I want to marry Ben Nicholas!

[josephga]

Ok I just don't get the animosity this Guy inspires.

 

I don't get it either. He has a perfect track recond no negative reviews on any boards as iv seen so far.

[Diverdan]

Hi Tom,

 

Happy Thanksgiving belatedly! I have no animus towards BN. He is just not my type, but if he is yours, be my guest. We all have different likes and dislikes. I have never met BN and probably never will. I used to faithfully read his "15 Minutes" but eventually got very tired of it, and some of his comments. He obviously has a very busy schedule with apparent worldwide travel, so he is doing something right to please those folks. I also don't know why folks get so exercised over BN, but I suspect it may be because of some of his comments that he has made on his blogs. I don't ever remember reading a "bad" review here on Daddy's site, but I have never gone and read anyof them except when they have appeared on a particular day. Some say he seldom responds to emails, but I am sure if you called him to set up an appointment when he is in NYC he would respond. If I recall correctly, he does do NYC, Las Vegas and some other cities on a regular basis. So enjoy yourself, regardless of what others here might say. I always say, "to each his own" !

DD

[Guest alanm]

Now I don't know Ben personally. Have never met or had any contact with him but from the pic alone. ..... well I would consider hiring him. So I ask with trepidation at bringing this whole battle up. Please without screaming or making grand overbroad sweeping attacks. What is it that so riles up the forum about bn. Can his supporters and detractors in a somewhat analytical manner please explain. Truly I would consider hiring him so please without the animous that so pervades most threads on this subject. What is it about bn?

 

I am a detractor. If I respond this thread will take on an entirely new tone, as his supporters respond. Let it alone, Tomcat.

[Epigonos]

I am a supporter. Now with that said I would like to add that I most certainly agree with alanm with one obvious word change. If I respond this thread will take on an entirely new tone, as his detractors respond. Let it alone Tomcat

[Guest greatness]

I have never met BN. I don't understand why he is controversial but I think he is hot. Will negative comments here will hinder me from hiring him? Not really. Kisses and hugs~~~

[instudiocity]

Ok I just don't get the animosity this Guy inspires. I really don't. Ok the leather harness is not the best I agree but its not bad. The platinum blond hair I happen to like. Its a look and I know its not everybody's. But again not bad. I think his ABS are smoking and he verges on an edge for me. The perfect mix between twink and muscle boy. Lean and cut... I like that look.

 

Now I don't know Ben personally. Have never met or had any contact with him but from the pic alone. ..... well I would consider hiring him. So I ask with trepidation at bringing this whole battle up. Please without screaming or making grand overbroad sweeping attacks. What is it that so riles up the forum about bn. Can his supporters and detractors in a somewhat analytical manner please explain. Truly I would consider hiring him so please without the animous that so pervades most threads on this subject. What is it about bn?

 

Check your PMs...

[CowboyUp]

Yawn. Another tedious thread on this BN guy. Seriously? Some love him. Many don't. Let's move on.

[MsGuy]

Yawn. Another tedious thread on this BN guy. Seriously? Some love him. Many don't. Let's move on.

 

Elmer, an innocent newbie, posts a self portrait of BN taken from his blog and proclaimed his desire to marry the wonderful fellow. Here we are 32 posts and two days later and the thread has yet to self-incinerate!

 

Maybe we really are ready to move on. Let's all take a bow for our collective self restraint and, as Cowboyup suggests, do just that.

 

http://www.fungaijames.com/bloggen/wp-images/2008/2008%2010%2023%20ballerinas%2002%20take%20a%20bow.jpg

[instudiocity]

Maybe we really are ready to move on. Let's all take a bow for our collective self restraint and, as Cowboyup suggests, do just that.

 

I agree, after 1,200 views in two days its definitely a BORING subject. In my personal case, I prefer the boring position over the being bored position when it comes to our sweet BN.

[jimboivyo]

it's simple. Those who haven't met BN don't like him and can't really justify why. Those who have met him know he's the real deal. Those who are bored are only bored because bn doesn't cater to them as an hourly escort.

[Guest greatness]

MsGuy, I love you. lol..

[+ sf westcoaster]

jimboivyo, Some of us have met BN and don't like him.

[Guest macnva]

1 million posts about BN aren't 99.9999% as boring as the silly, inane, judgmental posts by 95% of the regular posters.

[jimboivyo]

1 million posts about BN aren't 99.9999% as boring as the silly, inane, judgmental posts by 95% of the regular posters.

 

lol. you've got a good point.

 

ben might not be everyone's cup of tea, but that doesn't stop him from being one hell of an escort. I can attest to that.

[leigh.bess.toad]

lol. you've got a good point.

 

ben might not be everyone's cup of tea, but that doesn't stop him from being one hell of an escort. I can attest to that.

 

Well I guess I'm going to try to open up TC's can of worms a bit. I'm a newbie here myself still (it seems like it's been forever but it's only 3 months today). A lot of the pros and cons seem to me to be speaking almost in shorthand at each other to those of us who weren't in at the beginning. I have no dog in the hunt either way. I do almost dread seeing his name knowing how it's going to play out. But for those of us who are still open minded on BN, could you answer a few questions: what does he do that is so vastly superior to any of the other great escorts we know here (let me throw a few names out: David-SF, Juan-Vancouver, Romann, Steven Draker, Tyger) -- why is he so vastly superior to these gentlemen? And could someone please explain what in the hell al the charges/countercharges are concerning plagarism.

