Im a New Escort

[Rick Munroe]

>You want to appeal to tops (audience)

 

No, I don't. I just want to show it off. I've had more oral bottoms into eating out my butt than I've had tops wanting to fuck it, and the fact that I don't often get fucked is proof of that. So...am I a bad marketer or what?

[Rick Munroe]

>Please note conventional spelling, capitalization and

>grammar... including stylistic choice of 'pic' over

>'picture'. :-)

 

Yeah, but that's my style! :+

[alanalt]

>Because if you know your audience there are going to be

>times when you rightly decide that "your message" is not

>appropriate.

>

>The better question, rather than asking "what is my

>message," is "how can I influence this audience."

>

>Audience first, message second.

 

Sorry, but I can just as easily argue that if I don't know my message, how the heck can I know whether it's 'appropriate' or not or whether I can 'influence my audience' or not?

 

"This above all, to thine own self be true"

 

Message First, then audience (damnit! ;-) )

 

Alan

 

PS - And if we keep this up, we'll be like the opening number of Fiddler on the Roof with HORSE!! MULE!! HORSE!! MULE!! (wonders if anyone will get that...)

[Rick Munroe]

>PS - And if we keep this up, we'll be like the opening

>number of Fiddler on the Roof with HORSE!! MULE!! HORSE!!

>MULE!!

 

Are you sure you're not quoting The Full Monty or Naked Boys Singing?

[Flower]

>* Don't ever just 'pretend' to have a good time while with

>a client~ make it enjoyable for yourself and make it REAL!

>There's nothing worse than a meeting that feels like an

>escort should win the Tony for best performance in a Westin.

> Trust me, there's ALWAYS something attractive and beautiful

>about a client...

>

>* Pure sex is only 25% of your success as an escort.

>Personality, commitment, timeliness, intelligence and

>flexibility are some key elements to succeeding in this

>particular world.

>

>* A clean, uncluttered and color-coordinated website always

>helps.

>

>* Always count your clients as friends: Live by the golden

>rule.

>

>* Stay away from drugs. *****.

 

>You're in a service-based industry. If you think of

>yourself as a concierge (with a few extra services), you'll

>be well off

 

>Benjamin Nicholas

>[email protected]

>http://www.ChiKindaKid.com

 

A word to the wise--That is very good advise from a client's point of view. And I believe he means all the stuff he says here and practices what he says--I don't know Ben--just my feeling, -- in fact, it makes me want to go to Texas, 'cause escorts with this attitude are too few and far between--so leave a light on ben. }>

 

Flower :*

[Guest Bitchboy]

I'm with Rick on this one. Fuck the bullshit stuff - if you've got a bodacious ass, all juicy and firm, you can be 104 and have a paper bag over your head, just point those mounds in my direction :9 :9 :9 :P

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

> A word to the wise--That is very good

>advise from a client's point of view. And I believe he means

>all the stuff he says here and practices what he says--I

>don't know Ben--just my feeling, -- in fact, it makes me

>want to go to Texas, 'cause escorts with this attitude are

>too few and far between--so leave a light on ben. }>

>

>Flower :*

 

 

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Thanks for the kind words Flower~

 

 

I just wish i had someone to turn to when first starting in escorting. This whole enchillada can be quite alot to handle at times, but in the longrun its always been well-worth it. If you can't love what you do and put your heart (among other appendages) into it, than why even try?

 

 

Thanks again for a true response~ it's not often that we can keep a serious subject serious for very long.

 

 

 

 

Warmest Regards (and being compared to a Motel 6... *snicker*)

 

 

Benjamin Nicholas

[email protected]

http://www.ChiKindaKid.com

[Rick Munroe]

>Personality, commitment, timeliness, intelligence and

>flexibility are some key elements to succeeding in this

>particular world.

 

And, of course, there's also the swimsuit competition.

[bluenix]

>Sorry, but I can just as easily argue that if I don't know

>my message, how the heck can I know whether it's

>'appropriate' or not or whether I can 'influence my

>audience' or not?

