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I hope we can all get along and not fight. If we start to look at negatively on a person, it's endless. Let's focus on one good thing others here have and encourage their potential to do good work.

 

Anyways, I'm getting engaged!!!! Well actually I am going to propose to this wonderful girl I was introduced to. Yes I'm proposing to a princess. I don't think we are able to have children due to my medical conditions so I will probably adopt kids. I just wanted to share this good news with you all. After many guys in my life who left me for younger guys, it occurred to me that it doesn't matter whether it's a guy or girl as long as we love each other and love to spend time together. It has been partly my fault that those guys left me because I am not attractive or sexually passionate person. She knows. She is accepting me as who I am and loves me no matter what. It's been a while since I felt this kind of love so I am going for it. I'm practicing my proposal everyday in front of the mirror and plan to video tape it. Since I will not be a single any more I will just send you all dry kisses and hugs~~~ :)

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Are you with her because you love her or because you don't think you will find your prince? What if you marry her then the guy that will love you completely turns up a year from now? Just think long and hard over your decision

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Congratulations, Greatness. I am very happy for you...You know you are very special and deserve to live happily ever after....It has always been the emotion behind your kisses and hugs..not how wet or dry....

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I love her. Thank you for your concern. Just wanted to let you all know. Hesitated about posting this but have told a few of board members already and they support my decision. Kisses and hugs~~~

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Thanks~~

 

Thank you doitb4ugo~~~ You are so sweet. :)

 

Congratulations, Greatness. I am very happy for you...You know you are very special and deserve to live happily ever after....It has always been the emotion behind your kisses and hugs..not how wet or dry....
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My goodness Greatness. Congratulations!!!!!! If you love her, then go for it. All any of us can ever hope for is finding that love that makes us happy. Gay, straight, it's whatever makes you happy that counts. And that's what the bigots don't understand. Love is the guiding principal. I can't tell you how happy I am for you. I wish you and your intended all the best. Keep us informed on how things are progressing. Hugs and kisses to you too.

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oh my Lee

 

You are so perceptive and nice. Thank you for good wishes~~~.

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I hope we can all get along and not fight. If we start to look at negatively on a person, it's endless. Let's focus on one good thing others here have and encourage their potential to do good work.

 

Anyways, I'm getting engaged!!!! Well actually I am going to propose to this wonderful girl I was introduced to. Yes I'm proposing to a princess. I don't think we are able to have children due to my medical conditions so I will probably adopt kids. I just wanted to share this good news with you all. After many guys in my life who left me for younger guys, it occurred to me that it doesn't matter whether it's a guy or girl as long as we love each other and love to spend time together. It has been partly my fault that those guys left me because I am not attractive or sexually passionate person. She knows. She is accepting me as who I am and loves me no matter what. It's been a while since I felt this kind of love so I am going for it. I'm practicing my proposal everyday in front of the mirror and plan to video tape it. Since I will not be a single any more I will just send you all dry kisses and hugs~~~ :)

 

As a bisexual guy, I totally understand both sides of your story and let me CONGRATULATE on your engagement! I wish you all the best and I hope you two will stay happily together for a long time!

 

Hugs,

Peter

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Thank you!!!

 

Thank you so much Mr. Brooklyn Guy. You are so sweet. I don't have a lot of friends to congratulate me on this so I thought I would post this on here so I can get some congratulations. I'm always in love but couldn't find anyone who would return my love. Kisses and hugs~~~ :)

 

Mr Greatness.. The Best to You in the Future and much Happiness!
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Hearty Congratulations...

 

I am very happy for you, Greatness, and know that you would not do something without thinking it through. Love is a many splendered thing... just like the song and the movie... but it is that way in real life too. May you be blessed with many years of happiness, and don't forget about us. I really enjoy your observations and posts.

Dan

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Just to repeat what others have saids here - it's the loving relationship that's most important, and as long as you being honest with her and yourself, seize the opportunity.

 

Best wishes for a relationship that gives you what you need and lets you give what you need to give.

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Okay Greatness I feel I will be very deserved in receiving the comment "Well if that isn't the pot calling the kettle black," as well as being called Mr. Party Pooper," but what did not hear from you is your permanent good-bye from this site. This has to be a first, someone coming on here to announce they plan to get engaged to a woman. This is a site to discuss the hiring of escorts and other related topics mostly in the gay lifestyle.

 

I would hope the part in getting married is that you plan to devout yourself to her, something any partner, man or worman, in any relationship would hope for. Now I have failed miserably in that facet in life.

 

I hope you take the time during your engagement to get use to being a hetero couple and make sure you can live in the confines of those barriers. That is the purpose of engagements to feel out that process. So many of us early on get caught up in the ceremony and pomp and cirucumstances that we gloss over real issues or think the bans of marriage will change us or the other person. We all want someone to grow old with at some point but that is just not enough and sometimes love is not enough. We are who we are and we can not change for someone else, we can only change if we really want to change.

 

Anyway if you feel you can really walk away from this than great good luck but if not than I would walk away.

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Oh my Bart thanks for your concern. As for permanent good-byes. I did that so many times now people won't believe me. :) I live alone and sometimes it gets very lonely. I don't have a lot friends and have to keep many things to myself due to my job. Just coming here reading people's posts somehow makes me feel alive from time to time. I'm not that attractive. Even not so attractive guys avoid me. If I could pick and choose then I will definitely go with a guy but it's time for me to move on and there is someone who loves me for whom I am even though I have a lot of flaws. I love her too. I might post less but will drop by and see how everybody is doing. Anyways, I hope you can understand me better from this post if not I will write some other time when things are clear. Thank you for all your support guys~~~ Big kisses and hugs~~~

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I live alone have very few friends and don't feel particularly attractive either. But I personally would rather die alone sometime in the future than settle. You said if you could pick and choose then it would be a guy. so in some ways I feel your settling. I hope you at least have a long engagement to think about it some more

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oh my Joseph you are so attractive~~~ You have all those fans on your youtube site. I will be fine. I hope you can find your match. Kisses and hugs~~~

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Very best wishes, greatness, to you and your bride-to-be. No added advice here, except maybe to keep the ring bearer and flower girl away from the wedding punch. :)

 

http://manolobrides.com/images/2009/11/flower-girls-ring-bearers.jpg

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Very best wishes, greatness, to you and your bride-to-be. No added advice here, except maybe to keep the ring bearer and flower girl away from the wedding punch. :)

 

Even though these kids look like they are dead, you still come up with a lot of great images...where the heck do you get all these, just off the web?

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Oh my they are so adorable~~~ I'm trying to use my cat as the ring bearer but I don't think my bride won't like that. The wedding is a bit far off. I am happy now that I have at least someone.

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Oh my they are so adorable~~~ I'm trying to use my cat as the ring bearer but I don't think my bride won't like that. The wedding is a bit far off. I am happy now that I have at least someone.

 

Again, good luck to you and best wishes on your journey going forward...I like the idea of animals in weddings, but would gusss that it may be a bit scary for them..

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