 

TIA.

[Guest greatness]

Oh my Lee... Here is the link that will answer your question.

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/showthread.php?44331-The-Truth-About-Benjamin-Nicholas-15-Minutes&highlight=plagiarism

 

 

My eyes hurt so I didn't read everything. I think BN acknowledged it and apologized for it. Everybody makes mistakes and nobody is perfect. If he is a great escort then let him be and please leave him alone. Escorts have to make their living too. Kisses and hugs~~~

 

Well I guess I'm going to try to open up TC's can of worms a bit. I'm a newbie here myself still (it seems like it's been forever but it's only 3 months today). A lot of the pros and cons seem to me to be speaking almost in shorthand at each other to those of us who weren't in at the beginning. I have no dog in the hunt either way. I do almost dread seeing his name knowing how it's going to play out. But for those of us who are still open minded on BN, could you answer a few questions: what does he do that is so vastly superior to any of the other great escorts we know here (let me throw a few names out: David-SF, Juan-Vancouver, Romann, Steven Draker, Tyger) -- why is he so vastly superior to these gentlemen? And could someone please explain what in the hell al the charges/countercharges are concerning plagarism.

 

TIA.

[Guest alanm]

And could someone please explain what in the hell al the charges/countercharges are concerning plagarism.

TIA.

 

This is a closed subject. Ben was caught plagarizing relatively often in his blog by Doug69, someone who used to post here regularly. Doug69 started a long thread on the subject here several years ago. If you are really interested do a search. Ben apologized in his blog. So good for Doug69 for his detective work. Good for Ben for admitting it, and apologizing.

[JT Brooklyn]

Every once in awhile we get long drawn out Threads about some Working Guys who apparently are Old History with the Threads to match!

 

This BN Thread as usual is one..BUT in Time will also Fade away as usual.

[Guest greatness]

Brooklyn Guy, you sound like a wise sage.

[jimboivyo]

to me, Brooklyn sounds less sage and more like a 'know-it-all' without first hand knowledge. IMHO. ben was caught doing wrong years ago, admitted to it andhas continued to be a great escort despite it. Is it really an issue anymore? Those who dislike him use it as their only sword against him. It's a weak argument against an escort who is tops in his field.

 

on that note, i'm tired of fighting the good fight and heading to bed

[JT Brooklyn]

Since jimboi hasn't been around here as long as some who donot have short Memories and do remember the time BN told JT Bklyn to "Shut the Fuck Up"

simply because he didn't like the Truth in Print around here...YES Bklyn Guy is a "Know-it-All" concerning certain tired Subjects.....

[Guest elmer]

Elmer, Since you asked:

Bad platinum dye-job + Cheesy bra-like harness + Skinny boyish body with small forearms and wrists = Fem/Twink to me. If you, however, are into that type of guy, you should marry BN. But, imho, this photo does him no favors.

 

Well 'that type of guy' is what i am into. And I come with a large stock portfolio!

The rest of you can screw.

[MiamiLooker]

Can his supporters and detractors in a somewhat analytical manner please explain. Truly I would consider hiring him so please without the animous that so pervades most threads on this subject. What is it about bn?

 

I suppose I'd fall into the detractor category, but that wasn't always the case. Finding out that the blog he continually boasted about on this site was mostly lies changed my mind (I actually believed he took time from his busy schedule to attend lamaze classes with an unmarried pregnant friend). He spent a significant amount of time and effort simply to deceive. That, as well as his continual catty and nasty remarks in his blog about other escorts changed my mind. Something in his core just screams shady to me. Maybe it's something in the San Antonio water?

 

To this day, I still find it ironic that of the thousands of readers he claimed read his blog, it took one of his "detractors" from this site to notice the lies and uncover the crime.

 

That being said, as an escort, he seems to make each and every one of his paying customers feel like he's their best friend. Isn't that what's really important?

[Guest alanm]

That being said' date=' as an escort, he seems to make each and every one of his paying customers feel like he's their best friend. Isn't that what's really important?[/quote']

 

I am a detractor. But, I need to say that I have a friend of forty-two years and counting (I met him in Vietnam), who has the same ability to make everyone he meets feel he's their best friend. He was never an escort. Do I completely trust him? Absolutely not. But, we have had some very good times together. In our 20s, I learned how to travel to virtually anywhere in the world by myself, by watching him operate. My life would have been different if we had not met.

 

So I understand BN's appeal, beyond his sexual abilities. To his clients: Enjoy the good times, but be careful.

[NYTomcat]

Alanm & Miami. I think you guys just hit the nail on the head with what concerns me and has kept me leery. I'm the trusting type no doubt and I don't want that to change. Its a shame and I have no doubt from his reviews and his look that Benjamin is a stellar escort and that his clients adore him. And for that I give him a lot of credit. He has a hard job he obviously does incredibly well. It truly may not be fair to him at all..... but the cloud of contraversy that surrounds him makes me question his veracity. I'm afraid right now I'm either the too trusting or perhaps too vulnerable type to risk it. Perhaps later. He does seem to just get better looking with age. Lol