't into it and does not have the necessary experience to work with you....I also realize that if your add is all about kink, you will not attract the guys for less wild activities. It is a problem for both escort and client....If anyone posts a solution for you it will also be a solution for us clients.....Thanks for the question.

[whipped guy]

...It is a problem for both escort and client...

Doit hit the nail on the head... There is the "scare away" factor, plus the "every box checked" factor. So in the final analysis it is a balancing act... As for advertising bondage specifically, I guess that you just did so by making your services known here in this venue... It certainly got my attention. However, I am not sure where to go from here other than to make every attempt to attract Leather and Folsom Street type guys via forums to which they would be attracted. Of course, getting a review extolling your virtues in the BDSM department would also help... but it would have to be written in a manner that would not induce the "scare away" factor... unless you planned to make BDSM your exclusive specialty.

[Guest 2guys4men]

I so agree. We don't plan to make it exclusive, but a weekend in a dungeon is hard to advertise! lol

[Guest Spanker01]

This is why I like rentboy. If the specialities, tastes, fetish, list is done accurately then it saves me the potential client much time. It would also give you the escort(s) exposure to a market you would like to cater to. With men4rentnow, I have to ask, and I do. What's really interesting his how many guys will be more than happy getting spanked. So yes we are out there, but it's up to you to either b e specific, or to use say rentboy.

 

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[whipped guy]

This is why I like rentboy. If the specialities, tastes, fetish, list is done accurately then it saves me the potential client much time.

Well, I like Rentboy the best as well... but the key is accuracy in listing the specialties... and as noted above when virtually all the so-called specialties and activities are listed then I tend to be suspicious... when only a few are listed then I generally tend to feel that the escort is making a reasonable attempt to narrow things down so potential clients can make an informed decision. Of course a well written ad copy itself will also tend to narrow things down as well

 

Still, it is good to get input from "other" sources as well... such as this forum, which can be a two-way street where both escorts and clients can enumerate and relate their predilections and personal experiences. So possibly somewhere along the line someone here will take 1 for the team with these 2guys4men!

[Guest 2guys4men]

thnx whipped guy! Updating our ad and interests and getting input from others connected us with someone really fun in DC, and we are thankful and next time we'll go much further with him, having open communication also helped.

[whipped guy]

...next time we'll go much further with him, having open communication also helped.

2guys... Yes communication is one of the keys... Also the joys of BDSM really know no bounds...

 

However, it must be remembered that the bottom line is that the bottom ultimately controls the action and that's where communication enters into the equation as well...

 

So keep it up and spread the many pleasures!