Playing With the Big Boys

[justaguy]

Let's say there an escort who sounds really interesting, well worth spending some time with. But 9+ is a considerable chunk of real estate. A decent blow job isn't just something I enjoy, I'm supposed to be good at it. Is there any way to relax my throat so that I can give this guy something more than a hand job with a little head attached. BTW, I briefly tried practicing with a dildo. I'm much better with the real thing. Thanks for helping. There's pride involved here .

[+ honcho]

Somebody told me that taking a really deep breath helps suppress the gag reflex, and it seems to help.

 

Sometimes changing position might help (like getting into 69 position even if your

partner is not going to reciprocate).

 

(and think about saying AH like when the doctor examines your throat).

 

I seem to recall Deej saying he played clarinet professionally once upon a time ... maybe he has some other ideas about opening up the throat.

 

[in my experience, the diameter of the cock is more a factor than the length, and dildoes aren't pliable in the same way as the real thing]

[Guest zipperzone]

Try lying on your back on a massage table with your head hanging down over the end. Then have your partner fuck you in the mouth. You'd be surprised at how much you can make disappear and your throat muscles are free to give him quite the massage.

[justaguy]

For me, the opposite tends to be the rule. The bigger my partner, the more I need to be in control of the movement.

[justaguy]

A deep breath. I haven't tried that, and will. Thanks.

[+ g56whiz]

A deep breath. I haven't tried that, and will. Thanks.

 

Be careful though. It may be the last breath you ever take! (But what a way to go!)

[KMEM]

g56-

 

So, you are recommending this as your euthanasia form of choice?

 

This is, if required and agreed to.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[runthemhoes]

try weed or poppers. poppers'll make you want to deepthroat a fire hydrant.

[Guest greatness]

oh my

 

That would be dangerous....

 

try weed or poppers. poppers'll make you want to deepthroat a fire hydrant.

[justaguy]

Stop those a long time ago. The rush was good, the headache wasn't worth it.

[justaguy]

Death by orgasm. Of the possibilities, not a bad choice :-).

[KMEM]

I have this memory of a book I once read about a guy in a nursing home who was on his last legs. One morning, he awoke with an erection. A staff member noticed this and decided that this old guy deserved release from this "problem". So, oral ensued with the climax being not only an ejaculation but his timely or untimely passing from this veil.

 

Just a book fantasy but one that I remember.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[GoodFella69]

Tips For Giving Good Head...

 

Hey Justaguy,

 

I hope you will find this article on "Tips for Giving Good Head" helpful. Although it is written from a female perspective, I've modified some of her suggested techniques on several extra-hung boys with "loads" of success. Happy Slurping!

http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sfo/1183264821.html

[justaguy]

I'd say something about the importance of timing to ejaculation, but that would be bad. :-)

[Guest greatness]

What a kind staff

 

He should work at my hospital... A male nurse would not even give me a blanket. Nurses didn't want to touch me when I was hospitalized because they thought I was contagious. I was so mad that I thought about rubbing my body against their bodies when they came back. Another male nurse took over the shift from them and was nice to me. I hate uncaring nurses and doctors.

 

I have this memory of a book I once read about a guy in a nursing home who was on his last legs. One morning, he awoke with an erection. A staff member noticed this and decided that this old guy deserved release from this "problem". So, oral ensued with the climax being not only an ejaculation but his timely or untimely passing from this veil.

 

Just a book fantasy but one that I remember.

 

Best regards,

KMEM