 

You don't need to know what you're going to say in order to know whether you can influence an audience. Lots of rhetorical devices have nothing to do with content. Besides, isn't it better to decide if you can persuade somebody before you waste time crafting the message?

 

>"This above all, to thine own self be true"

 

Sententious clap-trap delivered by one of Shakespeare's funnier buffoons.

 

>Message First, then audience (damnit! ;-) )

 

Talk to the hand. :+

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

>And, of course, there's also the swimsuit competition.

 

 

 

 

 

 

... And how could i forget 'world peace'

 

*gnashes teeth for camera and bats eyelashes*

 

 

But seriously, they are key elements to succeeding in this business. You're either the 'whole package' and worth something or you're half-assing it and not quite giving your clients the whole kit-and-kaboodle. Am i wrong on this thinking? Probably not...

 

 

Warmest Regards,

 

 

 

Benjamin Nicholas

[email protected]

http://www.ChiKindaKid.com

[+ Axiom2001]

In your face-- sorry if I misspelled your moniker, your eight pointers of advice were superb. What you wrote kept me from writing, but you were succinct. Why should I be redundant?

[BuckyXTC]

I'm weighing in with Boston Guy on this one.......I believe the manner in which something is written sometimes throws up red flags......and I have a pretty good illustration to show why I believe this.

 

I'm an avid eBay'er, and got an email this morning, purportedly from the eBay billing department, indicating there was some kind of problem with my information, and that I should click on a link in the email to take me to the proper place to provide information they needed to maintain my account. The email looked official, but the way the message was worded and constructed set off some alarms with me. After all, eBay is a multimillion dollar operation, and while the email link took me to a very officlal looking page that claimed to be eBay, I had my doubts. The page began with a warning that if I didn't provide the requested information within 24 hours, my account would be cancelled. The page requested my full name, including my middle name, social security number, credit card number and expiration date, special code from the back of the credit card, address, phone number, fax number, and a lot of things I was never asked to provide to eBay in the past. On top of it all, the web page was not secure, and while there was a link it said you could click to get a secure page, it didn't do so. I'm convinced that if I had filled out that form and sent it, I would have fallen victim to an identity thief. It's not that hard for someone knowledgeable to set up just such a scam.

 

It was my penchant for examining phraseology and grammar that most likely saved me a major headache and possible financial loss.

 

So how we communicate is important.

[alanalt]

>You don't need to know what you're going to say in order to

>know whether you can influence an audience. Lots of

>rhetorical devices have nothing to do with content.

 

Yes, and I can build a ship without a hull. Doesn't mean it's going to float, however...}>

 

Or, to put it another way, no rhetorical devices known to man were going to sell New Coke! x(

 

>Talk to the hand. :+

 

And you can talk to Rick Munroe's Avatar...;-)

 

 

Aren't useless arguments the best kind?

 

Alan

[Flower]

>Warmest Regards (and being compared to a Motel 6...

>*snicker*)

 

>Benjamin Nicholas

>[email protected]

>http://www.ChiKindaKid.com

 

LOL--- You know your advertising, alright. LOL.

 

BUT, No way I'd EVER compare you to a "Motel 6" Cutie -- you have at least a 5 Star (count'em * * * * * ) rating on my wish list. }>

 

I don't know from personal experience of course but that expression long predated Tom Bodet's Motel 6 ads -- just watch some W W II movies where the soldier going off to war always tells "his gurl" or his mom, "leave a light on for me" and the tears start to flo -- But none so nostalgic as Tom, I have to admit.

 

From an advertising point of view, however, and as an aside, I bet that ad campaign brought M-6 a bundle of money

 

Flower :*

[bluenix]

>Or, to put it another way, no rhetorical devices known to

>man were going to sell New Coke! x(

 

Correct. They developed the New Coke (message) but grossly misjudged their market (audience). Had they better understood their audience they could have saved themselves the trouble.

 

Thank you for multiple clever examples that support my point!

