Guidelines for Clients on In-Calls

[veloboy69]

Any of you out there have any guidelines for clients on in-calls? When you do them, when you don't. Is it OK to ask for an overnight, etc.?

[josephga]

that's a good question. I always wondered the ones that did incalls if they had a separate bedroom that they just took clients too then maybe their own private bedroom that clients had no access to so they could say they have something of their own. When I was a massage therapist and did incalls I had a room set up just for massage. clients could go into that room and the bathroom only. I locked my bedroom door b4 a client came over I wanted to have at least one place I could call my own. I had this one guy once that didn't like that I had that room closed and demanded i open that door so he could check it out. I said sure I unlocked the door he went inside looked in the closet then under the bed. Then I threw him out. I have as much right to privacy as the next person and he abused it.

[leigh.bess.toad]

What a fascinating question that I'd never thought of. I gueWss one question I've got is do any/many/some do in-calls overnights. Or are those exclusively done away from your own apartment/home/castle. Would you be more likely to do it if it were an established client that you knew pretty well, and if was coming in from out of town specificially to see you? I'm hypersentive to the needs of everyone, especially the escorts, to have their own space, their own time, for personal matters. And the longer the engagement, the more I think that is critical and probably should be talked about beforehand. ;The more both parties feel secure in their own space and in their own minds, I believe the more intimate a connection can be made. Or is this idealized claptrap?