Newbie Question

[xanadude]

Hi. Sorry if I sound like a total moron. But I am having my first encounter with an escort this week. He says that he practices safe sex. I'm just wondering if anyone has had any issues or problems with stds or am I being paranoid? Is it in poor taste to ask the guy about his medical situations?

 

Thanks in advance

 

xanadude

[doitb4ugo]

Congrats-Xanadude

 

First let me offer "congrats" on your impending encounter.

 

I think I can refer you to a post from a short time ago in this forum....see "When is it appropriate" below for good answers/advice regarding your question.

[NYTomcat]

First let me offer "congrats" on your impending encounter.

 

I think I can refer you to a post from a short time ago in this forum....see "When is it appropriate" below for good answers/advice regarding your question.

 

OK your new Doitb4 but keep this up and we will make you archive librarian.

[justaguy]

And...

 

you were doing what in the stacks with whom?

[seaboy4hire]

First condoms are NOT 100%. Second it is possible for him to have something and not know it in his mouth. Third you can ask him his status on any number of the std's but not everyone is truthful on what they have. Never ever ever take someones word that they don't have some kind of std to be the gospel. Fourth, if you don't feel comfortable doing something then don't do it.

[uwsman2]

re safe sex

 

The safest thing with escorts is to assume that they are having frequent sex and are exposed to lots of STDs, so even if they are pretty strict about playing safe, things happen. Also, peoples' definitions of safe are malleable. You have to rely on an escort's honesty, and have your own safe-sex rules.

 

I once became deathly ill after giving in to the temptation of one of the most beautiful butts I had ever seen and doing a bit of rimming - something I normally don't do for fear of picking up some exotic bug. Well, we showered together and I fingered his ass with soap and really cleaned him up - so I thought - then feasted on his ass. But within a day I was queasy and within a few days I could barely get out of bed. An emergency room doc asked whether I had recently visited the tropics, and I had to take some foul-tasting stuff to purge my system. Lesson learned.

 

Another time I received a phone call from an escort a few weeks after I had been with him. He'd just had his regular check-up and tested positive for something, so he was calling all the clients he'd seen in the past few months to warn them to get tested. That's the kind of honest escort you want to see. (I tested out negative for everything he warned me about.) It's why it can be a good thing to communicate with the escort in ways that he can get in touch with you afterwards if there is a potential problem, too.

[Guest KevinMead]

Dumb questions;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;never is there one.

 

Alway's ask questions, no matter what people think...............Just never ask the same question twice in the same conversation..............

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hi. Sorry if I sound like a total moron. But I am having my first encounter with an escort this week. He says that he practices safe sex. I'm just wondering if anyone has had any issues or problems with stds or am I being paranoid? Is it in poor taste to ask the guy about his medical situations?

 

Thanks in advance

 

xanadude