 

:7

[marc anthony]

>I'm weighing in with Boston Guy on this one.......I believe

>the manner in which something is written sometimes throws up

>red flags......and I have a pretty good illustration to show

>why I believe this.

>

>I'm an avid eBay'er, and got an email this morning,

>purportedly from the eBay billing department, indicating

>there was some kind of problem with my information, and that

>I should click on a link in the email to take me to the

>proper place to provide information they needed to maintain

>my account. The email looked official, but the way the

>message was worded and constructed set off some alarms with

>me. After all, eBay is a multimillion dollar operation, and

>while the email link took me to a very officlal looking page

>that claimed to be eBay, I had my doubts. The page began

>with a warning that if I didn't provide the requested

>information within 24 hours, my account would be cancelled.

>The page requested my full name, including my middle name,

>social security number, credit card number and expiration

>date, special code from the back of the credit card,

>address, phone number, fax number, and a lot of things I was

>never asked to provide to eBay in the past. On top of it

>all, the web page was not secure, and while there was a link

>it said you could click to get a secure page, it didn't do

>so. I'm convinced that if I had filled out that form and

>sent it, I would have fallen victim to an identity thief.

>It's not that hard for someone knowledgeable to set up just

>such a scam.

>

>It was my penchant for examining phraseology and grammar

>that most likely saved me a major headache and possible

>financial loss.

>

>So how we communicate is important.

 

You'll get NO argument from me that a major corporation like ebay should use correct English and proper grammar. I would expect the same from my employees as well...

 

I just don't decide whether I want to hire the hot, cute, luscious twink bottom boy by whether he uses slang or splits infinitives.

 

 

[alanalt]

>>Or, to put it another way, no rhetorical devices known to

>>man were going to sell New Coke! x(

>

>Correct. They developed the New Coke (message) but grossly

>misjudged their market (audience). Had they better

>understood their audience they could have saved themselves

>the trouble.

>

>Thank you for multiple clever examples that support my

>point!

>

>:7

 

Argh!! No, no, NO! If they had spent more time looking at the message (New Coke) they would have realized that they were never going to sell it to ANY audience!!

 

Why must you look at things so bassackwards? ;-)

 

Alan

[alanalt]

Blue,

 

Will you agree to a truce based on the proposition that message and audience are EQUALLY important? Or shall we continue this World War I trench style fight-to-the-death over something that's pretty trivial?}>

 

Alan (holding out an olive branch here, all the metaphorical blood will be on your hands if you reject...;-) )

[bluenix]

>Or shall we

>continue this World War I trench style fight-to-the-death...

 

 

Nah, I'm done. That was fun, though.

[alanalt]

Peace With Honour

 

>>Or shall we

>>continue this World War I trench style fight-to-the-death...

>

>

>Nah, I'm done. That was fun, though.

 

Well here we are jointly on the moral high ground having concluded an honourable peace. An example for others, no? ;-)

 

Alan (how's that for rhetoric? :7 )

[Guest eriktokyo]

Dear Sir,

You have already gotten so many good advice - so my two cents aren't worth anything: but stay true to yourself, keep clean, don't confuse names, number or dates, train your ears and listen well, don't talk too much, don't look at the watch, be firm, strict and enjoy the fun!

 

Erik - Tokyo

- happy to serve

[email protected]

;-)

[Guest Office_Pervert]

>I sometimes include longer dates which includes dinner or a

>show before the bedroom activities. On those occassions, the

>escort must be somone that I can take out in public and

>dresses appropriately for the evening. (I'm not talking tux

>and tails here, I'm merely saying that nice slacks,

>button-down shirt, etc. are preferable to jeans and a t-shirt.

>And, yes, I always indicate up-front when jeans are not

>appropriate.)

 

This is my attitude, as well. I'd always want an escort to dress up for his time with me.

 

I have many office fantasies I have and still want to play out and an escort in jeans just won't fit any of them, which is why I always make it clear how I want my escort to dress for me so I will not be disappointed.

 

I wonder how often a client will ask an escort to dress up, and whether most escorts see that as being a chore.

 

Office_Pervert